Woman here earning seven figures for the first time -- plan to date only men who earn more

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My sister and I are both high net worth women.

We are in happy long term marriages with regular guys.

It is an unrealistic expectation for a high net worth woman who is middle aged to meet a man earning the same amount.

Both my sister and I would have dated the PP male engineer earning $160,000 a year.

The reality is very few Americans earn over 100k.

The median salary for full-time workers in District of Columbia was $100,257 as of 2023 Census data. And that's before you filter to male college grads who are in their 40s or older.

That doesn't change the fact that there are very few.

There's no way a 46-year-old is getting a rich guy. She literally has nothing to offer.

Do you know what the word "median" means? It does, in fact, mean there are more than a very few.

Check the OP again- you're off by a factor of 10. She wants someone that makes $1M a year, not a poor making $100k.

[Anonymous]

To be clear, I think a guy making $100-200k is potentially realistic for the Op, assuming she isn't actually a miserable of a human being as her post suggests. But $1M? Not a chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My sister and I are both high net worth women.

We are in happy long term marriages with regular guys.

It is an unrealistic expectation for a high net worth woman who is middle aged to meet a man earning the same amount.

Both my sister and I would have dated the PP male engineer earning $160,000 a year.

The reality is very few Americans earn over 100k.

The median salary for full-time workers in District of Columbia was $100,257 as of 2023 Census data. And that's before you filter to male college grads who are in their 40s or older.

That doesn't change the fact that there are very few.

There's no way a 46-year-old is getting a rich guy. She literally has nothing to offer.

Do you know what the word "median" means? It does, in fact, mean there are more than a very few.

Check the OP again- you're off by a factor of 10. She wants someone that makes $1M a year, not a poor making $100k.

The claim made was "The reality is very few Americans earn over 100k." I'm not off at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To be clear, I think a guy making $100-200k is potentially realistic for the Op, assuming she isn't actually a miserable of a human being as her post suggests. But $1M? Not a chance.

I’m 47 and dated seriously couple men who were making in that neighborhood. It’s not that hard to find but of course her looks should be top notch for the age group. There are plenty of wealthy people in the US

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:To be clear, I think a guy making $100-200k is potentially realistic for the Op, assuming she isn't actually a miserable of a human being as her post suggests. But $1M? Not a chance.

I’m 47 and dated seriously couple men who were making in that neighborhood. It’s not that hard to find but of course her looks should be top notch for the age group. There are plenty of wealthy people in the US

But OP sounds like someone who cares more about money than love. For her, respect can only be given if they make more than her. I guess she plans to stay single forever.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:To be clear, I think a guy making $100-200k is potentially realistic for the Op, assuming she isn't actually a miserable of a human being as her post suggests. But $1M? Not a chance.

I’m 47 and dated seriously couple men who were making in that neighborhood. It’s not that hard to find but of course her looks should be top notch for the age group. There are plenty of wealthy people in the US

It doesn't sound like any of them married you.

If the Op just wants to f*ck some old rich guys, then sure, she has a few years left, probably. But no one is buying a cow with sour milk.

[Anonymous]

I’m definitely not quite in the OPs shoes, but I’m a woman making 500k a year and I am finding it fairly easy to meet guys making the same range. Nice, hot guys! Most are attorneys or doctors. 1 mill might be a stretch but attorneys owning their own firms, anesthesiologists, etc.
I’m a size 2, very toned/in shape, and pretty (but not like Barbie pretty). I find most of these guys at the bars when I’m wearing workout clothes- ha!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To be clear, I think a guy making $100-200k is potentially realistic for the Op, assuming she isn't actually a miserable of a human being as her post suggests. But $1M? Not a chance.

I’m 47 and dated seriously couple men who were making in that neighborhood. It’s not that hard to find but of course her looks should be top notch for the age group. There are plenty of wealthy people in the US

It doesn't sound like any of them married you.

If the Op just wants to f*ck some old rich guys, then sure, she has a few years left, probably. But no one is buying a cow with sour milk.

The rich men I dated still didn’t marry anyone. They are not stupid

[Anonymous]

Im dating a great guy who makes ~$5M and im nothing special if I do say so myself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m definitely not quite in the OPs shoes, but I’m a woman making 500k a year and I am finding it fairly easy to meet guys making the same range. Nice, hot guys! Most are attorneys or doctors. 1 mill might be a stretch but attorneys owning their own firms, anesthesiologists, etc.
I’m a size 2, very toned/in shape, and pretty (but not like Barbie pretty). I find most of these guys at the bars when I’m wearing workout clothes- ha!

Agree - that’s what I’m saying. Almost every professional man I dated was making at least half a million. All of them had different types of issues/baggage but so do I. Its not that hard to find

[Anonymous]

I’ve worked with very wealthy men (worth millions-billions) and they absolutely want someone like OP. They aren’t stupid. They know a 20-something is going to lounge around the house doing nothing and spend all their money. They know young women looking for an ATM machine will divorce them in a few years because “you’re always working!” and take half. They know those women will bail the moment they say no to their spending. All of them married women who were plain but hard workers who earned their own money and were financially savvy. Many of them married women who helped build their businesses, rather than women who just want to be SAHMs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked with very wealthy men (worth millions-billions) and they absolutely want someone like OP. They aren’t stupid. They know a 20-something is going to lounge around the house doing nothing and spend all their money. They know young women looking for an ATM machine will divorce them in a few years because “you’re always working!” and take half. They know those women will bail the moment they say no to their spending. All of them married women who were plain but hard workers who earned their own money and were financially savvy. Many of them married women who helped build their businesses, rather than women who just want to be SAHMs.

Impressive. I'm pretty sure every single sentence is a lie in that post. Bravo!

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked with very wealthy men (worth millions-billions) and they absolutely want someone like OP. They aren’t stupid. They know a 20-something is going to lounge around the house doing nothing and spend all their money. They know young women looking for an ATM machine will divorce them in a few years because “you’re always working!” and take half. They know those women will bail the moment they say no to their spending. All of them married women who were plain but hard workers who earned their own money and were financially savvy. Many of them married women who helped build their businesses, rather than women who just want to be SAHMs.

I don’t believe that after watching numerous episodes of millionaire matchmaker in my youth 😂

[Anonymous]

Guy here who earns seven figures, the red flag would be that you care that much that you make over seven figures and you thinking that I care that you make over seven figures.