S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

Glad OP got resolution.... and I'm so happy to have been a part of DCUM history as it unfolded.

[Anonymous]

OP, do NOT tell him about this thread. I am being very, very serious.

This guy has anger issues, has guns, and has a known mental illness (bi-polar).

Wish him a happy life, tell him goodbye, and end all contact. Now.

[Anonymous]

Hunting and/or collecting guns does not equal being a dangerous murderer, sheesh.

I'm not a hunter and neither is my husband. Shooting for trophies is disgusting.

But for those saying they don't understand "hunting," grow up! Hunting for food is perfectly acceptable. It is part of the circle of life. Please watch some nature shows to get a grasp on this elementary level concept.

OP... run far away, no matter what. Not because he's a hunter, but because he's obviously a liar and there is no future there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, do NOT tell him about this thread. I am being very, very serious.

This guy has anger issues, has guns, and has a known mental illness (bi-polar).

Wish him a happy life, tell him goodbye, and end all contact. Now.

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OP Here: I wasn't planning on it. I just got off the phone with him now because I just couldn't handle the excuses and the 57935083 apologies that I don't believe. I told him I was getting off the phone and he asked me if I wanted him to call me later when he gets back to NY and I said no.

[Anonymous]

OP Here: I wasn't planning on it. I just got off the phone with him now because I just couldn't handle the excuses and the 57935083 apologies that I don't believe. I told him I was getting off the phone and he asked me if I wanted him to call me later when he gets back to NY and I said no.

Great. Then there's really nothing else to discuss at this point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

OP Here: I wasn't planning on it. I just got off the phone with him now because I just couldn't handle the excuses and the 57935083 apologies that I don't believe. I told him I was getting off the phone and he asked me if I wanted him to call me later when he gets back to NY and I said no.

Great. Then there's really nothing else to discuss at this point.

Good job, OP. Block his number from your cell phone, remove his contact info, and do not have any further contact with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP Here: I wasn't planning on it. I just got off the phone with him now because I just couldn't handle the excuses and the 57935083 apologies that I don't believe. I told him I was getting off the phone and he asked me if I wanted him to call me later when he gets back to NY and I said no.

Great. Then there's really nothing else to discuss at this point.

Good job, OP. Block his number from your cell phone, remove his contact info, and do not have any further contact with him.

+1

[Anonymous]

Well done, OP. I'm glad he is okay. I've truly had a blast following you and your story. The coonhound competition conclusion was truly more than I could have asked for!

For the record, I like SV (and his beard) and am pleased he called grandma and gramps to let them know he was headed back home. I am also happy for him that he made some money. I think Uncle J is awesome. I have been following you from an undisclosed international location for two straight days, and I believe you have told the truth.

On a serious note, though, I dated and loved a bipolar man for several years a long time ago. I still think about him, but it was too too hard. I hope you find a happy space and a great partner and move on from this.

[Anonymous]

Jeff - how did you see the coonhound pick on SV's FB page? Is there some way to see archived Facebook pages?

[Anonymous]

If Op was local to BF. I would want her to help him....he needs someone caring and compassionate. Especially if he has had a bad childhood. Not as a GF. But as a friend and support. She obviously cares.

[Anonymous]

I'm still interested in this post and if anyone else knows this forum:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, I finally caught up on that entire epic thread and I am positive this is the same troll that was on gurugossip. She was "jenxiety/alaina" on the organizedlikejen board.

Exactly the same MO. Same 'speech' pattern. On that thread she was making accusations about Jennifer Ross, but also pulling personal attention towards her about how the stress of it all was hurting her relationship. She was busy 'working' yet was on the thread all day long, almost exclusively to argue with people who questioned her. She would dangle proof and then pull it back saying she didn't want her personal info out there, but had no issue putting others info out. She pointed out real facebook profiles as proof of her story. She was very clever about giving just enough information but never enough. Her story always straddled the line between real and absurd. (think the strange bobcat poaching detail) She would email people and private message them and then say that proved she was real. She claimed the mods had proven she was real when they really hadn't. She used a ton of sock puppets.

Every time someone would give her a reasonable suggestion she would have an excuse not to do it or would have to do it later.

This is the same girl/guy whatever. I'm convinced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If Op was local to BF. I would want her to help him....he needs someone caring and compassionate. Especially if he has had a bad childhood. Not as a GF. But as a friend and support. She obviously cares.

No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, now I am freaking out. I was on FB and SV came up as a possible friend for me. I swear I only stalked him maybe three times.

You need to take your sad little self offline. No FB. No online dating. And NO DCUM!

[Anonymous]

I have to admit I might go through a little withdrawal now that this is all coming to an end. OP, I will miss you. I wish you the best. I hope SV has a good life, too. Just separate from yours.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:Jeff - how did you see the coonhound pick on SV's FB page? Is there some way to see archived Facebook pages?

It couldn't be easier. Go to Facebook, enter the guy's first and last name. A list of matches drops down, click on the one with the huge beard.