Fed up with isolation and newborn

[Anonymous]

Try to bundle up baby and still get outside a bit if you can, is my best advice. Good luck!
I do know other people who are requiring guests to be vaccinated and take rapid tests before seeing the baby. Idk if anything like that is an option. They are seeing other people outdoors on warmer days. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Fed up or not, you cannot expose your newborn to covid especially with this omicron variant that is so contagious.

[Anonymous]

Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP, this sounds really tough.

I would not reccomend going out to public indoor places, but walks if it is warm. Consult with your doctor if you are struggling with PPA and PPD.

It is tough, but newborns are vulnerable, even in non-COVID times. I'm a little bit on the conservative side, and even worried slightly about bringing my < 1 year old in an airport after reading about how contagious (nearly eradicated) measles was. I still did take her on flights in the end, but omicron is everyonewhere right now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

Uhhh no, try again. There are flat out rude responses. And yes it’s ok to be kind to someone struggling. You’re acting like the only two choices are to be a jerk or hurt a baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

Uhhh no, try again. There are flat out rude responses. And yes it’s ok to be kind to someone struggling. You’re acting like the only two choices are to be a jerk or hurt a baby.

Who’s hurting a baby? They are telling OP to act like a responsible parent for a newborn - who cares if she was bored?

[Anonymous]

I have an 8 week old and 3yo. I’m generally fed up after being triple vaccinated and taking precautions for so long. That said, with two kids who can’t be vaccinated including a small infant, I wouldn’t throw all caution to the wind. We choose our risks carefully- my 3yo goes to school, as that is important for his development, and we see select family who are also being careful. As it is. My 3yo has already been quarantined for exposure after only 2 days of school. It’s stressful trying to isolate him from the baby. This is a stressful time OP that is particularly trying while caring for a newborn. Solidarity. Hang in there.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it’s rough but remember you need to be careful of RSV as well especially with the staffing issues at hospitals. Dig deep. It will pass. Both my babies were winter nicu babies and it was definitely a bit like the Shining there for awhile. Definitely get out and walk. Switch off with your husband if you can. I used to amuse myself by creating funny photo situations with my baby - kills a bit of time. Spring is really gonna feel amazing. You can do this. Remember - there are few things more miserable than a sick baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

Lol. Laughing at the fact that you’re trying to pass as if the omicron variant warrants a new behavior for you. No, you have been commenting the same thing since March 2020 and will be commenting the same thing in March 2024. You COVID loons have lost all sense of reality and empathy because you haven’t had human connection in 2 years.

[Anonymous]

Just go out by yourself.

I do not bring my baby into stores but I go out for breaks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

Lol. Laughing at the fact that you’re trying to pass as if the omicron variant warrants a new behavior for you. No, you have been commenting the same thing since March 2020 and will be commenting the same thing in March 2024. You COVID loons have lost all sense of reality and empathy because you haven’t had human connection in 2 years.

Look up Covid+RSV or Covid+croup and get back to us

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get out and walk every day.

This is what I did last winter. My baby loved walks. It helped release a lot of stress for both of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who would go to the trouble of making a rude comment on this thread is not someone I would take seriously…

Posters aren’t being rude, PP, they are telling OP the truth. This is not the time to get “fed up” and “throw caution to the wind” with a baby. OP and you both need to take them seriously. You can’t poor-momma when she’s talking about exposing her newborn baby to covid because it’s not what she thought it would be like. Baby has to come first.

Uhhh no, try again. There are flat out rude responses. And yes it’s ok to be kind to someone struggling. You’re acting like the only two choices are to be a jerk or hurt a baby.

These responses are gratuitously mean. OP, read some Emily Oster. She has great perspective and as an added benefit, I’m sure she is hated by the worst of these posters on this hellscape of a thread.

[Anonymous]

Ugh op I feel you - this has really sucked all around. I had my 3rd in February 2020. So I was stuck at home with a 4 week old, 3 year old and 5 year old. Nobody obviously vaccinated back then. It just all around sucked. Good luck - it’s going to be a long winter.