I wish women would demand more in a relationship before getting intimate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

keep telling yourself that.

How strange..because none of my close friends have it. Can't be as common as you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

keep telling yourself that.

How strange..because none of my close friends have it. Can't be as common as you think.

Same. I've never had any of my friends tell me they've had this. But then my circle of friends is one that generally had limited partners and never played the hookup game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OK I have an issue with one thing you posted and that is the word "promiscuous." Honestly, who cares how many people she chooses to sleep with.

From a health stand point, I absolutely agree. Women should make sure that their partners are healthy before having sex, but this is a health issue, not a moral one.

She clearly ins't protecting herself and that's a problem. I would also venture to say she isn't mature enough to handle all these boyfriends and that's her issue, not a woman's issue. Some women wait for the perfect guy and still get "screwed." So, knowing what you want out of a relationship, and demanding that is what you need. Sometimes that's just sex, and I think that's ok. If that something is marriage, than the expectations need to be made clear.

A lot of guys do.

Not everyone wants a relationship with that kind of guy.

[Anonymous]

Op, why would you care what "women" want sexually?

Sounds controlling and chauvinistic. Weird good girl/bad girl conflict going on - this could be very negative for your daughter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

Of course it does. First, you don't know that your husband gave it to you. It could have been one of your previous partners.

Oh, you didn't have any? Then he got it from sleeping with someone besides you. Who got it from someone other than him.

It's about promiscuity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

Your doctor is telling you that to make you feel good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

Well, you know the old saying that when you sleep with someone then you're essentially sleeping with everyone they've slept with. So if YOU have a lot of partners, and those partners all had a lot of partners, then your net is being cast far wider than two people with very far more limited histories. If two virgins met and married then they'd not have this problem, right?

I'm not suggesting that everyone remain a virgin, but to suggest that having multiple partners who also had multiple partners is of no significance then I think you're just kidding yourself.

[Anonymous]

If your husband gave you HPV, he got it from somewhere in the first place. Maybe his previous partners. However, if he was clean when he was married to you (and you were clean too), then if he gave you HPV, it means that he was cheating on you.

DH and I have only been sexually with each other. I admit that this was because of the standards of sexual morality of the culture we were born in, and less to do with any choice. However, it is a relief to not worry about STDs or even think about each other's previous partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

Well, you know the old saying that when you sleep with someone then you're essentially sleeping with everyone they've slept with. So if YOU have a lot of partners, and those partners all had a lot of partners, then your net is being cast far wider than two people with very far more limited histories. If two virgins met and married then they'd not have this problem, right?

I'm not suggesting that everyone remain a virgin, but to suggest that having multiple partners who also had multiple partners is of no significance then I think you're just kidding yourself.

She and all her friends might have gotten it from the same person

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband gave me HPV. I had two LEEPS. Not the end of the world.

My friend's husband also gave it to her.

Almost every one of my friends have had it. My doctor even said you pretty much can't date or have sex and not get it.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity.

Well, you know the old saying that when you sleep with someone then you're essentially sleeping with everyone they've slept with. So if YOU have a lot of partners, and those partners all had a lot of partners, then your net is being cast far wider than two people with very far more limited histories. If two virgins met and married then they'd not have this problem, right?

I'm not suggesting that everyone remain a virgin, but to suggest that having multiple partners who also had multiple partners is of no significance then I think you're just kidding yourself.

She and all her friends might have gotten it from the same person

And maybe all at the same time.