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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that everyone’s dealbreakers, no matter how petty, are legitimate. If I’m rejected for not being 6’4 or not making 7 figures I chalk it up to not being her type and don’t blame it in society.[/quote]

No one is blaming society. The problem is when someone won’t be with someone they actually like bc they don’t have the balls to care more about their actual attraction than peer pressure.[/quote]

That' doesn't happen that often though despite what boards have you believe. If someone was really into you they would give you a shot,  the fact is that they aren't with someone who is into you. The funny thing is so many of the women complaining a guy won't be with her because she's fat or a guy complaining a girl won't be with him because he's too short won't give everyone a chance either because they aren't attracted to them. I guess it's fine for them to be picky or have a preference, but if someone isn't into them they're shallow or have been corrupted and too afraid because of society.
Nobody owes you a  date, if you are fortunate to find someone interested in you give them a shot, instead of whining about the person who isn't interested in you.

As for the OP,  the coworker just sounds like your garden variety douche.[/quote]

Again, these are not the same thing. Not talking about people who make excuses for their own unpopularity. This question specifically refers to the OP, who is asking whether he should cow tow to peer pressure vs actually commit to someone he already finds attractive. That is just loserville. If you love this woman go get her, who cares what others think.[/quote]

That's how you interpret ops question. I interpret it as more whining by op.

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