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They would have to be total morons to stand up for him. Not necessarily because he's guilty (I have no opinion on that), but because it would be a VERY bad look to support a man v. a woman with those types of claims looming. So people are keeping quiet. Note that other people who worked with Lively like Anna Kendrick could support her publicly, and they don't. So I don't think this is meaningful to the case or indicates anything. |
| I think people are just waiting to see how it plays out before jumping to his defense, especially after the NYT article. Again, I really don’t think “he’s always been nice to me!” has any sort of relevance in this type of issue, so why unnecessarily embroil yourself in this mess if you don’t have to. I imagine (if he’s not a tool) people are privately offering their support. It would start to be more significant if other victims stepped forward. I also don’t think “I stand with Blake” equates to “I saw him sexually harass” Blake. It often just means “I believe and support women.” I mean, how would the cast of traveling pants know anything one way or another. They don't. They’re just saying they support women, which is the PR thing to do. Nobody’s going to stand and say, “I believe and support men.” |
All of this. I think Lively is slimely as ever. She dismissed and ignored Woody Allen's daughter only to cry victim herself. Where is her apology? Baldoni is a creep and I will never believe his feminist act. They both will go down but I am interested in what the other cast members have to say! What did they see? What did they hear? I don't think they're on Blake's side because of status. |
I really don't care if she's not always lovely. Doesn't make it ok to sexually harass her. |
I don't know why you are fixated on Anna Kendrick. A lot of people who have worked with Lively in the past have spoken up in support of her. Actors, directors, people who have worked with her on her product branding. I don't know why apparently Anna Kendrick is the arbiter here (side note: I find both Anna Kendrick AND Blake Lively very annoying and it doesn't surprise me they wouldn't get along on set because they both have Main Character Syndrome, but that's not really dispositive on whether or not Lively was sexually harassed by Justin Baldoni). No one is speaking up for Justin. It is odd that people have been pretty vocal in support of Lively (including people from this movie) but that no one has spoken up for Justin. So it's not that everyone is staying quiet and waiting it out. It's that among the people who know these individuals the best, Lively's friends and colleagues are supporting her and Justin's are staying mum. |
Masterson’s first jury was deadlocked, so at least one person found reasonable doubt. I did not follow that case at all, so don’t come at me. But innocent people have been convicted of crimes. Mila and Ashton might really believe with their whole heart and soul that he’s innocent. But in this climate, you are not supposed to support a white privileged male in any scenario involving sexual allegations. And that’s because women have been ignored and not believed for so long. But this other thing—where we 100% have to side with the woman because why would they lie—is obviously flawed. We have seen women lie—like that lady who called the cops on the black man in the park. Anyway I’ve gone on a tangent… |
Because people who speak up for him would be canceled if it turns out he did do something wrong—and really even if he didn’t. Nobody’s going to fault these women for supporting Blake. It’s just not the same at all. |
Anna Kendrick seems to be an a-hole herself so not sure why people keep coming back to her. It's as if this is just typical Hollywood behavior but people want to act like Blake is the devil incarnate while giving everyone else a pass. Also lots of stories of her being rude to fans. It comes with the territory. https://metro.co.uk/2021/02/13/anna-kendrick-accused-of-rude-behaviour-by-stylist-14074738/ |
That link cracked me up because my sister used to work at a high end housewares boutique in LA and she dealt with a lot of celebs who came in to shop with interior designers or whatever. She's told a me a ton of terrible stories about like everyone of my favorite actors. I think like 80% of it is just that these people are famous, they are rich, they are used to having people kiss their a$$es every day and it makes them kind of awful. But also 20% is that they are regular people but people scrutinize their behavior very closely and also always want so much more from them. Like a regular customer who is kind of rude you might note it and think "okay, rude" but move now with your day. But a famous actress comes in and some part of you wants her to shine her light on you and I think people get much more miffed about even mildly rude behavior as a result. The smartest celebs are the ones who are over the top nice and accommodating because they know everyone is watching and hoping for a smile or a little piece of the glamour or whatever. It's a special celebrity quality and they don't all have it. I think I'd make a really crappy celebrity because I don't like crowds or being asked a lot of questions and I get very annoyed with people for asking dumb questions or not being able to just leave an event when I'm tired. There would be so much dirt about me online and what an entitled B I am
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There will always be a backlash against women won’t smile, stay silent, or who “demand” to be paid for their labor to or be taken seriously. |
| Anna Kendrick is able to pull off interview without looking like a complete jerk. Can’t say the same for Blake. |
Right, which is why people won't speak up if they think there's a chance the allegations are true. If what she was alleging in her complaint was just totally out of character for him or didn't jibe at all with other coworkers' experiences with him, I do think they would speak up if only to say "this doesn't sound like the Justin I know." I suspect this DOES sound like the Justin they know, even if this same behavior didn't become harassing in their dealings with him because maybe his behavior wasn't unwelcome in that setting but it was harassing on this particular set. And this ties their hands because they can't honestly say "I don't recognize the person described here" but they also can't defend this behavior because when you read it in the complaint it sounds very bad. I go back to my previous assessment that he is a somewhat green director who is unprofessional and did not understand that his behavior was crossing lines and lacked the self-awareness to rein it in. It also sounds like everyone at Wayfarer might have egged each other on and that helped to validate their behavior even as Lively and, it sounds like, other members of the cast, were increasingly bothered by it. |
It’s pretty darn rare to have a single complainant sexual harassment case. |
Not when she's making fun of regular people. It's not so cute. |
There's always a first time. |