Middle Aged Women And Wandering Eye

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They were probably wondering what you were doing in World Market at noon on a Monday.

Why would they wonder about him doing the exact same thing they are doing?

PP. World Market is not a typical stomping ground for men.

That could change when they find out it's a great place to pick up cougars.

[Anonymous]

Everybody knows there’s a lotta hoes at World Market. Seductively walking around with those pull-behind roller baskets looking you up and down like you’re a well marbled brisket. I’ve caught more than one of them shamelessly staring at my oversized Toblerone. It’s like, “Hey! My eyes are up here.”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

But I bet everyone tells him he looks much younger and are shocked to find out his real age 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everybody knows there’s a lotta hoes at World Market. Seductively walking around with those pull-behind roller baskets looking you up and down like you’re a well marbled brisket. I’ve caught more than one of them shamelessly staring at my oversized Toblerone. It’s like, “Hey! My eyes are up here.”

Yep, its basically “Whoreld Market”. The same thing led to Pier 1’s demise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Your 50, married, and looking at other women at the grocery store and posting about it on DCUM.

Is that normal married men behavior??

Yes

Sad

As sad as being a fat 54 yo woman with no husband?

So husbands who are flirting ( in the heads. Lol) with several married women at a time at the grocery store are some kind of price that fat single women should be missing? Unfortunately for you and fortunately for them, most women have higher standards than you do, even the fat ones.

[Anonymous]

50% of all marriages end due to infidelity. You don't have to like being wrong, but you are.

50% of all marriages don't end at all. Maybe of the marriages that do end - 50% of those are due to infidelity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:50% of all marriages end due to infidelity. You don't have to like being wrong, but you are.

50% of all marriages don't end at all. Maybe of the marriages that do end - 50% of those are due to infidelity.

We’ve had people admit to affairs on here before. Please raise your hand if you found your AP based on a 5-minute meeting at the grocery store.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everybody knows there’s a lotta hoes at World Market. Seductively walking around with those pull-behind roller baskets looking you up and down like you’re a well marbled brisket. I’ve caught more than one of them shamelessly staring at my oversized Toblerone. It’s like, “Hey! My eyes are up here.”

Doesn't world market sell crappy Chinese furniture

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

🤣

[Anonymous]

I check out men all the time. I appreciate eye candy. I’m not checking them out though!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

What a bizarre comment. You never see attractive men out in the world? I see them all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married DW here. I check out men all the time. I find fewer than 1% actually attractive enough to think “ooh, who is THAT.” Perhaps it’s 1 in 1000 people I see. And of course I don’t act on it! What do you want me to do, stare at my shoes pretending no one else exists? My DH checks out women. Never obviously and never really in front of me (at least not on purpose), but he’s human. I’d hate it if he were some frigid dude only into his solitary hobby.

Looking at other human beings is not the same thing as "checking them out". That's what you do afer you glance and realize there is someone actually attractive in the store (very rare).

No one is "checking out" 50_ year old men at Michaels or World Market. Its unusual for men that age to be in those stores, so that might merit a surprised glance. But no one find 50+ year old men eye candy enough to be "checking out".

DP. To me the issue isn’t that an 8 exists at noon at World Market. I’ll just take OP at his word. The issue is that he thinks glances (even appreciative ones) means these women are willing to have affairs. Which is hilarious- are all middle age men so clueless and full of themselves?

NP. Not simply glances…according to OP, EVERY woman that he made eye contact with then proceeded to make eye contact with him at least SIX MORE TIMES during the duration of his shopping trip. That’s a definitely real thing that happened!

What a bizarre comment. You never see attractive men out in the world? I see them all the time.

Where in the comment does it say that attractive men don’t exist?

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of people out there who don't want to cheat but do enjoy a little electricity. For some people in the store, the eye contact might be a real sign of attraction, but so what? To me, that's nothing. Just human nature and a little fun.

Some people even flirt shamelessly but still wouldn't cheat, although they'd never act that way in front of their partners. Is that a big deal? Probably not, but maybe.