Dating prospects for early 50s men?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Most men in their 50s who already have kids won't want another set. I can't imagine running around after toddlers at that age -- it's physically taxing. Or showing up to their high school graduation whne you're in your 70s.

Most? No, but there are a decent number of guys of a certain type (that age with $$$) who want a do-over family because they’re sure that whatever made them divorce and have a crappy relationship with their kids is entirely the fault of wife #1. Wife #2 is sure of that as well, because who wouldn’t love such a Good Guy. Obviously that evil harpy witch is to blame. Of course this time will be better. Until it’s not and he moves on to wife #3. He was never going to chase toddlers, he didn’t do it the first time, either. It only gets marginally harder after wife #2, but if there’s enough money, he’ll be just fine.

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You think a hot, late 20s woman is going to be content to play stepmom and not have her own kids? Especially if her new husband has money and is way older?

Please get your head out of the sand.

Yes, plenty of old guys in Beverly Hills with mid to late 20s women, and they are also stepmoms. Both of my brothers happen to be in that situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Most men in their 50s who already have kids won't want another set. I can't imagine running around after toddlers at that age -- it's physically taxing. Or showing up to their high school graduation whne you're in your 70s.

Most men don’t want it and that’s true. But some men don’t mind it.
Trump was 60 when he had Barron. No big deal.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:if he looking for a woman close to age (which most people prefer) it's going to be tough. most of the good ones are taken. if he is looking for a younger woman it is more doable but he is not landing "top" women in that category.

100% false. A man would get his choice of a top younger woman if he is good looking, financially successful, and has interesting hobbies.

NP. No “top” younger women want someone their own age. Only someone who is seriously flawed ends up with someone decades older.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Most men in their 50s who already have kids won't want another set. I can't imagine running around after toddlers at that age -- it's physically taxing. Or showing up to their high school graduation whne you're in your 70s.

Most? No, but there are a decent number of guys of a certain type (that age with $$$) who want a do-over family because they’re sure that whatever made them divorce and have a crappy relationship with their kids is entirely the fault of wife #1. Wife #2 is sure of that as well, because who wouldn’t love such a Good Guy. Obviously that evil harpy witch is to blame. Of course this time will be better. Until it’s not and he moves on to wife #3. He was never going to chase toddlers, he didn’t do it the first time, either. It only gets marginally harder after wife #2, but if there’s enough money, he’ll be just fine.

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You think a hot, late 20s woman is going to be content to play stepmom and not have her own kids? Especially if her new husband has money and is way older?

Please get your head out of the sand.

Yes, plenty of old guys in Beverly Hills with mid to late 20s women, and they are also stepmoms. Both of my brothers happen to be in that situation.

Weird. I have several girlfriends in Beverly Hills. They all married late 40s men when in their mid to late 30s. The men are wealthy and on second marriage. A 10 years age gap is common, but 20s women marrying 50yo is more of exception. Are you sure the women were not sugaring as a main profession, before marrying your brothers ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Most men in their 50s who already have kids won't want another set. I can't imagine running around after toddlers at that age -- it's physically taxing. Or showing up to their high school graduation whne you're in your 70s.

Most men don’t want it and that’s true. But some men don’t mind it.
Trump was 60 when he had Barron. No big deal.

Sure, if you marry one of Epstein girls nothing else is a big deal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Congratulations - he’s en route to a new set of kids, while most other 50s men are enjoying retirement and travel with their grown up kids.
Not really sure if a new uterus is worth it, but men know better, of course.

Most early 50s men are retired? Where do you live? Thailand? Or are you talking aout enlisted service members that put in 30 years and are now trying to squeeze by on $3000 a month for the next 30 years?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

Wow, it sounds like the women who are attracted to you really suck! I wonder why that is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:if he looking for a woman close to age (which most people prefer) it's going to be tough. most of the good ones are taken. if he is looking for a younger woman it is more doable but he is not landing "top" women in that category.

100% false. A man would get his choice of a top younger woman if he is good looking, financially successful, and has interesting hobbies.

That is so untrue. It is not 1990.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

No one kills for 55 yo never married guy. Everyone knows he has more baggage than a Tumi warehouse

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

Wow, it sounds like the women who are attracted to you really suck! I wonder why that is.

And it sounds like he’s still dating/sleeping with them. Probably because quality women don’t want to date him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

No one kills for 55 yo never married guy. Everyone knows he has more baggage than a Tumi warehouse

Yea, better men are still divorced empty nesters at this age. If they were married to a female investment banker for 15+ years they 100% a better catch than never married 55 yo serial monogamist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

LOL. Yeah, we are sure guys who were married to EVPs at F500 companys are turning to OLD in hopes for a match. So sad you lie on an anonymous forum to make yourself feel better about being a single old fat ady. Just accept it grandma, no man wants you. Not even to pump and dump. Sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

LOL. Yeah, we are sure guys who were married to EVPs at F500 companys are turning to OLD in hopes for a match. So sad you lie on an anonymous forum to make yourself feel better about being a single old fat ady. Just accept it grandma, no man wants you. Not even to pump and dump. Sad.

Almost everyone I meet on OLD is an executive of some sort. And I’m not fat, by far. Not sure why you don’t attract the right crowd - probably you need to look at the mirror