I’m so freaking tired of parents with 3+ kids complaining

[Anonymous]

You guys should start a new thread called “we have three more kids and a complete inability to think critically!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:this is what happens when you let your husband bully you into not having #3.

This. Goodness, please try to get over it.

Huh? Who are you talking to? Get over what?

The OP. Get over not having a third child.
Someone asked how to make trips to the pool work better with three kids, and the OP started this mean thread. I don’t know what it’s about, but I don’t believe that she was really so shocked by the audacity of that poster to pose such a question. It was a pretty neutral question. The OP just seems to be looking for a reason to put down moms of 3+ kids.

She said she didn’t want three kids. Are you guys completely incapable of reading comprehension? Or do you just want to project so you can be defensive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this is what happens when you let your husband bully you into not having #3.

This. Goodness, please try to get over it.

Huh? Who are you talking to? Get over what?

The OP. Get over not having a third child.
Someone asked how to make trips to the pool work better with three kids, and the OP started this mean thread. I don’t know what it’s about, but I don’t believe that she was really so shocked by the audacity of that poster to pose such a question. It was a pretty neutral question. The OP just seems to be looking for a reason to put down moms of 3+ kids.

She said she didn’t want three kids. Are you guys completely incapable of reading comprehension? Or do you just want to project so you can be defensive?

Nope. I am perfectly willing to believe that she just the kind of person who walks around looking for ways to put down other mothers, and there is no underlying reason.

[Anonymous]

I had 2 kids. For 4 minutes. Then I had 3

I didn’t ask the egg to divide, but it did. No ART.

Pool time with twinsies was a little rough a while. We made it work. No complaining.

And even though I have 3, I don’t mind a bit watching another if needed. Parents who complain about healthy, active kids need a nice dose of STFU.

Boo yah.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this is what happens when you let your husband bully you into not having #3.

This. Goodness, please try to get over it.

Huh? Who are you talking to? Get over what?

The OP. Get over not having a third child.
Someone asked how to make trips to the pool work better with three kids, and the OP started this mean thread. I don’t know what it’s about, but I don’t believe that she was really so shocked by the audacity of that poster to pose such a question. It was a pretty neutral question. The OP just seems to be looking for a reason to put down moms of 3+ kids.

She said she didn’t want three kids. Are you guys completely incapable of reading comprehension? Or do you just want to project so you can be defensive?

Why should we believe her statement? Her reaction to the other OP’s question about her pool situation is so completely over the top, that normal people have to question her reasons. Or maybe she’s just nuts, which is also possible.

[Anonymous]

I hope none of you are teaching your giant broods logical reasoning.

Things OP said:
- It frustrates her when people complain about the logistics of something they (in the vast majority of cases) had the ability to control
- She feels bad for kids in large families who miss out on things because their parents aren't capable of managing the logistics of those families

Things the OP did not say:
- This applies to every large family
- Large families are bad
- Small families are better
- Her husband is a bully who didnt want a third kid (what?)
- No one should have three kids

I could go on...

[Anonymous]

Wow. OP you sound awful and I’m glad we aren’t friends.

While there is some element of choice in how many kids you have, there is a lot left unknown that you cannot anticipate. And situations can change.

As with the majority of things people complain about in life, some element of personal choice was at play somewhere along the line contributing to that situation (spouse, job, house problems, appearance, health, cost of living, an accident, and yes children).

If you don’t like to hear people complaining in general, fair enough, but to say people can’t complain about something because it was “their choice to have kids” is stupid and that argument can be used broadly for any complaint.

I hope you complain about nothing ever OP..oh wait you do, clearly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow. OP you sound awful and I’m glad we aren’t friends.

While there is some element of choice in how many kids you have, there is a lot left unknown that you cannot anticipate. And situations can change.

As with the majority of things people complain about in life, some element of personal choice was at play somewhere along the line contributing to that situation (spouse, job, house problems, appearance, health, cost of living, an accident, and yes children).

If you don’t like to hear people complaining in general, fair enough, but to say people can’t complain about something because it was “their choice to have kids” is stupid and that argument can be used broadly for any complaint.

I hope you complain about nothing ever OP..oh wait you do, clearly.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope none of you are teaching your giant broods logical reasoning.

Things OP said:
- It frustrates her when people complain about the logistics of something they (in the vast majority of cases) had the ability to control
- She feels bad for kids in large families who miss out on things because their parents aren't capable of managing the logistics of those families

Things the OP did not say:
- This applies to every large family
- Large families are bad
- Small families are better
- Her husband is a bully who didnt want a third kid (what?)
- No one should have three kids

I could go on...

You seem to have the same issues as OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope none of you are teaching your giant broods logical reasoning.

Things OP said:
- It frustrates her when people complain about the logistics of something they (in the vast majority of cases) had the ability to control
- She feels bad for kids in large families who miss out on things because their parents aren't capable of managing the logistics of those families

Things the OP did not say:
- This applies to every large family
- Large families are bad
- Small families are better
- Her husband is a bully who didnt want a third kid (what?)
- No one should have three kids

I could go on...

You seem to have the same issues as OP.

Isn't it true, though?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. OP you sound awful and I’m glad we aren’t friends.

While there is some element of choice in how many kids you have, there is a lot left unknown that you cannot anticipate. And situations can change.

As with the majority of things people complain about in life, some element of personal choice was at play somewhere along the line contributing to that situation (spouse, job, house problems, appearance, health, cost of living, an accident, and yes children).

If you don’t like to hear people complaining in general, fair enough, but to say people can’t complain about something because it was “their choice to have kids” is stupid and that argument can be used broadly for any complaint.

I hope you complain about nothing ever OP..oh wait you do, clearly.

+1

Exactly! If someone is complaining to you, then you must be engaging with them! Stop engaging! I’m so sick of people complaining about the results of avoidable social interactions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope none of you are teaching your giant broods logical reasoning.

Things OP said:
- It frustrates her when people complain about the logistics of something they (in the vast majority of cases) had the ability to control
- She feels bad for kids in large families who miss out on things because their parents aren't capable of managing the logistics of those families

Things the OP did not say:
- This applies to every large family
- Large families are bad
- Small families are better
- Her husband is a bully who didnt want a third kid (what?)
- No one should have three kids

I could go on...

You seem to have the same issues as OP.

Isn't it true, though?

DP, but no, it's not true! The OP of the pool thread wasn't complaining, FFS. She was asking a completely reasonable question. And for some reason, the OP of this thread was triggered enough to start a whole separate thread about it. That's not healthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this is what happens when you let your husband bully you into not having #3.

This. Goodness, please try to get over it.

Huh? Who are you talking to? Get over what?

The OP. Get over not having a third child.
Someone asked how to make trips to the pool work better with three kids, and the OP started this mean thread. I don’t know what it’s about, but I don’t believe that she was really so shocked by the audacity of that poster to pose such a question. It was a pretty neutral question. The OP just seems to be looking for a reason to put down moms of 3+ kids.

She said she didn’t want three kids. Are you guys completely incapable of reading comprehension? Or do you just want to project so you can be defensive?

and Trump Said he always speaks the truth. your point? we are taking into account both what she said and her irrational obsession with 3 kid families.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope none of you are teaching your giant broods logical reasoning.

Things OP said:
- It frustrates her when people complain about the logistics of something they (in the vast majority of cases) had the ability to control
- She feels bad for kids in large families who miss out on things because their parents aren't capable of managing the logistics of those families

Things the OP did not say:
- This applies to every large family
- Large families are bad
- Small families are better
- Her husband is a bully who didnt want a third kid (what?)
- No one should have three kids

I could go on...

You seem to have the same issues as OP.

Isn't it true, though?

DP, but no, it's not true! The OP of the pool thread wasn't complaining, FFS. She was asking a completely reasonable question. And for some reason, the OP of this thread was triggered enough to start a whole separate thread about it. That's not healthy.

only someone with a deep seated agenda would have been triggered by the pool post.

[Anonymous]

Poster: 3 kids, 2 bedrooms - any ideas how to share?
OP: so tired of mothers of 3! Own your choices! why did you have another if they need to share! The kids are suffering!!!!!