Boyfriend continues to cheat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

[Anonymous]

Why are you still with him? Just leave.

[Anonymous]

This sucks but it's not complicated. You leave. This happened to me. You're lucky you're just a few months in, no marriage or kids. It's emotionally tough but a no brainer. Why would this guy ever change his ways or respect you??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

1. He’s not a nice partner. Nice partners don’t cheat.

2. He doesn’t treat you well. He accused you of cheating when he knows damn well you didn’t. He told your mother you cheated on him when he knows damn well you didn’t.

3. Your mother is a horrible person, which is very likely the reason you put up with #1 and #2. Dump this guy, get therapy, and put up some boundaries with your mother.

[Anonymous]

Break up today. Block him.

[Anonymous]

Girl, where is your pride? Dig deep. This guy will never respect you. Kick him to the curb.

[Anonymous]

Girl... you've listed a dozen deal breakers here. Just him lying to your mom alone is an immediate dumping.

[Anonymous]

I’m less patient with these posts as I get older. They make me feel mean, and I can’t find my empathy, which I’m not proud of but c’mon!! Hope it’s a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Babe. So, I had a similar BF. I ignored my gut and stayed. Eventually, I caught him cheating while I was literally giving birth to his child. Still didn't leave for another 3 years, when I caught him cheating for the god knows how many time.

The whole "but YOU did XYZ!" is straight out of the cheater's playbook. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It's to get you to shut up and not hold him accountable.

Leave. It's not worth it. He's going to cheat again, and it's up to you whether you end it now or years from now. Now is better.

I have so many questions...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

Def a troll. Go back to class.

[Anonymous]

Get into therapy now. Nobody healthy would fall for this nonsense.

[Anonymous]

You are a troll! You are not married and have no kids and yet haven't left him!

[Anonymous]

Don't put up with this

[Anonymous]

Ain’t your husband. And you’ve been dating less than a year. Not “cheating.”

[Anonymous]

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