Middle Aged Women And Wandering Eye

[Anonymous]

I'm just a regular guy in khakis and a sweater, maybe an 8 in looks

lol! Men are wild.

Anyway OP, just do your Xmas shopping. Women (not all but most) make eye contact and smile bc we’ve been trained to do it essentially since birth. And more than one of us have been reminded to do it by a clueless (male) boss. This is not a “wandering” eye. It’s called “being out in the world as a woman”. You know what’s hotter than an “8” dad in a sweater at World Market? A guy who’s good to his partner t home. Be that guy. It’d be a gift to us all.

[Anonymous]

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I'm just a regular guy in khakis and a sweater, maybe an 8 in looks

lol! Men are wild.

Anyway OP, just do your Xmas shopping. Women (not all but most) make eye contact and smile bc we’ve been trained to do it essentially since birth. And more than one of us have been reminded to do it by a clueless (male) boss. This is not a “wandering” eye. It’s called “being out in the world as a woman”. You know what’s hotter than an “8” dad in a sweater at World Market? A guy who’s good to his partner t home. Be that guy. It’d be a gift to us all.

Where did OP state he wasn't a good dude at home?

This place is wild. Never in my life did I understand how many women just hate men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

I'm just a regular guy in khakis and a sweater, maybe an 8 in looks

lol! Men are wild.

Anyway OP, just do your Xmas shopping. Women (not all but most) make eye contact and smile bc we’ve been trained to do it essentially since birth. And more than one of us have been reminded to do it by a clueless (male) boss. This is not a “wandering” eye. It’s called “being out in the world as a woman”. You know what’s hotter than an “8” dad in a sweater at World Market? A guy who’s good to his partner t home. Be that guy. It’d be a gift to us all.

Where did OP state he wasn't a good dude at home?

This place is wild. Never in my life did I understand how many women just hate men.

And never in mine did I understand how men think women are just walking sex toys begging to be used. Look at all the posts telling women to hurry up and compromise before they die alone and the posts saying men use women for sex and women use men for money.

Imagine thinking a woman wants you because because she smiles at you a few times.

[Anonymous]

A woman who cheats isn’t worth the effort, she will always feels more entitled than committed. Looking isn’t an issue, but if she is married and is flirtatious with someone who can contact her then she is worth less than the shoes she is wearing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

What a bizarre comment. You never see attractive men out in the world? I see them all the time.

Men are not attractive. Most of them are losers. They aren’t worth our time.

[Anonymous]

Shockingly, some people are just friendly! I smile at everyone I see, especially during the holidays when things are crazy. Doesn't mean I want to sleep with them all (or any of them).

[Anonymous]

I smile at handsome men all the time. When I was in my 20s it was pretty common for an encounter like this to turn sexual very quickly. I once slept with a man I'd met at the dentist. In his car in the parking lot It was hot af. Another time I met a guy at HH at Sign of The Whale in the late 90s and he fingered me at the bar and we had sex in the bathroom.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

I'm just a regular guy in khakis and a sweater, maybe an 8 in looks

lol! Men are wild.

Anyway OP, just do your Xmas shopping. Women (not all but most) make eye contact and smile bc we’ve been trained to do it essentially since birth. And more than one of us have been reminded to do it by a clueless (male) boss. This is not a “wandering” eye. It’s called “being out in the world as a woman”. You know what’s hotter than an “8” dad in a sweater at World Market? A guy who’s good to his partner t home. Be that guy. It’d be a gift to us all.

Where did OP state he wasn't a good dude at home?

This place is wild. Never in my life did I understand how many women just hate men.

When you consider the very high rates of childhood sexual abuse, sexual assault, domestic violence, and sexual harassment, I’m not sure why this is hard for you to understand.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

What a bizarre comment. You never see attractive men out in the world? I see them all the time.

Men are not attractive. Most of them are losers. They aren’t worth our time.

DP.

I wouldn't say men are not attractive, but their attractiveness is usually a package where looks are just a small portion of the package.

I don't think I have ever seen a random man and felt like "Wow, this man is so good looking I'd like to eff him". It usually boils down to personality and energy.

And I smile all day everyday at everyone because I am a happy person in general. Never in my life have I smiled at a man because I thought he was hot.