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I can think of one. He was handsome, charismatic, smart and passionate. I was very attracted to him. He never wanted to be serious, but he pursued me a lot and when we were together I could tell he was super into me. He wasn’t on social
Media, but I googled him years after we last got together and found out he got married about 5 months after we last spoke/got together. The woman be married was older, uglier and Jewish (like him)… I knew then why he never wanted anything more serious with me… |
Two of my exes married far less attractive women too. And this is after being highly critical of me and my appearance while we were dating. I was very naturally beautiful, smart, fun, kind, great in bed, and madly in love with them. Dummies. But let those women have them. |
| I think I was the one who got away in this case. High school crush, he was a bit older, I was in love with him and I knew he liked me as well. Our families were friends so we always saw each other at events. he was very handsome, very popular with the ladies, had older and very good-looking girlfriends. Every time we met he had a girlfriend. But he always made it clear he liked me. Fast forward years later I moved away, we kept in touch, I always fantasized about him. Went back home and we happened to both be single at the time. We hooked up and it was awful. He had the smallest penis I had ever seen and also he told me doesn't do oral. I still can't believe how he had so many girlfiends. He still tells me he doesn't know how I got away. Anyway. we stayed friends and we are both married now and I have told DH the story because it is too funny. |
| He died 6 years ago. I often wonder if we’d still be together or what the relationship would look like. |
And humble. Don’t forget humble. |
Says the plain girl. |
He couldn’t have been that into you if he married someone five months later. |
Hey, one day they just decide to get married, and whomever they happen to be with at the time is who they marry. That probably accounts for half of all marriages, including many DCUM marriages. It’s not always that wifey was the best option they ever had. |
Similar situation. I wish things had gone differently for both of us. I think of this person often. |
Totally agree. Though I’ve never heard of a Jewish couple, outside of the super religious, who married five months after meeting. They were probably a couple while you were with him. |
sometimes that is true, and even if current wife isn't the best option doesn't mean you were the best option for him, could have been someone else. |
It amazes me how many women think that men don't value anything beyond looks. Just going off these post I wouldn't want to spend more than 5 minutes with these women, I completely understnad why these men wouldn't want to spend the rest of their lives with them. |
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About a year and a half after...and over a year of not hearing from her at all...I got a text out of the blue...
We meet up and she's more beautiful than I remember. My got away story turned into moving in together, then married. The noises she makes when she sleeps are still adorable. |
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She was an average looking woman with great talents in the kitchen and bedroom that would satisfy any guy’s cravings. She was energetic and adventurous, divorced with twin girls and a son. Her ex-husband was a crazy m-f*ck£r who didn’t have anything to lose, and only sought revenge for her walking out.
Couldn’t risk loosing my government security clearances by some opioid crazed ex-husband seeking revenge. How I miss her culinary creations and bedroom acrobatics. Often wonder where we’d be in life had her ex-husband not interfered. |
I know that some of you are in denial, but many beautiful women also have desirable attributes. |