Husband confessed to killing pregnant wife and their two daughters.

[Anonymous]

Thank you to the anon who posted the Mosaic site earlier in the thread. I went and did the assessment and scored a 7 out of 10. I've known something has been off in my marriage but this cemented it. Don't know what my plan is next, but that really opened my eyes. First step: counseling. I have made an appointment for early next month.

(Not trying to derail this thread! Just wanted to thank the poster)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

[Anonymous]

This situation reminds me of the father in Oregon who killed the wife and later the two boys. That haunted me for a while.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

Geez, really? You think anyone with bad finances and kids should be considered at risk of being murdered by their spouse? That's not a reason to "snap" and murder your whole family. It's just not. He, too, made choices that led to them having a $2k mortgage, two cars, three kids. It's not like these are things she did to him.

[Anonymous]

What was his girlfriends name?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't want to read through 17 pages to find out the answer to this, but what reason did he give for killing them?

He’s said he told his wife he wanted to leave her (when she returned from her biz trip), that in response she killed her daughters and he saw it on the monitor as she was strangling the second after the frost was already dead ( :roll, and that he then responded by killing her. Basically that he killed her because she killed the daughters. I think precisely zero people find this plausible, and his next steps of dumping his daughters’ bodies In oil tanks makes it even less so.

+1 and women don't usually kill by a means as up close and personal as strangling.

[Anonymous]

How long were they married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

The finances are appalling and makes me realize there was something also very wrong with the wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ciP7Hfj7ONE


YouTube


Communication Speech, Relationship Deterioration and Repair
Christopher Watts20,616 views

Here’s the dad/husband of the year in a video about relationships. From a few years ago. While he apparently was still human-ish.

He checked out long before this illiterate video. I hope he BURNS in hell.

Yes horrible monster. His gf's name is already out, appears she is also married.

She deserves the mess she is in for her part in the destruction of this family. On the upside Chris is going to get his dance card punched frequently in prison.

Unfortunately adultery is no biggie to a huge swath of the population.

My MIL was telling me an a woman in her neighborhood who cheated and her husband was crushed. He drove off into the night in turmoil and agony and had a fatal automobile accident.

His “grieving” widow collected his insurance and married her AP after he walked out on his family.

Ah, so convenient.

What state/town/neighborhood is this? Do mean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

Geez, really? You think anyone with bad finances and kids should be considered at risk of being murdered by their spouse? That's not a reason to "snap" and murder your whole family. It's just not. He, too, made choices that led to them having a $2k mortgage, two cars, three kids. It's not like these are things she did to him.

Financial problems do seem to make some men murder their whole families. There are many instances of this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

The finances are appalling and makes me realize there was something also very wrong with the wife.

Yeah, they probably should have divorced if it was stressing him out so badly. Killing his pregnant wife along with their small children was cold blooded as hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

The finances are appalling and makes me realize there was something also very wrong with the wife.

How do you even GET a mortgage so soon after a bankruptcy??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

The finances are appalling and makes me realize there was something also very wrong with the wife.

So that means it's acceptable to kill her and the little girls? Wtf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m just haunted by this. I know that people can put on a good show for social media, but she her body language and facial expressions and commentary on her marriage show none of the kind of reservations I would expect from someone who thought their spouse was capable of harming them. I mean, that was a really good show if she thought he would ever harm her or her kids.

What her social media shows is a compete divorce from reality. They filed for bankruptcy with over 400K in debt three years ago and were facing a lawsuit from their HOA for unpaid fees.

And yet:

- She’s running a MLM scam which COSTS money to ‘join’
- Is traveling multiple times a year at personal expense
- Has two cars
- Has two kids
- Is pregnant with a third
- Has a 2K month mortgage
- Has no solid job

I can only think it’s a wonder he didn’t snap sooner.

The finances are appalling and makes me realize there was something also very wrong with the wife.

WHY do the finances mean there's something wrong with the wife? Clearly they both made terrible financial decisions. Most women join MLM schemes because they believe it will make money - an extremely poor decision, but not one that should get her murdered, and we have no idea that she did that against his will. There are photos of him with her at the events, wearing the t-shirts, wearing the damn patches. Also there apparently was a video floating around wherein she discussed how much HE wanted the third child. And in her pregnancy reveal (to him) video, he comments to the effect "I guess if you want it, it happens." Why people are putting all of this on HER, when they SHARED the finances, the cars, the house(s), the bankruptcy, the kids, is just just me and I find it stunning. This shit was not just her fault. They both made terrible decisions together. That he murdered her and their innocent children is really unrelated. That's not a normal response to having bad finances!

[Anonymous]

^I think the PP said there was *also* something wrong with the wife. I don't think they were saying that she was the sole cause of all of their financial problems or that she, in any way, deserved to be killed for being bad with money.

But, yeah, she was terrible with money, so was he. Their finances were in shambles, yet again. Nobody deserved to die over it.