Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

[Anonymous]

You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.

[Anonymous]

400k income she’s freaking out about a $500 repair?
Flat tires happen. That it why people having savings accounts.
Even my ex who did freak out about this stuff (and made wayyyy less money) would not have been so ridiculous to demand an apology.

[Anonymous]

You seem miserable. Any kids? If no kids, divorce her. Trust me. You will be so much happier
Life is too short.

[Anonymous]

This is silly. It’s not about the tires. There’s something else going on - do you guys have great sex? Dates? Does she feel loved, cherished and supported? Do you TALK to her when you’re upset in an empathetic way? Does she feel she can influence you when you don’t agree with her?

She sounds like she’s a little nuts, but so do you. Like attracts like. Work on it and grow together!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.

+1

[Anonymous]

you sound super whiney, no wonder she’s pissed - she’s dealing with a baby

[Anonymous]

I would be reaching for something harder than seltzer in this particular situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.

Take care of what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is silly. It’s not about the tires. There’s something else going on - do you guys have great sex? Dates? Does she feel loved, cherished and supported? Do you TALK to her when you’re upset in an empathetic way? Does she feel she can influence you when you don’t agree with her?

She sounds like she’s a little nuts, but so do you. Like attracts like. Work on it and grow together!

You are nuts!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is your wife a Virgo?

I’m a Virgo and I’d feel sorry for my husband for having such a sh—-ty day!

[Anonymous]

What a horror. Sounds like my husband who whenever he gets angry at something, likes to point fingers at others and demand ridiculous apologies.

[Anonymous]

Apologize for what? She sounds nuts!

[Anonymous]

You are a nauseating doormat. Man up, you spineless whelp.

"She told me to find the cheapest fix" -- make your own decision about what tires you want on your car FFS.

"I was texting my DW periodically with updates" -- what are you, a little boy who needs constant reassurance and approval from mommy?

"I apologized in the moment" -- pardon me while I puke.

As for all the demands for apology and nagging, what you should do is read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty and use some of its techniques such as fogging.

[Anonymous]

Your wife's insanity -- is this a new development or has she always been like this?

If it's a new development, maybe have her see a doctor for a physical?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Shouldn’t have purchased a vehicle that requires expensive tires, parts, etc. I would have told her to go F herself

This was my EXACT thought.