"Um, I'm on a really important work call" - he says, half naked in our bathroom

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I have no idea why you posted here other than you must not have any friends. This is such a non issue but you're trying to make it one. Move on and find something useful to do in your life.

No, the DH thinks he rules the roost and every single inch of the house is his office, complete with in-office shower and toilet. Pretty entitled. He was the jerk here, and you're a jerk for your last little comment to OP.

[Anonymous]

You don't have another bathroom? Seriously?

[Anonymous]

You have a master, so clearly you have more than one bathroom. Why didn’t you use a different one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People are really not meant to spend this much time together. Give your husband a break and apologize.

This, although the husband should apologize, too. If I'm on a really important call in a room with a door, that door would be closed. At the very least, I'd immediately give whoever was interrupting me the hand and then explain later.

[Anonymous]

Rookie mistake, wait until he hits the video button by accident lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are 100% wrong. I hate when people come in the bathroom to ask me questions. Just wait 10 minutes unless you are dying or the house is on fire.

+1000

[Anonymous]

I assume you have more than one bathroom in your house. I don't care if it's your master, of someone is in it go use another one. Don't stand around gesturing etc. You are not a toddler so don't act like one.

You can discuss logistics with your husband later and you really need to because you ,op have major boundary issues.

You don't just walk on on someone. Don't care if door is open.

You don't gesture to them . And you don't demand to know what they are doing.

I understand your husband's annoyance.

And no you have no justification in being angry

[Anonymous]

I get that you're annoyed, but this is such a non-issue. Don't sweat the small stuff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I get that you're annoyed, but this is such a non-issue. Don't sweat the small stuff.

I dunno, my spouse talking to me in a rude tone is a bit of an issue. She tried to approach/address it with a joke later, and he didn't apologize for being rude.

But yeah, if it one off, just let it go and move on.

[Anonymous]

Is this the only bathroom in the house?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are 100% wrong. I hate when people come in the bathroom to ask me questions. Just wait 10 minutes unless you are dying or the house is on fire.

You don’t have any of them bathroom to use? You sound like a drama queen.

[Anonymous]

This sounds as if he was semi-hoping that the bathroom would be the only room where he wouldn't be interrupted. And then the incident happen only to confirm that he can't have peace and quiet.

Looks like an accumulated annoyance. Not sure how many people are in the house, but in any case - he needs to chill. You didn't do anything wrong, it's still your home. Ask him to pick up a designated space for an office and don't talk to him 9-5.
Hopefully he won't choose the tub again

[Anonymous]

Do you only have one bathroom?? Go pee somewhere else.

[Anonymous]

He was rude. Who on earth takes an important work call getting out of the shower?!!?!?!


What lax habits.

[Anonymous]

OP said the door was open, people here can't read. The door is there for a reason. I'd be annoyed, too, OP. If he wanted privacy, he could have closed the door.