I really want to sleep with my new personal trainer ... |
Ex girlfriend emailed me, has been 15 years. She just got out of long relationship and wants to meet up. I can't imagine saying no, I am in the typical DCUM marriage, good and functional but rarely sexual. How do I make sure this is NSA and not a reconnection? |
You really can't! Do you want to risk your marriage? I have a terrible marriage (no sex/affection at all) which is why I am considering sleeping with my trainer, or anyone else, really! But if yours is good and functional and includes at least some sex ... that sounds like worth protecting. |
Dude, want to blow up your marriage? Go ahead and meet her. Has she had any contact with you over these 15 years? How does she know your email? |
She deserves it. |
Just name the time and place and I'll make sure Brett C is there. |
Long story short she made my life hell for no other reason than jealousy.now I could go through HR, but that won't be as satisfying because she's HR' s little baby. But I have friends of my own. |
Then you likely will. In my experience, they have small brains and smaller morals. Just don't expect exclusivity or them returning your lust. |
Meet her for coffee and know that it is a conversation only thing. If she goes down that path, be straight with her on your situation. |
hmmm ... when you put it that way, doesn't sound so appealing |
Me too! She’s a self centered, selfish woman. She’s nasty to people, yet when they give it back, she doesn’t like it. Have ya set of your own medicine you f’n kunt. |
Intermittent contact only, I have a public website with a public email, I am easily findable. Don't want to blow up marriage, just want to have fun sex again before I die off! |
Me too ![]() |
we're such cliches! still, it's fun to think about, and motivating the workouts too. |
Start a new thread. |