Tell me your “one that got away” story…

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Anonymous wrote:I think I was the one who got away in this case. High school crush, he was a bit older, I was in love with him and I knew he liked me as well. Our families were friends so we always saw each other at events. he was very handsome, very popular with the ladies, had older and very good-looking girlfriends. Every time we met he had a girlfriend. But he always made it clear he liked me. Fast forward years later I moved away, we kept in touch, I always fantasized about him. Went back home and we happened to both be single at the time. We hooked up and it was awful. He had the smallest penis I had ever seen and also he told me doesn't do oral. I still can't believe how he had so many girlfiends. He still tells me he doesn't know how I got away. Anyway. we stayed friends and we are both married now and I have told DH the story because it is too funny.

It IS funny! Thanks for the laughter. lol

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Anonymous wrote:I can think of one. He was handsome, charismatic, smart and passionate. I was very attracted to him. He never wanted to be serious, but he pursued me a lot and when we were together I could tell he was super into me. He wasn’t on social
Media, but I googled him years after we last got together and found out he got married about 5 months after we last spoke/got together.

The woman be married was older, uglier and Jewish (like him)… I knew then why he never wanted anything more serious with me…

Two of my exes married far less attractive women too. And this is after being highly critical of me and my appearance while we were dating. I was very naturally beautiful, smart, fun, kind, great in bed, and madly in love with them. Dummies. But let those women have them.

And humble. Don’t forget humble.

It amazes me how many women think that men don't value anything beyond looks. Just going off these post I wouldn't want to spend more than 5 minutes with these women, I completely understnad why these men wouldn't want to spend the rest of their lives with them.

I know that some of you are in denial, but many beautiful women also have desirable attributes.

^^^other desirable attributes.

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When I was single, he was in a relationship. When he was single, I was in a relationship. The timing was never right for both of us at the same time. I had a crazy crush that lasted for years and he gave me the impression that it was mutual. I always thought of him as the one that got away, but the reality is my crush was probably just a fantasy of him.

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Anonymous wrote:In my situation, I honestly don’t know who let who go, but I miss him.

Similar situation. I wish things had gone differently for both of us. I think of this person often.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:I can think of one. He was handsome, charismatic, smart and passionate. I was very attracted to him. He never wanted to be serious, but he pursued me a lot and when we were together I could tell he was super into me. He wasn’t on social
Media, but I googled him years after we last got together and found out he got married about 5 months after we last spoke/got together.

The woman be married was older, uglier and Jewish (like him)… I knew then why he never wanted anything more serious with me…

He couldn’t have been that into you if he married someone five months later.

What I meant was that they were already engaged when I met him. I didn’t know obviously, but I found out when I googled him and there was the story on their wedding announcement of when they were dating/engaged and married.
He clearly wanted to marry a woman closer to his age and of his same religion… even though she was objectively ugly. He was just having fun with me… unfortunately

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Anonymous wrote:I can think of one. He was handsome, charismatic, smart and passionate. I was very attracted to him. He never wanted to be serious, but he pursued me a lot and when we were together I could tell he was super into me. He wasn’t on social
Media, but I googled him years after we last got together and found out he got married about 5 months after we last spoke/got together.

The woman be married was older, uglier and Jewish (like him)… I knew then why he never wanted anything more serious with me…

He couldn’t have been that into you if he married someone five months later.

What I meant was that they were already engaged when I met him. I didn’t know obviously, but I found out when I googled him and there was the story on their wedding announcement of when they were dating/engaged and married.
He clearly wanted to marry a woman closer to his age and of his same religion… even though she was objectively ugly. He was just having fun with me… unfortunately

I had similar one who led me on, but turn out he was a real player.

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A very funny, sensitive, brilliant coworker when I was in my early 30’s. He wasn’t hip enough for me at the time. He turned out to be a millionaire and well respected in our business.

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Anonymous wrote:Strong Attraction, but he was in serious relationship when I was single. And then I was in a serious relationship when he was single. Think about him often and wonder if what would have happened if I just went for it.

+1. I'm married now but I still think about him. He's been married and since divorced. College friends and I always wonder what if...

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He moved for a job years ago. Married someone semi famous. I did not.

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I had a good friend in college- handsome, really bright, driven, kind, fun - the total package. And… a horrifically bad chewer….

He was always interested in me and our friendship fell apart because i couldn’t go further than friendship because of the chewing. It was that bad.

Now he’s super wealthy and successful and buff and seems to live a cool, fun life and i always wonder what could have been if not for the chewing.

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Anonymous wrote:I had a good friend in college- handsome, really bright, driven, kind, fun - the total package. And… a horrifically bad chewer….

He was always interested in me and our friendship fell apart because i couldn’t go further than friendship because of the chewing. It was that bad.

Now he’s super wealthy and successful and buff and seems to live a cool, fun life and i always wonder what could have been if not for the chewing. [/quote

Bad chewer like when he was eating or chewing tobacco?

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Anonymous wrote:I had a good friend in college- handsome, really bright, driven, kind, fun - the total package. And… a horrifically bad chewer….

He was always interested in me and our friendship fell apart because i couldn’t go further than friendship because of the chewing. It was that bad.

Now he’s super wealthy and successful and buff and seems to live a cool, fun life and i always wonder what could have been if not for the chewing.

bad chewer like when he was eating or bad chewer like chew tobacco?

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Anonymous wrote:When I was single, he was in a relationship. When he was single, I was in a relationship. The timing was never right for both of us at the same time. I had a crazy crush that lasted for years and he gave me the impression that it was mutual. I always thought of him as the one that got away, but the reality is my crush was probably just a fantasy of him.

I have come to the realization that most are probably a fantasy and if we really ended up with them it would not be great. There is a reason they never panned out.

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My college boyfriend. We were together for two years there and then a year after. But things went downhill, although I wish they wouldn't have.

He started post-grad work in which he went to Antarctica. I like to say he went to the ends of the earth to get away from me.

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Anonymous wrote:I can think of one. He was handsome, charismatic, smart and passionate. I was very attracted to him. He never wanted to be serious, but he pursued me a lot and when we were together I could tell he was super into me. He wasn’t on social
Media, but I googled him years after we last got together and found out he got married about 5 months after we last spoke/got together.

The woman be married was older, uglier and Jewish (like him)… I knew then why he never wanted anything more serious with me…

Two of my exes married far less attractive women too. And this is after being highly critical of me and my appearance while we were dating. I was very naturally beautiful, smart, fun, kind, great in bed, and madly in love with them. Dummies. But let those women have them.

Mew Mew. Why do women always put down the looks of the woman a man winds up with after dating them? Maybe she's a nicer person and is willing to do more in bed?