Perfume is Unfashionable and Inconsiderate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't wear perfume but I wear pantyhose. Am I also unfashionable and inconsiderate? Am I a total social pariah now?

Lowkey I wish pantyhose would come back in style. When I studied abroad I had a flatmate from Germany who would always wear pantyhose with her going-out dresses and clubbing outfits which really surprised me. They made her legs look amazing! Why do they get such a bad rap?

For you darling.

[Anonymous]

Is you cannot smell my perfume you are COVID +ive.

Wearing perfume - fashionable, considerate, lovely and providing service to humanity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where's the data on fatal perfume accidents?

Otherwise, this comes down to "personal preference," just as I feel all dogs smell gross.

This. So much this.

Some people do have fragrance sensitivities, but I've not been made aware of any case of death by asthma attack from other people's perfume. I really doubt it is a thing or there would be a more widespread campaign for awareness and scent reduction.

People with true needs can get reasonable accommodations such as permanent work from home or an office in a distant part of the building that ensures minimal contact with others. The number of people who can medically document this level of sensitivity is quite low.

Most people who are very vocal about this simply have an intense dislike of scents. But many people have favorite shampoos, lotions, or soaps that do not come in unscented form. They may need to use Icy Hot or a topical cream that contains a scent. It doesn't make sense to prioritize a small but incredibly vocal minority's preferences above everyone else's.

The world contains a lot of scents. I hate to say this, but learning to cope with the various scents-- food, people, nature, and yes shampoo-- is a YOU problem. You can go to therapy for anxiety and learn coping skills to deal with it without imposing on everyone.

[Anonymous]

I work at an airport and cannot stand this utterly inconsiderate, arrogant and pointless trend of strong perfumes. It is as bad as smoking and should be banned indoors, public transports, aircrafts. There are actually people who fly longhaul and think it is ok to spray themselves with s*** they like. Why do they think other people like it ?????
YOU invade my space with artificial smell that makes me sick. It is a delusion of being cool that is sold to ignorant people through advertising. If you think it completes you in any way, you must

[Anonymous]

If I can smell your cloying Angel perfume at an outdoor sporting event, you are wearing too much.

[Anonymous]

Why did you resurrect this topic from 2021?

You’re insane if you think perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke. And I’m no fan of overly strong perfumes.

[Anonymous]

I have not bothered to read this entire thread, but I will say that I wear perfume all the time. I dab a small amount on my chest so the smell goes up my nose all day. Only flower scents. Why, because I have a sensitive nose and it makes my nose happy. And it helps me not smell everything else on the streets, on the metro of where ever I am. It isn’t enough to leave a trail, or take over a room. If you can seriously smell me, you are too close to me and in my personal space.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did you resurrect this topic from 2021?

You’re insane if you think perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke. And I’m no fan of overly strong perfumes.

What's wrong with resurrecting a topic? That's the beauty of the internet. It's still there.
The topic is still as applicable in 2021 as it is in 2022.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did you resurrect this topic from 2021?

You’re insane if you think perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke. And I’m no fan of overly strong perfumes.

DP but to some of us it's just as bad. But I love how anyone with a different opinion from yours is "insane".

[Anonymous]

How can anyone smell perfume through all the air freshener? I remember when "too much perfume" was considered rude. Now I think perfume is a waste of money because of all the air freshener everywhere. Everyone smells cheap. Why bother with perfume.

Founded in an outhouse, tweaked in a Port-A-Potty and perfected in a diaper pail. Now ready for your home and office. Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I saw Goody Proctor with Chanel No. 5

Did you ever know that you’re my hero?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work at an airport and cannot stand this utterly inconsiderate, arrogant and pointless trend of strong perfumes. It is as bad as smoking and should be banned indoors, public transports, aircrafts. There are actually people who fly longhaul and think it is ok to spray themselves with s*** they like. Why do they think other people like it ?????
YOU invade my space with artificial smell that makes me sick. It is a delusion of being cool that is sold to ignorant people through advertising. If you think it completes you in any way, you must

They have to use more and more to smell it over all the laundry detergent smells, scent boosters, dryer sheets and plug-in air fresheners. They probably can hardly smell anything at all anymore, much less perfume. Imagine smelling or licking a lover's skin and tasting dryer sheets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did you resurrect this topic from 2021?

You’re insane if you think perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke. And I’m no fan of overly strong perfumes.

What's wrong with resurrecting a topic? That's the beauty of the internet. It's still there.
The topic is still as applicable in 2021 as it is in 2022.

DP- But you’re stirring the pot. Aren’t 20 pages in this enough?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did you resurrect this topic from 2021?

You’re insane if you think perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke. And I’m no fan of overly strong perfumes.

DP but to some of us it's just as bad. But I love how anyone with a different opinion from yours is "insane".

Really? You think saying perfume is as bad as cigarette smoke is a sane statement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Sorry, I will keep wearing a minuscule dab of J'Adore, or Poison, my two favorite perfumes. I have a very sensitive sense of smell and a tiny dab goes a very long way. Feel free to tell me that you can't stand the way I smell. I won't be offended, but I will keep doing something non-lethal that makes me happy.

Also, my son has anaphylactic allergies to peanuts and tree nuts, and I do not appreciate that people like you demand that others cater to their sensitivities when others need to carry Epipens for their lethal allergies and navigate potentially deadly situations, often daily, without making a big deal out of it. As a general rule, I've noticed that the people with the biggest burdens in life don't make the most noise.

Sure, because they're exhausted.

Perfume is not food, though, and it's unnecessary. I'm not at all allergic, merely annoyed that you're subjecting me to your scent choice, which I cannot escape, especially indoors.

I could get behind updating social etiquette regarding perfumes to promote wearing them only for outdoor events. I really don't want to smell your Poison while enjoying a night out at a restaurant or the Kennedy Center...

A miniscule dab might be fine, though, as long as I couldn't smell you unless I was quite close to you. I think we are all talking about people who like to announce their presence by their scent and put on way too much.

No, there are rabid anti-perfume people who want it basically banned anywhere, in any amount.

because it gives them migraines.