Right. But now we’re 50 and can’t afford anything decent. |
Still sounds like the bigger issue is that this work situation is not conducive to owning a home anywhere |
Still could have bought. My friend has a similar circumstance. He planned to retire Florida one day. So he bought a beautiful retirement home when he was 28 in Florida. Full time tenants in house paid mortgage. That was 28 years ago and he is retired in Florida and locked in 1996 prices. |
Your definition of decent is what's flawed. You insist on living in high COL areas and only want to live in wealthier communities and then claim you can't afford anything. You realize that even in the DC area, that the median HHI is around $85-95K in all three jurisdictions and that there are many people who make under $150K that happily own homes in the area. If you can't afford "anything decent" on $350K HHI then you are pretty terrible at money management. |
This is what State Department and "State Department" families do all the time. |
Yeah, OP if this is your situation, just buy an awesome house in a LCOL area you’d want to make your home base. Maybe North Carolina? |
When did they buy? Good luck actually getting the house if you need financing. Someone else will pay cash. |
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Who the heck wants to live in Alabama? Do you have any idea how many backward Trumpanzees live there? Good Lord, they aren't vaccinated, they won't let kids read books if a non-white person is in it and they have a very low tooth to mouth ratio.
I lived in Atlanta and while there is an educated part of the population there, you are stuck in a very small area. Once you leave that city, it gets scary fast. By all means - take your toys and run off in a tantrum but you are going to be sorry. Don't you know why it's expensive? A lot of people want to live here. A lot of educated people live here. If that's not your jam, then you should go. |
Lol, the party of love and tolerance strikes again! Can't wait for the midterms so I can watch the shrieks of the ever-shrinking minority of liberal, DCUM women as the toothless racists take power. "I went to Cornell and make $130K in some nonsense government job. Why isn't everyone else as smart as me?!" |
Honestly at this point I just want you and that liberal in a cage match with jello and the rest of your cohorts shrieking like simians flinging poo. Meanwhile, maybe us sane people can have some real discourse and enact some productive change. |
lol |
OK. Y'all must not be very smart with your money. |
We did and have zero regrets but would move back once children are grown and gone to college and we become empty nesters. |
No need to feel deflated or disgusted, just think out of the box. Life is give and take for everyone. Prioritize what matters most and go for that, mortal beings just can’t have it all. |
You can’t have your cake, eat it and gain zero pounds. Life doesn’t work that way. Something gotta give. |