ISO cocktail attire suggestions for a gala

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is there a theme?

"Crystal Party" - what does that even mean?

For Mount Sinai? Wear what you like - doesn't look like a lot of people stress out about it.

Previous gala - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LL0QsYAKUY

I posted all the frillier dresses. If this is the event don't wear any of my suggestions.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts?

https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/amsale-asymmetric-draped-sheath-dress?ID=5331650&tdp=cm_app~zBCOM-NAVAPP~xcm_zone~zRVI_browse~xcm_choiceId~z~xcm_pos~zPos4~xcm_srcCatID~z2910

https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/amsale-asymmetric-draped-sheath-dress?ID=5331650&tdp=cm_app~zBCOM-NAVAPP~xcm_zone~zRVI_browse~xcm_choiceId~z~xcm_pos~zPos4~xcm_srcCatID~z2910

It's the same dress in each link.

It feels a little boring for a crystal themed gala, especially as a co-host of your table.

What would you do - if a petite size 10?

I'm the PP who liked the (probably what another PP is calling "princessy" dresses) from NM. But I go to a lot of these as someone who is (working on the wording here) prominent and generally need to be ready for photos. Plus, I enjoy clothes.

I've loved some of your suggestions - TY. For me, I have small facial/neck features, so I tend to go with a less "princessy" look, then supplement the simple with a statement bracelet or clutch, etc. And I'm now more of a 10, so another reason to keep it simple. Always need a defined waist.

Navy is a great color for me as are some more jewel greens.

[Anonymous]

If it’s DC people don’t dress up as much as you’d think. Often it’s elevated work wear.

[Anonymous]

If the video is representative of the event, then what about this:

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/kay-unger-lottie-floral-cocktail-dress-0400021663291.html?dwvar_0400021663291_size=8&dwvar_0400021663291_color=DARK+MIDNIGHT&site_refer=CSE_GGLPLA%3AWomens_Dresses%3AKay+Unger&country=US¤cy=USD&CSE_CID=G_Saks_PLA_US_Women%27s+Apparel_Dresses_Must+Win%3AKay+Unger&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADO6JtRq3Lm8aU_SUXjzvWr9BUGKi&gclid=Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xvJpaaSfEUPQb6C2kajfyRG-_rjjFKIgAG5xPlmU8f53l6Q2d7BwAaAsm1EALw_wcB

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thoughts?

https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/amsale-asymmetric-draped-sheath-dress?ID=5331650&tdp=cm_app~zBCOM-NAVAPP~xcm_zone~zRVI_browse~xcm_choiceId~z~xcm_pos~zPos4~xcm_srcCatID~z2910

https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/amsale-asymmetric-draped-sheath-dress?ID=5331650&tdp=cm_app~zBCOM-NAVAPP~xcm_zone~zRVI_browse~xcm_choiceId~z~xcm_pos~zPos4~xcm_srcCatID~z2910

NP and I like this because it seems dressy but not princessy - seems like something that a confident person would wear

I don't think confidence is the right word. I think it reads this isn't a special night. Which is fine. Just don't mix up the two.

That's not how it reads to me. To me it reads like someone who feels like they belong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is there a theme?

"Crystal Party" - what does that even mean?

For Mount Sinai? Wear what you like - doesn't look like a lot of people stress out about it.

Previous gala - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LL0QsYAKUY

Yes. And you're the best - TY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also went to the one you posted and found this. (I think what throws me about the dress you posted is the top looks like a baggy t-shirt in satin, which gives a more laid back vibe. Even the shoes the model is wearing could be worn with a dressy suit.

This one has a little more oomph.

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/zhivago-bond-satin-pleated-asymmetric-midi-dress-0400018110863.html?dwvar_0400018110863_size=2&dwvar_0400018110863_color=INK

Fab - TY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also went to the one you posted and found this. (I think what throws me about the dress you posted is the top looks like a baggy t-shirt in satin, which gives a more laid back vibe. Even the shoes the model is wearing could be worn with a dressy suit.

This one has a little more oomph.

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/zhivago-bond-satin-pleated-asymmetric-midi-dress-0400018110863.html?dwvar_0400018110863_size=2&dwvar_0400018110863_color=INK

I'm the one who liked that more t-shirty dress (yes, that's a good way to describe it) and I love this, too.

But I am 1000% not trying to get OP to dress to my taste! If you like blingier dresses, please get a blingy dress. I'm probably much too boring!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so what about something like this:

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/rickie-freeman-for-teri-jon-puff-sleeve-metallic-jacquard-dress-prod277640154?childItemId=NMT6AEK_&msid=4944831&navpath=cat000000_cat84680805_cat59980732_cat85900764_cat61740786&page=0&position=38

I don't have the coloring for it, but sending it to a friend who would crush it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also went to the one you posted and found this. (I think what throws me about the dress you posted is the top looks like a baggy t-shirt in satin, which gives a more laid back vibe. Even the shoes the model is wearing could be worn with a dressy suit.

This one has a little more oomph.

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/zhivago-bond-satin-pleated-asymmetric-midi-dress-0400018110863.html?dwvar_0400018110863_size=2&dwvar_0400018110863_color=INK

I'm the one who liked that more t-shirty dress (yes, that's a good way to describe it) and I love this, too.

But I am 1000% not trying to get OP to dress to my taste! If you like blingier dresses, please get a blingy dress. I'm probably much too boring!

OP here and this has been a great thread. Love seeing folks suggestions. I realize I should have provided a bit more background in the beginning. Also, special thanks to the YT link to the most recent gala - aligns with my sense that it is mostly cocktail attire but largely muted.

[Anonymous]

Given the video what about something like this (easily worn again):

Top:
https://www.dillards.com/p/ic-collection-knit-boat-neck-34-mesh-inset-bell-sleeve-top/515169257?sku=6278246&googleShop=Y&cm_mmc=GooglePLAs-_-Category+-+Womens+-+Performance+Max-_-null-_-Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xfBVow4ONjIQOX0Mww-t9FbFiy_b9a2-KulSUQgub1RyMlLdj2JUUaAiTxEALw_wcB&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADuonHWCX301m8BUO56duRgNC1WjX&gclid=Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xfBVow4ONjIQOX0Mww-t9FbFiy_b9a2-KulSUQgub1RyMlLdj2JUUaAiTxEALw_wcB

Pants:
https://www.dillards.com/p/ic-collection-knit-stripe-mesh-cut-out-elastic-waist-wide-leg-pants/518327808

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Given the video what about something like this (easily worn again):

Top:
https://www.dillards.com/p/ic-collection-knit-boat-neck-34-mesh-inset-bell-sleeve-top/515169257?sku=6278246&googleShop=Y&cm_mmc=GooglePLAs-_-Category+-+Womens+-+Performance+Max-_-null-_-Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xfBVow4ONjIQOX0Mww-t9FbFiy_b9a2-KulSUQgub1RyMlLdj2JUUaAiTxEALw_wcB&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADuonHWCX301m8BUO56duRgNC1WjX&gclid=Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xfBVow4ONjIQOX0Mww-t9FbFiy_b9a2-KulSUQgub1RyMlLdj2JUUaAiTxEALw_wcB

Pants:
https://www.dillards.com/p/ic-collection-knit-stripe-mesh-cut-out-elastic-waist-wide-leg-pants/518327808

This has been such a positive thread that I hesitate to say this - but no, no!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is there a theme?

"Crystal Party" - what does that even mean?

For Mount Sinai? Wear what you like - doesn't look like a lot of people stress out about it.

Previous gala - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LL0QsYAKUY

Yes. And you're the best - TY.

YW! Great cause - hope they make a lot of money (Mount Sinai cancer doctors saved the life of a dear friend)

[Anonymous]

Any other suggestions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the video is representative of the event, then what about this:

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/kay-unger-lottie-floral-cocktail-dress-0400021663291.html?dwvar_0400021663291_size=8&dwvar_0400021663291_color=DARK+MIDNIGHT&site_refer=CSE_GGLPLA%3AWomens_Dresses%3AKay+Unger&country=US¤cy=USD&CSE_CID=G_Saks_PLA_US_Women%27s+Apparel_Dresses_Must+Win%3AKay+Unger&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADO6JtRq3Lm8aU_SUXjzvWr9BUGKi&gclid=Cj0KCQjw8cHABhC-ARIsAJnY12xvJpaaSfEUPQb6C2kajfyRG-_rjjFKIgAG5xPlmU8f53l6Q2d7BwAaAsm1EALw_wcB

Not OP, but I love this one. Seems perfect for what OP described.