Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

The Tina bashing is rot. Can you imagine the unkindness Tina is facing marrying a man whose ex regularly brags about her extreme popularity and how her people hate who she hates. I do not envy Tina having to navigate a narcissistic ex wife like Jen.

Has anyone ever suggested Brandon is narcissistic? The ex ANCer’s have said he was aloof, a lost soul looking for identity and a poor orator., but no one suggested he was a narcissist. It seems he was one of Jen’s many worker bees helping build her social media empire. Although he sure enjoyed the toys he could afford thanks to the $ her “ministry” brought into the family bank account.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I started following Tina and she seems sweet and genuine. Cheerleader type? Sure. But she just seems like someone who legit cares about Brandon and about other people.

THE SAME PERSON KEEPS TRYING TO BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO BRANDON/TINA. Every post has the same tone, talks about her job, and says “say what you will” or something.

It’s either Brandon or Tina. One of them is a flaming narcissist starving for attention. No one wants to follow you Tina.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tina is a stupid b---- with fake everything and no class. She will never be half the woman Jen is. Brandon lost the best thing that ever happened to him and he's just too drunk or high to admit it. Jen Hatmaker is gorgeous, funny as hell, a wonderful mother, and a true friend.

Hey idiot -- Jen is with her forever love. Why do you care about Brandon? Shouldn't you be focused on thatttttt? Unless, you think the forever love isn't real?

[Anonymous]

With all the multiple posts about Tina’s job, I get the impression it’s Tina who wants to prove she’s not white trash. Clearly very proud of her G.ED

[Anonymous]

No need for name calling. We can all laugh at someone calling Jen gorgeous or a wonderful mother. She’s attractive in that heavily made over kind of way and she has moments of good mothering but the excessive hyperbole about her being the best thing they ever happened to Brandon is just funny. Perhaps he was drinking and drugging so hard cause he didn’t find pouring his life into being president of Jen’s fan club quite as fun and enriching as Jen suggested to the world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m super happy for Brandon. He was obviously miserable being married to a MeMonster. Texas Barbie is let’s be honest gorgeous, seems chill and sweet and fun, and doesn’t want fame. They are a good match.

I have seen this in so many marriages -- where one partner is narcissistic/preoccupied with childrearing, pals, sports etc. -- and totally neglects or ignores the partners.

No surer way to starve a marriage.

Throwing child rearing into this mix seems unfair and misogynistic. Women who are “preoccupied” with child rearing are typically raising kids with partners who aren’t involved enough. I’d argue that the uninvolved husband who is not sharing child rearing duties is the one starving the marriage, not the exhausted mom who doesn’t have enough support in the home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started following Tina and she seems sweet and genuine. Cheerleader type? Sure. But she just seems like someone who legit cares about Brandon and about other people.

THE SAME PERSON KEEPS TRYING TO BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO BRANDON/TINA. Every post has the same tone, talks about her job, and says “say what you will” or something.

It’s either Brandon or Tina. One of them is a flaming narcissist starving for attention. No one wants to follow you Tina.

Obviously, Jen and her friends are now heavily trolling this page. I posted the above initial comment and I'm neither Tina or Brandon and I'm certainly not on the beach in Cancun. Wish i was. It would be nice if Jen and her friends would grow up and just drop it. Healthy people don't have to constantly clap back. The best revenge is a life well lived. Tina and Brandon are doing that. Jen and company are clearly not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started following Tina and she seems sweet and genuine. Cheerleader type? Sure. But she just seems like someone who legit cares about Brandon and about other people.

THE SAME PERSON KEEPS TRYING TO BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO BRANDON/TINA. Every post has the same tone, talks about her job, and says “say what you will” or something.

It’s either Brandon or Tina. One of them is a flaming narcissist starving for attention. No one wants to follow you Tina.

Obviously, Jen and her friends are now heavily trolling this page. I posted the above initial comment and I'm neither Tina or Brandon and I'm certainly not on the beach in Cancun. Wish i was. It would be nice if Jen and her friends would grow up and just drop it. Healthy people don't have to constantly clap back. The best revenge is a life well lived. Tina and Brandon are doing that. Jen and company are clearly not.

I feel like a lot of newer people on here have never been on a snark forum (like gomi) before. Because every time someone posts a comment, albeit ridiculous, in total favor of either Jen OR Brandon the response is “oh hey Jen/Brandon.” 🙄 Guys, this forum exists because these people are both extremely annoying, polarizing, and obnoxious in their own ways. And while many of us are able to see that, it’s inevitable that a few people will feel strongly aligned with one of them or the other. That doesn’t mean either party is actually posting here. And it’s ignorant to negate every comment we don’t like by saying it’s by either Jen or Brandon. It makes us all look kind of dumb. We don’t all have to agree! That’s part of what makes this forum entertaining!

Ok, back to Jen’s hair… I know this is shallow but it’s always bothered me that as a public figure she can’t just make a standing appointment at a salon so her roots aren’t so grown out all the time. Like, how lazy do you have to be? You have the money. Just schedule it for every 4 weeks or whatever. For the last decade she’s perpetually looked like she was living in the middle of the pandemic and couldn’t get her hair done for 3 months. Back when she used to speak at If Gathering I always wanted to update her look/style. She just looks like everyday she puts on what she thought was cool in 2002. And I guess that’s fine, but she looks so smug and proud of herself all the time, and I hate that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m super happy for Brandon. He was obviously miserable being married to a MeMonster. Texas Barbie is let’s be honest gorgeous, seems chill and sweet and fun, and doesn’t want fame. They are a good match.

I have seen this in so many marriages -- where one partner is narcissistic/preoccupied with childrearing, pals, sports etc. -- and totally neglects or ignores the partners.

No surer way to starve a marriage.

Throwing child rearing into this mix seems unfair and misogynistic. Women who are “preoccupied” with child rearing are typically raising kids with partners who aren’t involved enough. I’d argue that the uninvolved husband who is not sharing child rearing duties is the one starving the marriage, not the exhausted mom who doesn’t have enough support in the home.

This. I obviously don’t know if that was the case for Jen and Brandon, but I know it’s true for many families.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started following Tina and she seems sweet and genuine. Cheerleader type? Sure. But she just seems like someone who legit cares about Brandon and about other people.

THE SAME PERSON KEEPS TRYING TO BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO BRANDON/TINA. Every post has the same tone, talks about her job, and says “say what you will” or something.

It’s either Brandon or Tina. One of them is a flaming narcissist starving for attention. No one wants to follow you Tina.

Obviously, Jen and her friends are now heavily trolling this page. I posted the above initial comment and I'm neither Tina or Brandon and I'm certainly not on the beach in Cancun. Wish i was. It would be nice if Jen and her friends would grow up and just drop it. Healthy people don't have to constantly clap back. The best revenge is a life well lived. Tina and Brandon are doing that. Jen and company are clearly not.

I feel like a lot of newer people on here have never been on a snark forum (like gomi) before. Because every time someone posts a comment, albeit ridiculous, in total favor of either Jen OR Brandon the response is “oh hey Jen/Brandon.” 🙄 Guys, this forum exists because these people are both extremely annoying, polarizing, and obnoxious in their own ways. And while many of us are able to see that, it’s inevitable that a few people will feel strongly aligned with one of them or the other. That doesn’t mean either party is actually posting here. And it’s ignorant to negate every comment we don’t like by saying it’s by either Jen or Brandon. It makes us all look kind of dumb. We don’t all have to agree! That’s part of what makes this forum entertaining!

Ok, back to Jen’s hair… I know this is shallow but it’s always bothered me that as a public figure she can’t just make a standing appointment at a salon so her roots aren’t so grown out all the time. Like, how lazy do you have to be? You have the money. Just schedule it for every 4 weeks or whatever. For the last decade she’s perpetually looked like she was living in the middle of the pandemic and couldn’t get her hair done for 3 months. Back when she used to speak at If Gathering I always wanted to update her look/style. She just looks like everyday she puts on what she thought was cool in 2002. And I guess that’s fine, but she looks so smug and proud of herself all the time, and I hate that.

Totally agree on this. I don’t think either of them are posting. Friends and people who know them? Probably. But not B or J.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started following Tina and she seems sweet and genuine. Cheerleader type? Sure. But she just seems like someone who legit cares about Brandon and about other people.

THE SAME PERSON KEEPS TRYING TO BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO BRANDON/TINA. Every post has the same tone, talks about her job, and says “say what you will” or something.

It’s either Brandon or Tina. One of them is a flaming narcissist starving for attention. No one wants to follow you Tina.

Obviously, Jen and her friends are now heavily trolling this page. I posted the above initial comment and I'm neither Tina or Brandon and I'm certainly not on the beach in Cancun. Wish i was. It would be nice if Jen and her friends would grow up and just drop it. Healthy people don't have to constantly clap back. The best revenge is a life well lived. Tina and Brandon are doing that. Jen and company are clearly not.

I feel like a lot of newer people on here have never been on a snark forum (like gomi) before. Because every time someone posts a comment, albeit ridiculous, in total favor of either Jen OR Brandon the response is “oh hey Jen/Brandon.” 🙄 Guys, this forum exists because these people are both extremely annoying, polarizing, and obnoxious in their own ways. And while many of us are able to see that, it’s inevitable that a few people will feel strongly aligned with one of them or the other. That doesn’t mean either party is actually posting here. And it’s ignorant to negate every comment we don’t like by saying it’s by either Jen or Brandon. It makes us all look kind of dumb. We don’t all have to agree! That’s part of what makes this forum entertaining!

Ok, back to Jen’s hair… I know this is shallow but it’s always bothered me that as a public figure she can’t just make a standing appointment at a salon so her roots aren’t so grown out all the time. Like, how lazy do you have to be? You have the money. Just schedule it for every 4 weeks or whatever. For the last decade she’s perpetually looked like she was living in the middle of the pandemic and couldn’t get her hair done for 3 months. Back when she used to speak at If Gathering I always wanted to update her look/style. She just looks like everyday she puts on what she thought was cool in 2002. And I guess that’s fine, but she looks so smug and proud of herself all the time, and I hate that.

Thank you! The “hi 👋 Jen/Brandon, ect..” posts are killing the vibe of this whole thread. You put my frustrations into words better than I could! Thank you for saying this!

[Anonymous]

Right, it gets old being accused of being either Jen orBrandon when you are just a suburban housewife with time to kill on a thread exploring the crazy phenomenon around Jen Hatmaker and her journey from beloved conservative Christian writer/speaker to woke liberal post Christian celebrity influencer who seeks to fleece her followers for all they are worth with her shilling.

[Anonymous]

I’ve been accused of being both of them. Guess my posts inflame the trolls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been accused of being both of them. Guess my posts inflame the trolls.

Same - and I’m literally just a suburban mom who is fascinated by pseudo-Christian influencers.

[Anonymous]

She gets worse the more I watch. I can’t really put it into words. Desperate to remain relevant is the best way I can describe the vibe she gives off. That and she’s annoying AF with her little smug grins and weird f’ing lisp. And Tyler— dude is a darker male version of her in many ways. He just wants to be so relevant. They’re icky. Seriously. I feel bad for hating so much but they are a f’in train wreck.