Married women - have you had a happy ending massage?

[Anonymous]

I’m a trained massage therapist that has been asked countless times by men and women for a sensual massage combined with hot stone or a deep tissue massage.

I don’t solicit a sensual massage, IYKYK. My clients request it, and boundaries are discussed before the massage starts. I have my clients sign a consent document.

Clients who prefer to be naked but draped for their massage doesn’t mean anything other than they prefer to be naked.

Sensual massages have become the vast majority of the massages I perform since the pandemic. My clients are doctors, nurses, lawyers, executives, military officers, pilots and flight attendants. Many are outcalls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It happens. It spreads by word of mouth which people will offer such extra services.

There was a case of a masseur in Tenleytown worknig at Massage Envy who got arrested for this:
https://patch.com/district-columbia/washingtondc/d-c-massage-therapist-arrested-sexually-assaulting-customer

This article is a little light on details. My guess is he tried it because other women were open to it, and finally one said no and reported him.

Yuck he’s ugly. Don’t look him up if that was on your bucket list

Um, being sexually assaulted wasn’t on my bucket list so…thanks?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There seem to be a whole lot of judgy replies here, telling women they should be allowed to enjoy what they might want to enjoy, calling them disgusting, etc.

Why is that?

Because being an active participant in the cycle of sex trafficking is, indeed, disgusting. That’s why. Creating more demand for sex trafficking is disgusting. And you should, indeed, feel judged and guilty about it. Pervert.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There seem to be a whole lot of judgy replies here, telling women they should be allowed to enjoy what they might want to enjoy, calling them disgusting, etc.

Why is that?

Because being an active participant in the cycle of sex trafficking is, indeed, disgusting. That’s why. Creating more demand for sex trafficking is disgusting. And you should, indeed, feel judged and guilty about it. Pervert.

Are you really that oblivious to who is providing these services?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a trained massage therapist that has been asked countless times by men and women for a sensual massage combined with hot stone or a deep tissue massage.

I don’t solicit a sensual massage, IYKYK. My clients request it, and boundaries are discussed before the massage starts. I have my clients sign a consent document.

Clients who prefer to be naked but draped for their massage doesn’t mean anything other than they prefer to be naked.

Sensual massages have become the vast majority of the massages I perform since the pandemic. My clients are doctors, nurses, lawyers, executives, military officers, pilots and flight attendants. Many are outcalls.

It’s unethical to have client fully undraped. you already know that if you’re actually trained. What you’re doing now is reportable to your licensing bureau. “Sensual” massage is not a part of your licensure.

Also, this is a very mixed up bullshit character study.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There seem to be a whole lot of judgy replies here, telling women they should be allowed to enjoy what they might want to enjoy, calling them disgusting, etc.

Why is that?

Because being an active participant in the cycle of sex trafficking is, indeed, disgusting. That’s why. Creating more demand for sex trafficking is disgusting. And you should, indeed, feel judged and guilty about it. Pervert.

Are you really that oblivious to who is providing these services?

Clearly, you are.

A massage therapist is not going to touch you in your pubic area ever. If they are, they have crossed the line into sex work and are violating both laws and their licensing.

It’s trash that people are asking for this. Just hire a prostitute already.

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with these absolutely vulgar posts lately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a trained massage therapist that has been asked countless times by men and women for a sensual massage combined with hot stone or a deep tissue massage.

I don’t solicit a sensual massage, IYKYK. My clients request it, and boundaries are discussed before the massage starts. I have my clients sign a consent document.

Clients who prefer to be naked but draped for their massage doesn’t mean anything other than they prefer to be naked.

Sensual massages have become the vast majority of the massages I perform since the pandemic. My clients are doctors, nurses, lawyers, executives, military officers, pilots and flight attendants. Many are outcalls.

Find a new website loser. Vast majority of Americans and even those getting massages are not asking for this.
But way to taint your unethical industry and yourself the way you did.
Oh, let us gue$$, you’re just $erving a “need”.

[Anonymous]

Gross. No wonder they have to cover up all that biohazard stench with other smells.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's wrong with these absolutely vulgar posts lately.

What’s wrong is some sex worker is pretending this is all the rave. Getting penetrated at massages.

Last time I give any spa gift certificates to others.

Boycott!

[Anonymous]

I think it’s some pervert that created this to see if anyone would play along.

Sadly, we have. Mostly I’m just pissed. This is not how the massage industry should be perceived.

We’ve had to fight for decades to get away from this. We pay really high licensing fees and have to do continuing education like any other professional licensing. We have to be fingerprinted and register registered with the board of health and local police department.

It’s super disrespectful and I’m really tired of it

[Anonymous]

How is this a relationship question anyway?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a trained massage therapist that has been asked countless times by men and women for a sensual massage combined with hot stone or a deep tissue massage.

I don’t solicit a sensual massage, IYKYK. My clients request it, and boundaries are discussed before the massage starts. I have my clients sign a consent document.

Clients who prefer to be naked but draped for their massage doesn’t mean anything other than they prefer to be naked.

Sensual massages have become the vast majority of the massages I perform since the pandemic. My clients are doctors, nurses, lawyers, executives, military officers, pilots and flight attendants. Many are outcalls.

It’s unethical to have client fully undraped. you already know that if you’re actually trained. What you’re doing now is reportable to your licensing bureau. “Sensual” massage is not a part of your licensure.

Also, this is a very mixed up bullshit character study.

Trained but not licensed. What started as a hobby to learn sports massage for my spouse and a few friends who were runners and tri-athletes after their events.

After losing my spouse during the pandemic, a close friend who was a RN asked me if I’d consider giving her a sensual massage. That’s where it began. My friend enjoyed herself, and before long a new side gig morphed into a part time job by word of mouth from friends to their friends.

All sensual massages are manipulations by hand, body contact and sexual aids, no penetration of mouth, vagina or anus is permitted.

Call me a sex worker if you feel the need to degrade me. I’m doing what I enjoy, helping others with aches, pains and offering relief.

Don’t yuck my yum!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's wrong with these absolutely vulgar posts lately.

There are no vulgar posts…. Lighten up Frances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a trained massage therapist that has been asked countless times by men and women for a sensual massage combined with hot stone or a deep tissue massage.

I don’t solicit a sensual massage, IYKYK. My clients request it, and boundaries are discussed before the massage starts. I have my clients sign a consent document.

Clients who prefer to be naked but draped for their massage doesn’t mean anything other than they prefer to be naked.

Sensual massages have become the vast majority of the massages I perform since the pandemic. My clients are doctors, nurses, lawyers, executives, military officers, pilots and flight attendants. Many are outcalls.

It’s unethical to have client fully undraped. you already know that if you’re actually trained. What you’re doing now is reportable to your licensing bureau. “Sensual” massage is not a part of your licensure.

Also, this is a very mixed up bullshit character study.

Trained but not licensed. What started as a hobby to learn sports massage for my spouse and a few friends who were runners and tri-athletes after their events.

After losing my spouse during the pandemic, a close friend who was a RN asked me if I’d consider giving her a sensual massage. That’s where it began. My friend enjoyed herself, and before long a new side gig morphed into a part time job by word of mouth from friends to their friends.

All sensual massages are manipulations by hand, body contact and sexual aids, no penetration of mouth, vagina or anus is permitted.

Call me a sex worker if you feel the need to degrade me. I’m doing what I enjoy, helping others with aches, pains and offering relief.

Don’t yuck my yum!

You ARE a sex worker trying to claim legitimacy as a “massage therapist”. It’s fine to provide a kink service. But don’t claim yourself to be something you are not. It is harmful to a legal profession.

You are literally making it unsafe for licensed massage therapists to do out calls without being asked to provide sex acts. It doesn’t matter what part of your body or mechanical device you use.

It doesn’t matter if you give have a good back rub too.