Primping for DH- is this abnormal??

Anonymous
I would never do this and don’t know anyone who does. I just don’t even think of how I look at home unless we’re having a nice dinner or holiday.
Anonymous
I brush my teeth and freshen makeup. I know a girl who gets glammed up fir her husband. She also has a trampoline stamp and he’s beaten her before.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I brush my teeth and freshen makeup. I know a girl who gets glammed up fir her husband. She also has a trampoline stamp and he’s beaten her before.


Lol
Trampoline
Anonymous
Yeah, I try to look cute for my husband. I think it’s weird that people think it’s weird. That said, I am currently scrolling on my phone in mismatched pajamas and hardcore RBF so for me it’s not a 24/7 thing lol.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m a sahm. I obviously get ready in the morning (simple hair, light makeup, casual clothes) but I also do a little refresh before DH comes home. Usually this is just brushing hair, touching up makeup and maybe changing into something a little more comfortable but more revealing than my daytime outfit (short shorts, cropped tank, low cut v neck etc). I do not feel any pressure or expectations from DH regarding any of this.

Anyway, I was talking to a few friends and it was brought up that I did this. They pressed for details and thought the whole thing was totally weird and silly, especially considering that DH sees me au natural at night and in the morning. I didn’t think this was a strange thing to do but my friends completely roasted me. What do you think dcum? Do you do this? Is this strange?


This post was written by a man. Women do not talk about clothing like this.
Anonymous
I don't think it's weird at all. I personally don't do it because I am lazy lol but nothing wrong with it at all!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do you also hide botox? Pretend it's natural?

Sounds like you aren't comfortable being less than perfect with DH. You are insecure


OP here, I haven’t gotten any Botox or other work before but I have told DH I’m kind of curious/interested in trying it. I wouldn’t hide this if I did get it done.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I brush my teeth and freshen makeup. I know a girl who gets glammed up fir her husband. She also has a trampoline stamp and he’s beaten her before.



This is sad.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m a sahm. I obviously get ready in the morning (simple hair, light makeup, casual clothes) but I also do a little refresh before DH comes home. Usually this is just brushing hair, touching up makeup and maybe changing into something a little more comfortable but more revealing than my daytime outfit (short shorts, cropped tank, low cut v neck etc). I do not feel any pressure or expectations from DH regarding any of this.

Anyway, I was talking to a few friends and it was brought up that I did this. They pressed for details and thought the whole thing was totally weird and silly, especially considering that DH sees me au natural at night and in the morning. I didn’t think this was a strange thing to do but my friends completely roasted me. What do you think dcum? Do you do this? Is this strange?


This post was written by a man. Women do not talk about clothing like this.



I think you may be onto something
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m a sahm. I obviously get ready in the morning (simple hair, light makeup, casual clothes) but I also do a little refresh before DH comes home. Usually this is just brushing hair, touching up makeup and maybe changing into something a little more comfortable but more revealing than my daytime outfit (short shorts, cropped tank, low cut v neck etc). I do not feel any pressure or expectations from DH regarding any of this.

Anyway, I was talking to a few friends and it was brought up that I did this. They pressed for details and thought the whole thing was totally weird and silly, especially considering that DH sees me au natural at night and in the morning. I didn’t think this was a strange thing to do but my friends completely roasted me. What do you think dcum? Do you do this? Is this strange?


This post was written by a man. Women do not talk about clothing like this.


Yeah that bolded section is sus. "Just a married mom of three little kids taking a quick 2 minutes to put on my booty shorts and cropped tank top before DH gets home, what's weird about that?"
Anonymous
My spouse and I are retired and spend most days together, but at the end of the day, we both change into nicer clothes to spend the evening together. We like to look nice for each other. And we have a great sex life, too, so I guess it works out for us.
Anonymous
It’s not weird, OP. I would want to look respectable for any non-child who I’m going to see. Of course, you don’t NEED to do it, but it’s nice to have someone you want to come home to you, and someone who’s happy to be there.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m a sahm. I obviously get ready in the morning (simple hair, light makeup, casual clothes) but I also do a little refresh before DH comes home. Usually this is just brushing hair, touching up makeup and maybe changing into something a little more comfortable but more revealing than my daytime outfit (short shorts, cropped tank, low cut v neck etc). I do not feel any pressure or expectations from DH regarding any of this.

Anyway, I was talking to a few friends and it was brought up that I did this. They pressed for details and thought the whole thing was totally weird and silly, especially considering that DH sees me au natural at night and in the morning. I didn’t think this was a strange thing to do but my friends completely roasted me. What do you think dcum? Do you do this? Is this strange?


This post was written by a man. Women do not talk about clothing like this.


Yeah that bolded section is sus. "Just a married mom of three little kids taking a quick 2 minutes to put on my booty shorts and cropped tank top before DH gets home, what's weird about that?"


Haha I swear, I really am a woman. I guess that was a weird way to phrase it but I was trying to explain that I put on something comfortable but not frumpy/a little sexy. And I really do wear short shorts and crop tops around the house.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s not weird, OP. I would want to look respectable for any non-child who I’m going to see. Of course, you don’t NEED to do it, but it’s nice to have someone you want to come home to you, and someone who’s happy to be there.


OP here. Yes, it’s not that I always have to look perfect, just that I enjoy looking good. He sees me in sweats and an old t often enough so I like to make an effort, also.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s not weird, OP. I would want to look respectable for any non-child who I’m going to see. Of course, you don’t NEED to do it, but it’s nice to have someone you want to come home to you, and someone who’s happy to be there.


OP here. Yes, it’s not that I always have to look perfect, just that I enjoy looking good. He sees me in sweats and an old t often enough so I like to make an effort, also.



Definitely a man.
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