Told brother to keep his girlfriend aka mistress at home for the holidays.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would ban your brother. He is a piece of crap for cheating on his wife. The, so-called, mistress was his choice.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Another sister in her brother's business and up his arse. Leave him be. Don't even invite him if you can't be civil to his girlfriend. (Sorry, babe; she's not a "mistress" or a "side piece" anymore. He is divorced and he has a girlfriend.)

Get a life, honestly. What is with you women who sniff around your brother's business all the time? And yes, I have a brother.

If it's an event at her house, it's her business. Outside of that, leave him alone.

Which is why I said “don’t even invite him if you can’t be civil to his girlfriend,” dummy.

Oooh "dummy" - sick burn!

Oooh, “sick burn!” Amazing comeback. In 2012.

It wasn't supposed to be amazing. It was supposed to be on par with "dummy."

[Anonymous]

Op, how about keeping the boundary of no GF over the holidays, which could really create a lot of tension and ruin the spirit BUT over to meet her after the holidays or over New Year's, something more low key?

[Anonymous]

I would ban him from the first few holidays and invite her to get to know her.

[Anonymous]

Let her come, but make her wear a scarlet letter on her forehead so your far, far more moral family can openly scorn her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let her come, but make her wear a scarlet letter on her forehead so your far, far more moral family can openly scorn her.

Also make sure everyone calls GF the SIL's name during the enter meal and have all the brother/SIL wedding photos on the buffet table.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you treating the GF that way, but not your brother? They were equal partners in the end of your brother's marriage. It seems misogynistic to hold the whole thing against the female in the relationship.

+1

It takes two to tango.

Also weird your brother doesn’t consider his kids his family…?

[Anonymous]

OP if he leaves his gf at home does that help you forget he's a POS that cheated on his wife?