Boyfriend continues to cheat

[Anonymous]

Girl, where is your pride? Dig deep. This guy will never respect you. Kick him to the curb.

[Anonymous]

Girl... you've listed a dozen deal breakers here. Just him lying to your mom alone is an immediate dumping.

[Anonymous]

I’m less patient with these posts as I get older. They make me feel mean, and I can’t find my empathy, which I’m not proud of but c’mon!! Hope it’s a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Babe. So, I had a similar BF. I ignored my gut and stayed. Eventually, I caught him cheating while I was literally giving birth to his child. Still didn't leave for another 3 years, when I caught him cheating for the god knows how many time.

The whole "but YOU did XYZ!" is straight out of the cheater's playbook. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It's to get you to shut up and not hold him accountable.

Leave. It's not worth it. He's going to cheat again, and it's up to you whether you end it now or years from now. Now is better.

I have so many questions...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

Def a troll. Go back to class.

[Anonymous]

Get into therapy now. Nobody healthy would fall for this nonsense.

[Anonymous]

You are a troll! You are not married and have no kids and yet haven't left him!

[Anonymous]

Don't put up with this

[Anonymous]

Ain’t your husband. And you’ve been dating less than a year. Not “cheating.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

This

[Anonymous]

Dump him.

And, when he tries to pressure you to stay together and keeps asking for reasons, you just say, boyfriend, I don't want to be a relationship with you anymore. It's over.

He's going to want you to list reasons so he can counter them with his arguments. Don't get caught up in that. You simply don't feel the same way about him anymore and it's over.

[Anonymous]

You can make him not your boyfriend and then it would be impossible for him to cheat on you.

[Anonymous]

OP,

You are the cannon fodder side character of your own life story.

Too dumb to live.

And of course, a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can make him not your boyfriend and then it would be impossible for him to cheat on you.

[Anonymous]

2 sentences in, I know you should be walking away. Imagine you're telling this to your friend. What would you think? Walk away. Success is the best revenge.