Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
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Anonymous
| Long story short, a wedding party guest has essentially gone silent and then called last night throwing a tantrum yelling at us that we are not allowing her to bring a plus one. It's our day, not hers, especially with someone she says she is thinking of breaking up with. We are un-inviting this person. Wrong thing to do? Wedding is 3 weeks out, this is also a bridesmaid. |
Anonymous
| Is she being treated differently than others in the wedding party? |
Anonymous
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It’s beyond tacky for you not to give a bridesmaid a +1, whether he’s a boyfriend, a husband, or even just a friend. You are tacky, tacky, tacky for not immediately and graciously giving a member of your wedding party a +1.
That’s all. |
Anonymous
| Yeah…are the others in the bridal party allowed a plus-one? |
Anonymous
This times 1000!!! OP sounds like a bridezilla. |
Anonymous
| doesn't sound silent |
Anonymous
| She's in your wedding party? The right thing to do would be to let her bring a +1. |
Anonymous
| I do not understand not inviting +1s, especially for those supposedly closest to you who are in your bridal party. But maybe she just wants out of the drama that I'm sure surrounds "your day, not hers." |
Anonymous
| I agree that if she's in the wedding party, you offer a +1. It might be different if she was just a regular wedding guest. |
Anonymous
| Agree with everyone else. It's a commitment to be in the bridal party, the least you could do is offer a plus one. |
Anonymous
| It was wrong of you from the get go if the others get +1s. Cheaping out of a plate cost you a relationship. Deal with one fewer bridesmaid. |
Anonymous
Right? As if the bridesmaid bringing a +1 in any way takes away from it being the bride’s day. It’s ridiculous not to give +1’s, to your closest friends and family. If she’s a bridesmaid she’s clearly in your close circle. |
Anonymous
| It's insane you're not giving a bridesmaid a +1. Unless it's an extremely small 10 person wedding, all bridal party should have a +1. You really do sound like a bridezilla. |
Anonymous
| Yall are wild for thinking she’s a brideszilla, or being tacky. If a bridesmaid isn’t allowed a plus one then she’s not allowed a plus one. That simple. Karens of the world think the bridesmaid is “entitled” to a plus one on someone else’s day. |
Anonymous
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Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.
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