Wife takes care of the 'other woman', ends her DH's affair and his marriage in one evening

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fu(king nuts... no wonder the husband was having an affair!!

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She would have been a hero in prison.

No, she would not be a hero. Her prison cellmates would wonder why she gave up a life of privilege to spend the rest of it in jail. They would wonder why she surrendered her assets to her husband who can now spend them on a new wife. They would wonder why she thought this was a smart idea anyone since her husband would be granted an automatic divorce since she is sitting behind bars.

They would let her sit there and think that she was smart and send their young nieces after a new available catch. Why do you think people in jail are not street smart?

Pay attention here men. To women, marriage is really just about assets. YOUR assets.

Those are HER assets, moron. She had a big time job.

More proof the women here are misanthropes. Reverse the assets, and put them in a divorce, and you'd be screeching about it all being HER assets (even though he earned them).

In this case, the money is legally all his. If she set up a will the right way, he still gets half of all of her assets, plus the house, plus all of his own assets.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny how to women here the murderer isn't the bad guy, the husband is. It's always a man's fault.

They’re all bad guys.

The wife is a psycho murderer. The other woman is also a cheater and started an affair with her subordinate. And the husband did not bother to notify authorities when he received direct information that someone he was sleeping with’s life was in danger.

My ex-wife used to threaten suicide all the time. Sadly, she never even tried. If I called the cops every time she made a threat they would have had to park a cop car outside the house full-time. Women make threats all the time, they are rarely credible.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fu(king nuts... no wonder the husband was having an affair!!

You know that he was married to her for 25 years, right?
And if it was so obvious that she was "fu(king nuts", why he didn't call 911 to protect the OW?

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Probably because not every thing is black or white. In relationships most sh!t is grey..... well until someone decides to bring a 40 caliber in the mix. Then it’s all red.

You said that the reason the man had an affair was because the wife was crazy and that's very black and white.
Men don't have affairs because their wives are crazy, but because they get bored and if there is a prospective of a younger and thus hotter woman, many will go for it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fu(king nuts... no wonder the husband was having an affair!!

-1

She would have been a hero in prison.

No, she would not be a hero. Her prison cellmates would wonder why she gave up a life of privilege to spend the rest of it in jail. They would wonder why she surrendered her assets to her husband who can now spend them on a new wife. They would wonder why she thought this was a smart idea anyone since her husband would be granted an automatic divorce since she is sitting behind bars.

They would let her sit there and think that she was smart and send their young nieces after a new available catch. Why do you think people in jail are not street smart?

Pay attention here men. To women, marriage is really just about assets. YOUR assets.

Those are HER assets, moron. She had a big time job.

More proof the women here are misanthropes. Reverse the assets, and put them in a divorce, and you'd be screeching about it all being HER assets (even though he earned them).

In this case, the money is legally all his. If she set up a will the right way, he still gets half of all of her assets, plus the house, plus all of his own assets.

Yes everything is his including the blame for ruining two women's lives because he thinks with his dick. He is totally undateable, cursed forever by the bad karma.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny how to women here the murderer isn't the bad guy, the husband is. It's always a man's fault.

They’re all bad guys.

The wife is a psycho murderer. The other woman is also a cheater and started an affair with her subordinate. And the husband did not bother to notify authorities when he received direct information that someone he was sleeping with’s life was in danger.

My ex-wife used to threaten suicide all the time. Sadly, she never even tried. If I called the cops every time she made a threat they would have had to park a cop car outside the house full-time. Women make threats all the time, they are rarely credible.

Except if you did call the cops and got her placed on a temporary involuntary psych hold she might have stopped because you called her bluff.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny how to women here the murderer isn't the bad guy, the husband is. It's always a man's fault.

They’re all bad guys.

The wife is a psycho murderer. The other woman is also a cheater and started an affair with her subordinate. And the husband did not bother to notify authorities when he received direct information that someone he was sleeping with’s life was in danger.

Eh - water under the bridge. He sounds like a catch!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes everything is his including the blame for ruining two women's lives because he thinks with his dick. He is totally undateable, cursed forever by the bad karma.

It would be nice to think so, but I guarantee you there are women out there who will be aroused by the fact that he had two women at the same time, and one of them wanted him badly enough to kill for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You said that the reason the man had an affair was because the wife was crazy and that's very black and white.
Men don't have affairs because their wives are crazy, but because they get bored and if there is a prospective of a younger and thus hotter woman, many will go for it.

Yes they do. If she was denying him sex and affection, and making his life a living hell because she was crazy, then he would naturally seek sex, affection, and non-crazy companionship elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fu(king nuts... no wonder the husband was having an affair!!

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She would have been a hero in prison.

No, she would not be a hero. Her prison cellmates would wonder why she gave up a life of privilege to spend the rest of it in jail. They would wonder why she surrendered her assets to her husband who can now spend them on a new wife. They would wonder why she thought this was a smart idea anyone since her husband would be granted an automatic divorce since she is sitting behind bars.

They would let her sit there and think that she was smart and send their young nieces after a new available catch. Why do you think people in jail are not street smart?

Pay attention here men. To women, marriage is really just about assets. YOUR assets.

This is just such an odd comment considering everything about this situation suggests he’s kind of a gold digger. He moved his wife to a state that would be more advantageous for him to try and divorce her and get a slice of her significant earnings. And he was leaving for his boss who presumably makes more money than him and could advance his career. Yet the whole thing is a parable about how all women care about is taking their husband’s assets?

[Anonymous]

We really don't know what time she sent the texts. It might have given him enough time to get to the house. Maybe he didn't look at his phone at work? Maybe this was a common occurrence for the wife, and drama was a normal part of their marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Police say that the jilted wife, Jennair Gerardot, sent her husband a series of texts telegraphing her intentions. But by the time he arrived at Meredith Chapman’s home, it was too late."

Why didn't he call 911??

When Meredith didn't show up at dinner, he went to her home. Police had already arrived and he said "I think my wife is in there"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fu(king nuts... no wonder the husband was having an affair!!

-1

She would have been a hero in prison.

No, she would not be a hero. Her prison cellmates would wonder why she gave up a life of privilege to spend the rest of it in jail. They would wonder why she surrendered her assets to her husband who can now spend them on a new wife. They would wonder why she thought this was a smart idea anyone since her husband would be granted an automatic divorce since she is sitting behind bars.

They would let her sit there and think that she was smart and send their young nieces after a new available catch. Why do you think people in jail are not street smart?

Pay attention here men. To women, marriage is really just about assets. YOUR assets.

This is just such an odd comment considering everything about this situation suggests he’s kind of a gold digger. He moved his wife to a state that would be more advantageous for him to try and divorce her and get a slice of her significant earnings. And he was leaving for his boss who presumably makes more money than him and could advance his career. Yet the whole thing is a parable about how all women care about is taking their husband’s assets?

Dude was drunk on a Sunday.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, but it is all the fault of the murderous wife. She committed pre-mediated, cold blooded murder and then killed herself. How is this in any way shape or form on the man? There’s lots of lawyers on this board. Would love to see them make an argument that would fly with the jury how she’s not responsible for her own actions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but it is all the fault of the murderous wife. She committed pre-mediated, cold blooded murder and then killed herself. How is this in any way shape or form on the man? There’s lots of lawyers on this board. Would love to see them make an argument that would fly with the jury how she’s not responsible for her own actions.

I don’t think that anyone is saying it is legally his fault. But it is mind blowing that he wouldn’t have attempted to warn the OW when his wife texted him what she was going to do.

[Anonymous]

Update to this story - the husband is interviewed by ABC News

https://abcnews.go.com/US/man-involved-2018-love-triangle-murder-suicide-case/story?id=65366893

Lots of details revealed:

When she moved to be with her husband in December 2017, she could immediately sense that Mark Gerardot was distant, he said, and she suspected there might be another woman.

“She finally asked me, ‘What's up with you? You’re acting different,’” Mark Gerardot said. “She said specifically, ‘It’s Meredith, isn’t it?’”

Although Mark Gerardot would deny the affair at first, his wife continued questioning his relationship with Chapman. Jennair Gerardot would also keep tabs on him and Chapman, he said, and she would know things about them for which he couldn’t understand how.

She revealed she had hired a company to gain access to his phone and that it allowed her to read his texts and see his photos and records of all calls he had with Chapman...

...the two agreed to go to marriage counseling. However, on the day of their second session, Mark Gerardot was putting his jacket on when he felt something in the lining of his pocket.
He cut it open and found a recording device had been planted inside by being sewn in. Its flashing light indicated that it was recording him at that very moment.

...After his wife’s death, Mark Gerardot started poring through her bank statements, phone records and a computer backup in search of answers. The recording device that he discovered in his jacket, he found out, was just the tip of the iceberg.

The wife goes full-on Jason Bourne and planned her revenge for weeks: planting GPS trackers, hacking into her husbands phone, buying a gun and practicing at the gun range, wearing a wig/trench-coat/binoculars and staking out the mistress's house for hours at a time, etc.