Former WIHT morning radio personality Peter "Kane" Diebler has passed away

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Anonymous wrote:Was going through my files, I have a copy of Kane's last show (April 10, 2020). Plan to upload it later in the week along with some other various podcasts and skits from years past if there's interest.

Yes, please do! I was hoping someone had saved them! I wish I had! I've listened to a lot of stations and a lot of DJs in my 32 years around the sun, and Kane was always my favorite.

I wanna see this

Me too!

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone remember dannis mental break down/emotional attack on the Alexandria police last summer ? She hindered their help with a mentally ill man. And took the responsibility of “saving” the man from police brutality. This is the same woman. She is emotionally and mentally unstable. Always has been and always will be. The same woman that created gofundmes to purchase pillows and a decorated corner in her bedroom to meditate. Believe it or not, she is an abuser herself. Make no mistake and don’t believe a word she says. She is heartless, crazy, psycho and attention seeking. Anyone defending her is an idiot.

Abusive relationships, be they professional, platonic, familial, romantic, have two responsible parties. Neither is innocent.

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Anonymous wrote:what was danni's post. i think her IG is private.

If you have ever been abused by a person in power you will understand her messsage. I thought it was well said. Her IG is not private FTR.

What was her abuse? Kane (verbally) checked her for having an attitude when he was too loud for her tastes and HR didn’t give in to her when she threw a fit about it. Or was it when she sent a d*ck pic to Kane’s phone as a joke and then said Kane used that as leverage? Wow, such shocking abuse. Come talk to me when you know what real abuse is, not this fluff nonsense.

Allllllll of this

Thank you! She’s unrightfully playing victim to get attention. She was fired from her last job too. She should have just kept her mouth shut - but she’s opportunistic like that.

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Why they always in the mood f around and try to play it cool

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What really pisses me off is that the Washington Post quoted Danni when they wrote about his death

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Anonymous wrote:Why they always in the mood f around and try to play it cool

That’s the only song they play on 99.5

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Anonymous wrote:what was danni's post. i think her IG is private.

Danni's post
I was privy to the knowledge that Kane passed away before it went public. It has been a lot to process. A lot. I knew what would follow such news. My phone would blow up and my DMs over run with people who “love to hear your thoughts.” My thoughts are complicated. My heart breaks for Sam and Sophie. They have joined the fatherless daughter club and it’s awful. I had a complicated father who didn’t always get it right, I loved him anyways. I pray that they heal from all the trauma and I hold so much space for Nat. What she has endured and what she will have to endure is unimaginable. I feel anger. Death doesn’t absolve people from the awful things they did while they were alive. Some people’s heroes are other people’s villains. Duality. I feel empathy for the fans and people who loved and knew a different version of Kane. Their pain is real and so is mine. It is infuriating to read memorials from people who knew the Kane that I knew and who even experienced similar things as me. Why people choose to romanticize who people were after they die, I don’t know, but it is very much triggering to victims. I hold space for the many women who had to move forward without apologies and zero accountability taken. The women who have had to heal from abuse the public couldn’t imagine. I’m appalled at giant media companies who were fully aware of the help he needed but instead chose millions and capitalism over helping someone who was clearly in need of help. I made a commitment to myself to no longer self-abandon. I have done too much of that in my life and a lot of that was in the way I allowed myself to be treated in media, by Kane and by Iheart. With that said, I could never and would never celebrate anyone’s death and I also refuse to romanticize or grieve my abuser. I do want to thank Kane for an important life lesson. I am dedicated to living my life in a way that when I do go, I will not be the monster in anyone’s life story. Sending love and light to you all but especially to Kane’s mother and his children.

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what is danni's insta? i cant find her. i agree she's definitely the worst of them all and suspect she's going to try to leverage kanes death as a platform for herself

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I went through phases of participating in the big threads and I was listening the day he lost his crap about Natasha on air. Mostly I have been very critical of him and very critical of how absolutely insanely cruel this board has been towards Danni.

That said I think her and Sarah's posts were inappropriate today and could have waited. As was pointed out earlier, he wasn't a criminal, he was an ahole. And now he's gone. I understand how they are feeling and certainly don't think they need to praise him but there is no reason to put that out there today.

Poor kids.

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Anonymous wrote:what was danni's post. i think her IG is private.

Danni's post
I was privy to the knowledge that Kane passed away before it went public. It has been a lot to process. A lot. I knew what would follow such news. My phone would blow up and my DMs over run with people who “love to hear your thoughts.” My thoughts are complicated. My heart breaks for Sam and Sophie. They have joined the fatherless daughter club and it’s awful. I had a complicated father who didn’t always get it right, I loved him anyways. I pray that they heal from all the trauma and I hold so much space for Nat. What she has endured and what she will have to endure is unimaginable. I feel anger. Death doesn’t absolve people from the awful things they did while they were alive. Some people’s heroes are other people’s villains. Duality. I feel empathy for the fans and people who loved and knew a different version of Kane. Their pain is real and so is mine. It is infuriating to read memorials from people who knew the Kane that I knew and who even experienced similar things as me. Why people choose to romanticize who people were after they die, I don’t know, but it is very much triggering to victims. I hold space for the many women who had to move forward without apologies and zero accountability taken. The women who have had to heal from abuse the public couldn’t imagine. I’m appalled at giant media companies who were fully aware of the help he needed but instead chose millions and capitalism over helping someone who was clearly in need of help. I made a commitment to myself to no longer self-abandon. I have done too much of that in my life and a lot of that was in the way I allowed myself to be treated in media, by Kane and by Iheart. With that said, I could never and would never celebrate anyone’s death and I also refuse to romanticize or grieve my abuser. I do want to thank Kane for an important life lesson. I am dedicated to living my life in a way that when I do go, I will not be the monster in anyone’s life story. Sending love and light to you all but especially to Kane’s mother and his children.

very good points

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Anonymous wrote:What really pisses me off is that the Washington Post quoted Danni when they wrote about his death

Yeah, but I don't think that quote does Danni any favors. To be quoted calling a man only accused, never even charged or convicted, of being a bad coworker in his OBITUARY is terribly trashy. But that's Danni.

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I really wonder why Kane and IJ weren't friends anymore.... they were SO close, and clearly this has really affected IJ. I just hope it wasn't something that IJ will look back and regret not realizing there wasn't much time left.

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Anonymous wrote:I can't find Danni on Insta, what's her handle? Also can't find Frase...am old.

Danni
https://www.instagram.com/p/CMND9aVBtob/

Frase
https://instagram.com/thesarahfrasershow

Their Instagrams

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Anonymous wrote:I really wonder why Kane and IJ weren't friends anymore.... they were SO close, and clearly this has really affected IJ. I just hope it wasn't something that IJ will look back and regret not realizing there wasn't much time left.

I wonder this too. Their relationship seemed to completely end a short while before kane “left” the show. It seemed like John was his closest friend before that. He really did spend a ton of time with Kane’s kids, and you can tell he truly cared/cares for them.

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Anonymous wrote:I really wonder why Kane and IJ weren't friends anymore.... they were SO close, and clearly this has really affected IJ. I just hope it wasn't something that IJ will look back and regret not realizing there wasn't much time left.

I thought about this last night... I hope John is doing okay. Going by what I've gleaned from their show interactions and their posts talking about one another, I know I would be having a rough time trying to process all of that if I were him.