No way! I’m a Big 3 mom and my DD got into Tulane and other EA’s (she didn’t want to ED) and though Tulane isn’t ranked as high as some of her other acceptances, I’m gunning for her to go there (secretly; it has to be her decision). It seems like such a friendly atmosphere and everyone has been so attentive. We all love NoLA. I think she will be very happy there—that’s my goal. |
TJ and most of the larger publics are MUCH better than GDS (or any of the private schools) just based on resources and the number of kids who are STEM focused. |
If your kid's goal is MIT or Cal Tech or, heck, anything with "tech" in the name, you'd be well served sending him to a public magnet. I've been a member of the STA community for over a decade and it is quite rare for a graduate to end up at any of these schools. It's not that the STA boys don't have the innate STEM smarts - it's just not what the school has ever focused on. They focus on the humanities in all its various forms seeking to produce boys well-rounded gentlemen. A laudable goal, but one wonders how many future scientists and engineers have been snuffed out as a result. Even in college counseling, once you get past the Ivies and Chicago (where 10% of the class feeds to every year), the push is for the SLACs and mid-size universities with a liberal arts bent (like Wake or Bucknell). I love the place though I wonder whether a recalibration of the STEM efforts are in order. |
I attended University of Illinois a few decades ago coming from Main Line Philadelphia and I was shocked at the deep seated racism and anti-semetism at the school. Some examples: * sororities and and fraternities were segregated and did not pledge across perceived " different race" lines - this included SE Asians ( Pakistanis ). We had no social mixers with Sammy, for example because ummmm " dating leads to marriage .. and I am not sure the alumni and our parents would approve of that " full stop * I often dined with teammates who were AA. I once had a strange guy appear in my dorm doorway to " warn me" that " That kinda thing.... isn't tolerated here " He dissapeared after giving me his " message" * People would make jokes every time Angie and Jesse kissed on camera in All My Children... it was a mystery to me what they found so funny so I asked . " the lips" was the response.... these were college aged girls who had all gotten above 1300 on SAT and all went on to work as CPA's or Ad Execs or in Finance in Chicago. They always said the same thing when I challenged them , " I am not a racist ...Its just the way we were raised" |
| How many early Harvard admits from GDS this year? |
| Nixed at MIT. |
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OMG 15:19, you need to post this on the Colleges forum since someone asked about UIUC recently.
I agree with you 100% esp. about the sorority-fraternity nonsense. The worst, most foul-mouthed unapologetic racists weren't from Berwyn but Bannockburn. |
Right. Because PPs experience circa 1988 is so relevant now. |
My child is 18 and will be a freshman next year, It is likely that many of the Big 10 schools will be filled with the sane age children of my former 80's classmates....remember the defensive response, " its just how I was raised " UIUC is Peoria meets Springfield meets St Louis... meets ...awkwardly Skokie and FB players from Southern CA |
No Dog in this ...but my vote is the interviewer / alum call the AD and says, " this is the most outstanding kid I have interviewed in 10 years and I am so taken back that she was deferred that I am questioning whether my Alma Mater still holds out the same values and ethos when I was a student.... I am seriously considering no longer donating... fingers crossed that gets her IN |
Such disgusting people |
A couple decades ago would make it more like 2000 |
Yes! Pick Tulane! Roll wave roll! -fellow big 3 parent and tulane alum |
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She’s one of two. I interviewed a candidate from a non-“Big 3” excellent private last year that also blew me away. He was hooked 3 different ways and I would have admitted him blindly. |