I’m guessing most of the bridal party has plus ones, then? Agree with others it’s tacky of you. Also tacky of her to yell at you, though 🤔 |
| Not tacky of you to say no plus one, tacky for her to yell at you like that. |
+20000 |
Are you not aware that most of the time being in the wedding party is a pretty big financial and time commitment? This is why you buy a gift for the people you asked to do this. I can't imagine being this rude. |
This. ugh. So what if she breaks up with him. She doesn't want to go to the wedding solo. |
| Usually if they’re true friends they’ll do it because they love you. But I guess some people need incentives to show up to their close ones big day. Wild. |
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Some facts:
1) Guest refused to RSVP until weeks after the deadline because she did not know if she was going to break up with guy first/before wedding. 2) Everyone else is married. This "date" is someone no one has met, lives long distance from ex-friend and has no relationship with anyone. 3) Wedding party is mostly family, everyone is married. 4) You don't call us yelling at us because we wouldn't let you bring a Tinderella. Our day, our rules. 5) Not a troll, real life. 6) If you Urban Moms want to chip in for her plate of food, its about $300 per head. Why would we pay for that? |
*but I didn't say that in my Original Post because I'm making this up as I go along. |
| ^^^^^^ THIS THEY GOT A POINT |
What a goon. Wrong. |
*and not as much fun as I hoped |
| Why is a male date being called a tinderella? Is this a lesbian bridesmaid? I can't figure out what op keeps using that word. |
| Definitely agree - cut her from the wedding. Uninvited. |
| Agree with above poster. Dump her. Not a real friend, you don't want her. |
Tinderella LOL Let me Google that one.. |