Why are dating apps filled with MC or LMC guys?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The UMC guys already got married to the rest of us.

+1

So true.

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And many of us helped their grind.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The UMC guys already got married to the rest of us.

+1

So true.

+ 2

And many of us helped their grind.

Why are your husbands, the married doctors lawyers and businessmen with their head cut off in pics on tinder then? If they're so happy why are they eyeballing my boobs and ass all the time? Maybe as long as the money is increasing so is the tolerance for cheating.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The UMC guys already got married to the rest of us.

+1

So true.

+ 2

And many of us helped their grind.

Why are your husbands, the married doctors lawyers and businessmen with their head cut off in pics on tinder then? If they're so happy why are they eyeballing my boobs and ass all the time? Maybe as long as the money is increasing so is the tolerance for cheating.

1. All of them are not doing that. Some people made the right choice and are content with it.

2. The guys that are...Those guys aren’t happy. No one suggested they were happy. So many men also marry plain, resume specific women for status, but their love or passion is elsewhere. They married the woman they wanted to build a lineage with, not the one they want to have fun with.

This has been discussed ad nauseam in other threads

[Anonymous]

If they're so happy why are they eyeballing my boobs and ass all the time?

I eyeball women even though I’m happily married, because I like to look at women.

Because I’m happily married, it goes no further than eyeballing. And I try not to do it in front of DW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The UMC guys already got married to the rest of us.

+1

So true.

+ 2

And many of us helped their grind.

Why are your husbands, the married doctors lawyers and businessmen with their head cut off in pics on tinder then? If they're so happy why are they eyeballing my boobs and ass all the time? Maybe as long as the money is increasing so is the tolerance for cheating.

1. All of them are not doing that. Some people made the right choice and are content with it.

2. The guys that are...Those guys aren’t happy. No one suggested they were happy. So many men also marry plain, resume specific women for status, but their love or passion is elsewhere. They married the woman they wanted to build a lineage with, not the one they want to have fun with.

This has been discussed ad nauseam in other threads

All of them are not doing that? Do you watch them like a hawk 24/7? Truth is most of the umc and uc guys are typically entitled and bc of status are known to be players. Don't be naive.

[Anonymous]

What the f is UMC?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the f is UMC?

There's a million context clues even if you can't immediately tell what it is like a normal person.

[Anonymous]

Those guys just want to use you. They love their lives, their wives (many who they still screw 3-4 times per weeks) and kids. They don’t respect whores they f@ck from the Internet— and certainly not the unsuspecting victims, their wives.

The women like you and the men like with the cutoff heads tell a sad fake tale to one another to justify their depravity.

May you and the cutoff heads all burn in hell for eternity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Those guys just want to use you. They love their lives, their wives (many who they still screw 3-4 times per weeks) and kids. They don’t respect whores they f@ck from the Internet— and certainly not the unsuspecting victims, their wives.

The women like you and the men like with the cutoff heads tell a sad fake tale to one another to justify their depravity.

May you and the cutoff heads all burn in hell for eternity.

I sense a bit of anger in your post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here.I am recently separated and would like to meet a similar minded professional guy to build a family with.

Are you active in your alumni association?
Do you go to church? I went church hopping at 34 and was married within a year, two kids and 21 years later now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Blunt answer - there are very few men in their 30s who have a good education and are single, and the ones left rule the dating world and date younger. I agree if you want to expand your search, date older divorced men.

OP here. Yes. When I change my match criteria I match with plenty of attractive UMC late twentysomethings. My criteria which is 32-39 are all LMC guys or weirdos or losers.

There are a few successful thritysomething men who appear to be UMC but they only want hookups and are enjoying being playboys.

Are there really no newly divorced UMC 30something men? I can't be the only one whose marriage blew up!

How old are you exactly?
You are separated, not divorced yet. Do you understand your role in the failure of your marriage? Have you processed this with a therapist?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am not trying to be snobby but I have been on Tinder and OKC and most of my matches are....not college educated and/or blue collar. Some of them are hot and smart. But I am looking for a longterm match with a 30something UMC guy with a professional job.

Is it my profile? What is going on?

Are you UMC with a professional job?

Yes

You need to network at work. UMC generally meet st school or work... maybe neighbors. Do you live in a nice building of 30 professionals? Have a ‘block party’ in common room. Use building gym more (but $$$ gym works too). UMC on OKC and tinder are looking for hot 20 something for a fling, not 30 year with ticking clock.

Great idea. I work for an international development non profit so my colleagues are all women and gay men. :\

Try church.

LOL single men don't go to church, least of all to meet women.

Completely wrong.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of people meet in their 30's and get married and have kids. OP, try changing the age range from 28-38. I'll likely get flamed for this, but there's something wrong with most guys who are pushing 40 and haven't been married yet.

Join events through either sports, religion, hobbies, etc. where you can meet men who like to do the same things you can. Ask your friends to set you up with guys. You have to approach this like a part-time job. It might take a while but hopefully one of the guys will work out. Good luck!

This I was at 27 with a Master’s unmarried and realizing I played around too much in grad school. I hadn’t made those connections. I made it a job to get a husband. I didn’t even last a year on the market.

Boom. Me too at age 34 in DC.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The UMC guys I know, particularly the older ones, would never dream of seriously dating someone from an app. They meet women through their circle of friends, their country club, and activities like golf. Sign up for golf lessons and join a club if you can.

She wants to date guys in their 30s, not some old bastard.

What she wants =/= what she can get.

UMC guys in their 30s don't want some divorced chick with rapidly declining fertility.

You can suck it. I know several great men who married 34-year-olds after they divorced. Irish twins by the time she was 40.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Another vote for club sports like softball. My best friend met her husband that way!

UMC guys aren’t playing softball.

Doesn’t The Hill league still exist? I know former staffers who played well into their 40s.