Middle Aged Women And Wandering Eye

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You’re not very bright. People flirt all the time without any intention of going further.

As a reasonably cute woman, I can guarantee that if I walk into a room full of married men, I get looks and conversation starters. The immense majority are not out to proposition me. They want to spend a few minutes getting attention from an attractive member of the opposite sex while they wait for their kid’s activity or pick up stuff at Home Depot. It makes them feel happy, which is understandable.

Same thing here.

You know very very very little about men if you think they wouldnt bang you.

PP you replied to. That's not the question, actually, and you are very wrong if you start thinking about men-women relations from that angle. The problem for most people is that even if they're interested, they are conditioned not to ask for inappropriate things. Apart from a few desperate guys, most married men I interact with would never, in a billion years, suggest anything untoward, even if they enjoy my company and find me attractive (something a lot of them signal, but not in explicit terms).

In other words, it's socially acceptable to sublimate your desires into non-sexual interactions. And those interactions, the vast majority of the time, do not lead to sex.

How do you know these men have these desires? I tend to assume people are just being nice because I am nice and friendly to others without any sexual tension/desires. And I know some genuinely nice men too who are equally nice to women across the board, attractive or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not even an hour ago I (51M, married) was at the World Market on Rt 7 in Alexandria getting stocking stuffers for my kids and the place was PACKED with MILFS, all married. Every single one that I made eye contact with smiled and then proceeded to return eye contact a half dozen other times while I was shopping. I'm just a regular guy in khakis and a sweater, maybe an 8 in looks, not super tall or rich looking but they would have been so easy to ask out if I'd wanted too.

Keep your wives satisfied, gentlemen, or someone will.

So you’re that skeevy guy creeping out women who are just trying to go about their day.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They were probably wondering what you were doing in World Market at noon on a Monday.

Why would they wonder about him doing the exact same thing they are doing?

DP.

Because he is roaming around aimlessly staring at them as if he needs help. He was behaving as if he was out of his element so they kept wondering what he was doing there and if he will ask for the help he appeared to need.

Oh. You were there and saw all this?

Just as OP is projecting his nature unto these women, I am projecting mine. If a seemingly responsible man kept looking my way while I was shopping, I'd assume he needs help and is about to ask me a question.

[Anonymous]

Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re not very bright. People flirt all the time without any intention of going further.

As a reasonably cute woman, I can guarantee that if I walk into a room full of married men, I get looks and conversation starters. The immense majority are not out to proposition me. They want to spend a few minutes getting attention from an attractive member of the opposite sex while they wait for their kid’s activity or pick up stuff at Home Depot. It makes them feel happy, which is understandable.

Same thing here.

You know very very very little about men if you think they wouldnt bang you.

PP you replied to. That's not the question, actually, and you are very wrong if you start thinking about men-women relations from that angle. The problem for most people is that even if they're interested, they are conditioned not to ask for inappropriate things. Apart from a few desperate guys, most married men I interact with would never, in a billion years, suggest anything untoward, even if they enjoy my company and find me attractive (something a lot of them signal, but not in explicit terms).

In other words, it's socially acceptable to sublimate your desires into non-sexual interactions. And those interactions, the vast majority of the time, do not lead to sex.

50% of all marriages end due to infidelity. You don't have to like being wrong, but you are.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is why women choose the bear, creep.

+1.

Some men are something else. This is why women wear biatch resting face. You cannot be a happy smiling woman without some man assuming that you are flirting. It's weird.

Soooo, they look at him a half dozen times and smile at him..... because they don't like them?

Bro's probably not an 8 but more like a soft 5 who gives off major creeper vibes and they were keeping tabs on him because he was giving off bad vibes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t worry, this guy would have been here posting about how they’re all hags if they didn’t smile. For dudes like this, women are either trying to f$& him or deserving of harm.

I mean, he’s an *8* amrite?

[Anonymous]

Who would have thought this post would have a bunch of fatties frothing at the mouth?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

I am not a man, but if I were a man interested in a woman I saw in a store or while out and about, I would introduce myself, first name and last name, and say " I'd like to take you out on a coffee date. Here is my number. Please call me if you are interested."

[Anonymous]

The real reason is this guy was standing in front of the display of chocolate oranges.

[Anonymous]

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The real reason is this guy was standing in front of the display of chocolate oranges.

Those Terrys slap.

[Anonymous]

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The real reason is this guy was standing in front of the display of chocolate oranges.

Haagen-Dazs ice cream for this fatty!

[Anonymous]

I didn’t know World Market was a pick up joint.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what has made so many of these women so angry but I definitely see attractive middle aged men at stores all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

I am not a man, but if I were a man interested in a woman I saw in a store or while out and about, I would introduce myself, first name and last name, and say " I'd like to take you out on a coffee date. Here is my number. Please call me if you are interested."

Bad advice. You come off as weak and hesitant, and you shift the burden of pursuit to the woman. There are a lot of women who might be interested but would simply not pick up the phone to call you. Obviously it's not good to come across as too pushy, but this approach errs too far in the other direction.