Married women - have you had a happy ending massage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

I mean you sound like a guy who thinks the strippers are really into him. It comes across as a bit delusional.

This. And also? Eww. I don't want there to be any ambiguity about the nature of the massage I'm paying for. No hints, no boundary testing. Please properly drape my body for privacy and do the job I paid you to do. The rest of this bullshit is c-grade porn cringe.

-a licensed massage therapist who takes the work seriously

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

Where?

Most of Northern Europe, for one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

Or rather, keep it to a fantasy. Once you make it real, you are hiring a sex worker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

It also seems to defeat the point. This isn't a relationship. This is a transaction where you're basically paying for the privilege of being selfish.

[Anonymous]

Bravo to the women who are self-assured enough to want the massage therapist to play Crazy Train on their hoohah.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like these are mostly done by licensed massage therapists. Can you describe the places in vague detail? How and where does this happen? Flirty professional at high end hotel or regular salon? Chinese massage shop?

[Anonymous]

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Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

I believe that in the case of women getting the happy ending, the two of them end up sending signals to each other that they want it to happen.
Yes, it crosses ethical and professional boundaries for the masseur to do it, so there is high risk there. Also, he needs to make darn well sure that he knows that she wants his hands to wander. But like I and someone else are suggesting, there are ways to make this clear.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

Or rather, keep it to a fantasy. Once you make it real, you are hiring a sex worker.

Or, you know, hire a sex worker to make your fantasy a reality, if that's what you're into. If it's consensual, it's no longer creepy. If you need it to be a "surprise", pay them for 5 massages with the variable being that one or more of them, unbeknownst to you beforehand, will include your fantasy fulfillment, in detail, just how you like it. If they consent to it, that's fine.

[Anonymous]

Does it count if it's a husband or boyfriend giving the massage?
I kick myself because when I was single, I had a friend... that should've been FWB... and ugh, she wanted to try out some massage oils, and we did. But I was too church-y to let myself cross boundaries

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, once. On vacation in Curaçao.

It was amazing!

How does this go down. Was it a male masseuse or female? Do you ask or they just start...?

[Anonymous]

No, but I would like one. 😁

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have had many massages over the years, all at reputable places and have never done this.

Same. I have no interest in seeing a sketchy sex worker masquerading as a massage therapist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

But you are hiring a sex worker to do it. This sounds like it was written by a porn addled man anyways.