Woman here earning seven figures for the first time -- plan to date only men who earn more

[Anonymous]

OP's dating pool is nonexistent. The amount of men in their 40s and 50s who are earning seven figures and who are single, good looking, kind, and fun to be with is no more than a handful. And none of them are looking to partner up with a divorced middle aged lawyer on the cusp of menopause who prioritizes money above everything.

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Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

Can you also tell different astrological signs from each other? You people assert such bizarre pseudoscience as fact. I can see now why my sister gets away with lying about her age to white men. She's been 35 for 8 years now and none of them ever know the difference. But when you're walking around convinced that every woman past 40 looks ran through and you can tell age from the "feel" of a woman, it's going to be very easy to make you someone's fool.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:lol what do you look like and can you cook?

OP here. I look great (size 6, beautiful face, dress well), and can cook but I don't cook often.

You're in your 40s. You might not be fat, but you don't look great. Rich men aren't going to settle for an old lady.

46 is not old. Far from it. And these men are also “old”. I know plenty of wealthy men who date women their age

Not just 40s but late forties?

No one with that kind of money is going to be interested. You have literally nothing to offer.

You sound mentally ill. How can age alone tell you whether a woman has something to offer?

She's old- her body is well past its prime and is just going to get worse. Rapidly.

She's past childbearing years.

She has baggage-- kids and an ex-husband.

She has a busy job that will limit vacations/activities.

If you read her posts in this thread, she certainly doesn't have a pleasant personality. (Perhaps that factored into the divorce)

Her money is an asset, but she only wants someone rich enough that it wouldn't matter to them.

Anyone rational is going to pick a younger, potentially less wealthy person. Not a 46-year-old divorcé with kids. You know that.

This says a lot about you and what you think about women. A woman who can't have kids and isn't physically perfect has nothing to offer? Someone damaged you and I feel sorry for whoever has to deal with you.

You don't have to like it, but you know this is exactly how wealthy men will think and act.

If you say so? You're trying to sell me on an opinion I know is baseless. I don't need to argue with you, but I do find your misogyny very creepy.

You do you. I don't know if you're divorced yet, but once it happens I suspect you won't be remarrying.

It is important to have realistic expectations. The OP doesn't have that if she thinks rich guys will be interested in her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think I need this is likely to be a troll. My sister is a lawyer, met her teacher partner in her mid 40s after a breakup with another lawyer and is way, way happier now.

That is one lucky teacher.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

Can you also tell different astrological signs from each other? You people assert such bizarre pseudoscience as fact. I can see now why my sister gets away with lying about her age to white men. She's been 35 for 8 years now and none of them ever know the difference. But when you're walking around convinced that every woman past 40 looks ran through and you can tell age from the "feel" of a woman, it's going to be very easy to make you someone's fool.

Again, you absolutely can tell. The boobs and ass give it away. Arms have reduced muscle mass. The face has wrinkles no matter how much foundation you use to try to hide it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

So what are you going to do when whichever woman you end up with turns 50? Do you even date women?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

Can you also tell different astrological signs from each other? You people assert such bizarre pseudoscience as fact. I can see now why my sister gets away with lying about her age to white men. She's been 35 for 8 years now and none of them ever know the difference. But when you're walking around convinced that every woman past 40 looks ran through and you can tell age from the "feel" of a woman, it's going to be very easy to make you someone's fool.

Again, you absolutely can tell. The boobs and ass give it away. Arms have reduced muscle mass. The face has wrinkles no matter how much foundation you use to try to hide it.

OK, lol. Shame on me for doubting the facts of life, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

Wait, a gorgeous mixed race woman who looks years younger than her age doesn’t understand how this might be different for white women?

Oh. Okay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

Wait, a gorgeous mixed race woman who looks years younger than her age doesn’t understand how this might be different for white women?

Oh. Okay.

PP here. I really don't understand why it's different for white women. Why is a white man eager to date 47 year old me, but not 47 year old Becky? Is it the exotic factor? White women definitely look older at every age, but honestly, white men look the most haggard of all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

So what are you going to do when whichever woman you end up with turns 50? Do you even date women?

I'm not a single person making 7 figures. If I was, I would certainly want someone with more than a few years of runway left.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

Wait, a gorgeous mixed race woman who looks years younger than her age doesn’t understand how this might be different for white women?

Oh. Okay.

PP here. I really don't understand why it's different for white women. Why is a white man eager to date 47 year old me, but not 47 year old Becky? Is it the exotic factor? White women definitely look older at every age, but honestly, white men look the most haggard of all.

Looks aren't everything to women. For example, the OP is more interested in the man being wealthy. That's highly desirable for younger women, too.

How does the OP expect to compete against younger, better looking women with less baggage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

Wait, a gorgeous mixed race woman who looks years younger than her age doesn’t understand how this might be different for white women?

Oh. Okay.

PP here. I really don't understand why it's different for white women. Why is a white man eager to date 47 year old me, but not 47 year old Becky? Is it the exotic factor? White women definitely look older at every age, but honestly, white men look the most haggard of all.

Looks aren't everything to women. For example, the OP is more interested in the man being wealthy. That's highly desirable for younger women, too.

How does the OP expect to compete against younger, better looking women with less baggage?

Um. Did you mean to answer the questions I asked or why quote me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

So what are you going to do when whichever woman you end up with turns 50? Do you even date women?

I'm not a single person making 7 figures. If I was, I would certainly want someone with more than a few years of runway left.

Regardless of how old she starts out, she'll turn 50 one day. Are you planning to kill or dump her before then?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a woman of color, this is the whitest thread in the world.

A woman has nothing to offer past 40? A woman past 40 can't attract a rich man? A woman past 40 can't be as pretty as or even
better looking as younger women?

Says who?

I meet white women IRL who espouse these kinds of opinions all the time as if these are rock solid rules for everyone. Yet I don't think any of you can even tell the difference physically between a woman of color at 35 versus 45 unless she's an aggressive drinker or does drugs.

I'm a 47 year old well-educated "Blasian" woman and wealthy white men my age and younger are all over me. Especially the ones with a white first wife who feel they're "allowed" to marry interracially the second time around. The weird thing is that the same white men tell me they won't date white women over 40.

What is going on with white people and these creepy age cut-offs for white women?

You might date a 46 year old for a while, maybe, if they're still in good shape for their age. But that's an age where things go downhill fast physically and psychologically. You're not going to want to be with them when they hit 50.

And yes, you absolutely can tell the difference between a 36 year old and a 46 year old, particularly once the clothes come off. They feel very different, too.

So what are you going to do when whichever woman you end up with turns 50? Do you even date women?

I'm not a single person making 7 figures. If I was, I would certainly want someone with more than a few years of runway left.

Regardless of how old she starts out, she'll turn 50 one day. Are you planning to kill or dump her before then?

Even if you intend to stay together, you're going to want someone whose tires aren't already bald.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My sister and I are both high net worth women.

We are in happy long term marriages with regular guys.

It is an unrealistic expectation for a high net worth woman who is middle aged to meet a man earning the same amount.

Both my sister and I would have dated the PP male engineer earning $160,000 a year.

The reality is very few Americans earn over 100k.

The median salary for full-time workers in District of Columbia was $100,257 as of 2023 Census data. And that's before you filter to male college grads who are in their 40s or older.

That doesn't change the fact that there are very few.

There's no way a 46-year-old is getting a rich guy. She literally has nothing to offer.

Do you know what the word "median" means? It does, in fact, mean there are more than a very few.