Love is Blind Season 6 - Charlotte NC

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Anonymous wrote:Clay "I don't understand her financials." Not much to understand, I think. He's not wrong to take that into consideration.

She'll probably be a great wife and mom but I don't think she has a real job and that bothers him. In the end he just wasn't that into her. She is 33 years old and was willing to ignore tons of red flags to get married. She seems emotionally mature in some ways, but that would not have been a wise decision. They were not compatible in pretty fundamental ways.

Not that many realtors are financially successful. It's a feast or famine kind of industry. And it can be full time or very part-time. Clay might have been concerned that her income isn't steady, but fluctuates. And overall she probably doesn't make much.

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Anonymous wrote:Clay "I don't understand her financials." Not much to understand, I think. He's not wrong to take that into consideration.

He likes her, but is not really that into her. I suspect she's not his type, will probably end up with more of a classic type like his mom. And someone who does have a real job. They both need to work on themselves and mature before taking that step, regardless.

She told her mom he would stay out nights and not come home to her? And she wanted to marry this guy with a million red flags? Make it make sense.

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If there’s one thing I learned from this episode, it’s that some people talk A LOT at weddings. Apparently I’ve gone to some boring affairs. The guests were chatting, Clay and his mom talked down the aisle, he talked to the guests, and they gave commentary during each other’s vows. They even talked to each other during the dramatic pause! That was a riot.

And I gotta say, I never be want to be with a man who doesn’t cry when he breaks my heart. If you’re going to break my heart on national tv, you better be sobbing. At least Jimmy walked away before the wedding.

That conversation between his parents — now THAT is a show I would watch. I wanted to hug Clay’s mom so hard.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Clay "I don't understand her financials." Not much to understand, I think. He's not wrong to take that into consideration.

He likes her, but is not really that into her. I suspect she's not his type, will probably end up with more of a classic type like his mom. And someone who does have a real job. They both need to work on themselves and mature before taking that step, regardless.

She told her mom he would stay out nights and not come home to her? And she wanted to marry this guy with a million red flags? Make it make sense.

We can't, because it doesn't. My husband will drive two hours to get home at night so we can sleep in the same bed, and then leave the next morning at 7am to drive two hours back, when he has to be at a client's office. Clay not willing to come home and make her a priority was telling. Also, I don't think he liked her body type. And I think he wants someone richer. His saying no to her was the one good decision he made.

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Anonymous wrote:If there’s one thing I learned from this episode, it’s that some people talk A LOT at weddings. Apparently I’ve gone to some boring affairs. The guests were chatting, Clay and his mom talked down the aisle, he talked to the guests, and they gave commentary during each other’s vows. They even talked to each other during the dramatic pause! That was a riot.

And I gotta say, I never be want to be with a man who doesn’t cry when he breaks my heart. If you’re going to break my heart on national tv, you better be sobbing. At least Jimmy walked away before the wedding.

That conversation between his parents — now THAT is a show I would watch. I wanted to hug Clay’s mom so hard.

Yep. Did you catch when she said there are things she found out about her ex through the process of doing the show? I assume she was referring to her ex taking Clay to meet the women he was cheating on his wife with. That had to have been a very hard blow.

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Clay at the alter "How do I look? Like a husband?" Meanwhile he knows deep down he is not going to be a husband today.

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Anonymous wrote:Amy and Johnny are a sweet couple. That's all I've got.

They both just seem so dumb, talking about getting a vasectomy for birth control.

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Anonymous wrote:Amy and Johnny are a sweet couple. That's all I've got.

They both just seem so dumb, talking about getting a vasectomy for birth control.

I am guessing a doctor will ask enough question to conclude it's not a good idea. Why can't she use a diaphragm?

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Anonymous wrote:If there’s one thing I learned from this episode, it’s that some people talk A LOT at weddings. Apparently I’ve gone to some boring affairs. The guests were chatting, Clay and his mom talked down the aisle, he talked to the guests, and they gave commentary during each other’s vows. They even talked to each other during the dramatic pause! That was a riot.

And I gotta say, I never be want to be with a man who doesn’t cry when he breaks my heart. If you’re going to break my heart on national tv, you better be sobbing. At least Jimmy walked away before the wedding.

That conversation between his parents — now THAT is a show I would watch. I wanted to hug Clay’s mom so hard.

Yes his mom and pop could’ve done a whole episode. This whole thing was so sad I was crying

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amy and Johnny are a sweet couple. That's all I've got.

They both just seem so dumb, talking about getting a vasectomy for birth control.

I am guessing a doctor will ask enough question to conclude it's not a good idea. Why can't she use a diaphragm?

So did they not have s3x before the wedding? Are they going to on the wedding night? Do they have their BC figured out?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amy and Johnny are a sweet couple. That's all I've got.

They both just seem so dumb, talking about getting a vasectomy for birth control.

I am guessing a doctor will ask enough question to conclude it's not a good idea. Why can't she use a diaphragm?

So many options now! Or how about a copper IUD if hormonal BC is an issue?

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Wow what an emotional episode! I think this is the first episode of this entire franchise that made me cry. Talk about a tale of two attachment styles.

Johnny comes from two people who love each other and love him and he is secure and confident and loving. Clay is crippled by his father's legacy and the insecurity and fear it birthed in him.

I have watched every season of this show and I think there is always a real energy the weddings have when people think its actually going to happen and it was there with AD and Clay. The emotions and feelings you could feel them they were truly there but I could also tell he was going to say no from the beginning. And kudos to the show I have to say, they could have edited that to make him look like a total jerk but instead they went to pretty great lengths to show how he is a victim of a generational cycle of abuse and how it just prevented him from accepting the relationship fully.

I think the one thing he did wrong was allow her to say yes. If you want the relationship to continue after the altar, if you are really all in and in love but not ready you don't have that conversation after she said yes in front of the world. You say that the night before so you spare her that humiliation and lay the groundwork. Especially when you knew what you were going to say the way it seemed he did.

But my heart kind of breaks for him, he's messed up. And he doesn't want to be and knows he is, which is a hard place to be.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow what an emotional episode! I think this is the first episode of this entire franchise that made me cry. Talk about a tale of two attachment styles.

Johnny comes from two people who love each other and love him and he is secure and confident and loving. Clay is crippled by his father's legacy and the insecurity and fear it birthed in him.

I have watched every season of this show and I think there is always a real energy the weddings have when people think its actually going to happen and it was there with AD and Clay. The emotions and feelings you could feel them they were truly there but I could also tell he was going to say no from the beginning. And kudos to the show I have to say, they could have edited that to make him look like a total jerk but instead they went to pretty great lengths to show how he is a victim of a generational cycle of abuse and how it just prevented him from accepting the relationship fully.

I think the one thing he did wrong was allow her to say yes. If you want the relationship to continue after the altar, if you are really all in and in love but not ready you don't have that conversation after she said yes in front of the world. You say that the night before so you spare her that humiliation and lay the groundwork. Especially when you knew what you were going to say the way it seemed he did.

But my heart kind of breaks for him, he's messed up. And he doesn't want to be and knows he is, which is a hard place to be.

How come Jimmy was allowed to dump Chelsea the night before but they made Clay wait until the altar.

The way Clay was kissing AD after the No was so cringe.

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17:12 your heart is messed up if it's breaking for CLAY but not for AD!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amy and Johnny are a sweet couple. That's all I've got.

They both just seem so dumb, talking about getting a vasectomy for birth control.

I am guessing a doctor will ask enough question to conclude it's not a good idea. Why can't she use a diaphragm?

So did they not have s3x before the wedding? Are they going to on the wedding night? Do they have their BC figured out?

I think she was trying to sell a no sex before marriage thing for her dad and AD drunkenly outed the truth.