POLL: Do you feel pressure to be religious?

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Why does the motivation matter? The outcome (people fed, gifts donated, etc) is the same whether it comes from a religious person or an atheist.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

So why is helping those families demonstrating that they are “very committed to their faith”.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

So why is helping those families demonstrating that they are “very committed to their faith”.

Because Jesus said to be kind to one another and love thy neighbor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

So why is helping those families demonstrating that they are “very committed to their faith”.

Because Jesus said to be kind to one another and love thy neighbor.

So they are following instructions? Not something they did on their own?

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

You don't know that. They certainly are expecting that their good works will help land them a spot in heaven. Meanwhile, non-Christians are kind because it's human nature. Christians, too, but they are taught to give Jesus the credit and believe that their good deeds will reap eternal rewards.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

You don't know that. They certainly are expecting that their good works will help land them a spot in heaven. Meanwhile, non-Christians are kind because it's human nature. Christians, too, but they are taught to give Jesus the credit and believe that their good deeds will reap eternal rewards.

Show evidence the churches are asking for praise? Where is your evidence for that claim?

For the record: not one dollar of help, not one food item for a needy family, not one gift was given to the over 400 students from anyone but the churches. Where is all this non-Christian, authentic charity and help you are crowing about? Because I didn’t see one jot of it.

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What type of job do you have at this school? A teacher?

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

You don't know that. They certainly are expecting that their good works will help land them a spot in heaven. Meanwhile, non-Christians are kind because it's human nature. Christians, too, but they are taught to give Jesus the credit and believe that their good deeds will reap eternal rewards.

Show evidence the churches are asking for praise? Where is your evidence for that claim?

For the record: not one dollar of help, not one food item for a needy family, not one gift was given to the over 400 students from anyone but the churches. Where is all this non-Christian, authentic charity and help you are crowing about? Because I didn’t see one jot of it.

In their faith tradition good works are NOT NEEDED to go to heaven. It’s through the blood of Christ only. They could give their entire bank accounts away to needy people and that’s not getting them into heaven.

I’ve explained that before and you keep saying they need good works and to do charity work and give money to be saved. No. That’s Islam.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

You don't know that. They certainly are expecting that their good works will help land them a spot in heaven. Meanwhile, non-Christians are kind because it's human nature. Christians, too, but they are taught to give Jesus the credit and believe that their good deeds will reap eternal rewards.

Show evidence the churches are asking for praise? Where is your evidence for that claim?

For the record: not one dollar of help, not one food item for a needy family, not one gift was given to the over 400 students from anyone but the churches. Where is all this non-Christian, authentic charity and help you are crowing about? Because I didn’t see one jot of it.

Where's your evidence that they are not? and since when do Christians require evidence for anything?

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Anonymous wrote:What type of job do you have at this school? A teacher?

Why on earth are you asking personal information on an anon message board? Creepy.

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Anonymous wrote:1) Have you ever omitted (or even lied) about your true religious beliefs to make a social situation easier? Yes. For a while in middle school I didn't really know which denomination my family was and mistakenly told people I was Catholic (we were Lutheran). In reality, I was agnostic.

2) Has anyone ever insisted that you believe in a certain god or religious figure? I had a friend in high school who was very into her evangelical church and always trying to get other people to go with her to their teen services. They definitely had the goal of getting other kids to be Christian, but tried to pass it off like their teen service was just a party or a concert that just happened to have Christian Rock performers and a pastor.

3) Has anyone ever made you go to a religious service? My mom made us go for a while when I was little. But then she got tired of me and my siblings and my dad complaining about having to go, and she gave up.

4) Has anyone ever made you participate in a religious activity? No.

5) Do you ever feel like an outsider because of your religious beliefs? When I lived in heavily Christian areas in the deep south, sometimes yes. Up north, not very often.

1) Why do you lie about being agnostic?
2) Did you go to her church? How did she insist you believe in God by extending an invitation to her church? Asking you to attend a church youth service is NOT insistence that you believe in God. Having a band at the service is forbidden? Why is that detail so ominous? If your friend said “come to my church friend, we will have a good time, etc,” she was not hiding the location of the event to lie to you.
3) Your mom had a right to take you to church.
4)
5)How did the people I’m the south make you feel like an outsider?

1) I wasn't (intentionally) lying about being agnostic; I just didn't have the words to define myself as such. My family belonged to a church, hence I had a religion. Just not one I believed.
2) I think you're getting a little defensive about this. Growing up mainstream protestant (and not particularly invested in the fact that there were different denominations), I had no concept of how my friend's evangelical church would be so drastically different from my own church. Her description of a party at her church was about how it's a concert for teens and the teen pastor was so cool. Was I naive? Yes, definitely. But I didn't expect a concert to turn into a sermon about converting your friends to evangelicalism and that part struck me as a bait and switch.
3) Of course she had the right to take me to church. But the question was about being forced to go and if I'd had a choice, I wouldn't have gone.
4) No snarky comment?
5) People in the south were incredibly nice and welcoming and interested in helping me find "a church home" which was lovely. But not being religious myself and thus not having or looking for a church home, made me feel like an outsider. It was about being a minority agnostic in a culture where the majority are religious, in contrast to the north, where people don't talk about religion as openly.

Thanks for the complete and non-snarky explanation.

People in the south who are religious are very committed to their faith. I work at a school in the south. 3 churches donated thousands of dollars of food and gifts to the students. They also donated amazing food baskets to the custodians, along with gift cards to a grocery store. They did this for every school in the area. Over 75% of the students at our school have families that live below the poverty line. It was very nice for the families to receive this at Christmas.

I'm glad to hear that Christians can be kind to others, although religion is not needed to be kind. Many non-religious people are kind without any mandate from above and without any expectation of eternal life.

Right. But to do what was done for these kids and families- churches did it. There was great need and it was kindly filled. Words talking about kindness and help are just words. These churches put their money where their mouth is. I really doubt the kids and families who received this help at Christmas are worried about the motivation behind the gifts and food. If these churches would not have stepped up to the plate, nothing, nothing would have been done. And somehow you think religious people can’t be kind? Religion doesn’t force anyone to be kind or giving. In this area good works don’t get you into heaven. It’s through the Blood of Christ only. So these people don’t even think they have to do such things to get to heaven. They are already saved and heaven bound. They just like helping people.

Some people are like that - saved or not. And who said religious people can't be kind -- no one. And no one should expect to be praised for helping people in need.

Those churches aren’t asking for praise.

You don't know that. They certainly are expecting that their good works will help land them a spot in heaven. Meanwhile, non-Christians are kind because it's human nature. Christians, too, but they are taught to give Jesus the credit and believe that their good deeds will reap eternal rewards.

Show evidence the churches are asking for praise? Where is your evidence for that claim?

For the record: not one dollar of help, not one food item for a needy family, not one gift was given to the over 400 students from anyone but the churches. Where is all this non-Christian, authentic charity and help you are crowing about? Because I didn’t see one jot of it.

Where's your evidence that they are not? and since when do Christians require evidence for anything?

I witnessed the program in action? The churches received nothing but the satisfaction of helping the kids. I also attended a Mennonite interfaith service and the Mennonite pastor had a box we could put the name and contact information of any needy families in anonymously, so they could help those families. The families didn’t have to be Mennonite or even Christian to receive help.

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Anonymous wrote:What type of job do you have at this school? A teacher?

Why on earth are you asking personal information on an anon message board? Creepy.

I’d question your credentials if you were a teacher. And I hope that you are not spreading these “beliefs” to the students.