Mom of teenage girls here. Her kids are awful, especially Lily. Charlotte is a doormat. |
Aidan screaming “you broke my heart” was playing in my mind when they were outside her apartment. Charlotte being offered a job in her field after her extended absence was annoying and too unrealistic even for a tv show. |
Sure it was clear. But then they married him off and gave him a few kids, and I felt like he had moved on. Until the movie, anyway. Anyway, if Carrie (per the writers) was able to find happiness with Mr. big after he treated her like shit for so long, then who’s to say Aidan couldn’t find that same happiness with Carrie. I mean, he probably won’t. But it seems the writers think it’s possible to jerk someone around for a decade and then have a change of heart and be all in. |
As a SAHM for a few years who is now trying desperately to get back into the workforce, this fantasy was a little triggering for me! But I guess I don’t really want to watch Charlotte sending a bunch of emails and LinkedIn messages to people who ignore her ![]() |
I think they are setting her up for a pretty rocky return to work, actually. I feel like a theme they are building into the show is the idea that in middle age, a lot of things just are not as good or as rewarding as you expect them to be. These women are well past their "happily ever afters." I think we're in for some plot lines about what it means to return to work in your 50s as a different person than you were at 37. The show has really not addressed the concept of age discrimination, especially as it is experienced by women in professional jobs, yet. Miranda gave up her job for academia, Carrie's somewhat immune from these issues as a writer and as someone now independently wealthy, Seema and Naya both have an unusual amount of control over their work as these things go. But Charlotte will be taking a job working for someone else, in a field where image is very important. Certainly there are plenty of middle aged women working as gallerists in the world, but that doesn't mean it's going to be an effortless transition. I think the situation is ripe for some pretty relatable and realistic issues around what it means to be a 50-something woman taking a job working for someone else. |
Oh man, sounds like there’s a lot of this reckoning possibly coming my way too ![]() |
Keep the faith. There are so many jobs out there. Terrible people I’ve worked with have been headhunted. |
^^^people my age and older, too. I’m 48. |
Thanks! Nice note. |
I fast- forwarded through most of last episode. So completely stupid and unrealistic. Why would Aiden ever bother with Carrie?! He was put through the wood chipper by her and she married the man who had an affair with her. Now that he’s dead she remembers him??? Come on! The other thing that is super gross is why does everyone have to be a multimillionaire? He sold his company to west elm? Gag me with a spoon. And the writers are worried about “diversity?” |
"gag me with a spoon" *deceased* |
Agreed. I found the Aidan storyline to be trite and a bit boring. Those two have the chemistry of a pair of rocks. |
Agree! Why couldn’t Aiden just sell the store and move to VA and still make furniture. Just a hard working guy. It won’t make sense if he’s living in a McMansion with fancy cars etc. He was rebuilding a crappy cabin in the woods in SATC. |
It annoyed me how she emailed Aiden and miraculously he’s in the city the same week wanting to go on a date. They should have built this up of them communicating earlier and then the meeting. Maybe he emailed when he heard Big died etc. |
I wasn't too thrilled with how the Aiden thing shook out. I think it would have been more realistic if they tried to go on the date, he couldn't go through with sleeping with her at the old place, and they ended it with a hug and no hard feelings (vs. going to a hotel instead). |