What snobberies do you have that you cant vanquish even if you try?

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Huge cars and huge houses.
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Poor grammar
MAGA
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Anonymous wrote:Pitbull and pitbull “mixes” and their owners

Anyone who gives their kids and/or other people’s kids if carpooling fast food, including Starbucks

Childless people older than age 35; especially childless politicians and bureaucrats


I'm very thankful that people who do not wish to have children do not have them. I'd much rather not see children mistreated because they were not wanted. You're a horrible person for thinking that everyone should have children to meet some kind of societal norm.


Societies for thousands of years have been skeptical and wary of childless people. For very valid reasons.


Nope, only psychos like you. People do not have children for a million different reasons. You should learn how to mind your own business. I'm extremely weary of stupid people like you.


There are no million different reasons, there is always one reason: God/nature/higher power decided that these people do not need procreate their own type. The cycle will end with them. But poor idiots think it is their decision.


Hmmm this is an interesting one. As a younger woman (20s/early 30s) I always thought there was something a bit off about people who remained childless past the age of 40. going through my 30s and having my own children I have tried to reserve judgement and quash these feelings. But observing my own circle it seems the functional, successful ones all have kids and the ones with severe mental health issues or other life impediments have ended up childless.
I also wonder if it is a chicken and the egg thing- are the childless mentally unbalanced older women I know that ways because they never had kids? Or did they not have kids because of their own limitations?
Anyway something to ponder. I would never admit this in real life because it is very in PC. We're supposed to be in admiration of women who are childless and "free".


I tend to agree for the most part. I know there are people where life circumstances get in the way. I have an older, childless aunt but she was in a dangerously abusive marriage as a young woman, got divorced, didn’t date at all for around 10 years as a result, but did end up re-marrying in her mid 40s to a man who already had kids (albeit older), she is now in her mid 70s, still married, and loves being a step-grandma. There’s definitely some of that out there with the older generations. Also a lot of people who are middle class and couldn’t afford to treat their infertility issues.

But I do think with most people, it’s their own mental limitations that lead them to not have kids and most of them never seriously date or try to get married either. I wouldn’t say I judge it, but I’m also not going to take life advice from them. To me, they’re living in a state of perpetual adolescence with the same naive arrogance of your average 18-25 year old.
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Anonymous wrote:Pitbull and pitbull “mixes” and their owners

Anyone who gives their kids and/or other people’s kids if carpooling fast food, including Starbucks

Childless people older than age 35; especially childless politicians and bureaucrats


I'm very thankful that people who do not wish to have children do not have them. I'd much rather not see children mistreated because they were not wanted. You're a horrible person for thinking that everyone should have children to meet some kind of societal norm.


Societies for thousands of years have been skeptical and wary of childless people. For very valid reasons.


Nope, only psychos like you. People do not have children for a million different reasons. You should learn how to mind your own business. I'm extremely weary of stupid people like you.


There are no million different reasons, there is always one reason: God/nature/higher power decided that these people do not need procreate their own type. The cycle will end with them. But poor idiots think it is their decision.


Hmmm this is an interesting one. As a younger woman (20s/early 30s) I always thought there was something a bit off about people who remained childless past the age of 40. going through my 30s and having my own children I have tried to reserve judgement and quash these feelings. But observing my own circle it seems the functional, successful ones all have kids and the ones with severe mental health issues or other life impediments have ended up childless.
I also wonder if it is a chicken and the egg thing- are the childless mentally unbalanced older women I know that ways because they never had kids? Or did they not have kids because of their own limitations?
Anyway something to ponder. I would never admit this in real life because it is very in PC. We're supposed to be in admiration of women who are childless and "free".


I tend to agree for the most part. I know there are people where life circumstances get in the way. I have an older, childless aunt but she was in a dangerously abusive marriage as a young woman, got divorced, didn’t date at all for around 10 years as a result, but did end up re-marrying in her mid 40s to a man who already had kids (albeit older), she is now in her mid 70s, still married, and loves being a step-grandma. There’s definitely some of that out there with the older generations. Also a lot of people who are middle class and couldn’t afford to treat their infertility issues.

But I do think with most people, it’s their own mental limitations that lead them to not have kids and most of them never seriously date or try to get married either. I wouldn’t say I judge it, but I’m also not going to take life advice from them. To me, they’re living in a state of perpetual adolescence with the same naive arrogance of your average 18-25 year old.


You are absolutely judging them. You are judging them because of your own intellectual and emotional limitations that prevent you from realizing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with not having children, whether by choice or because you are unable to biologically. I do judge and feel pity for people like you who simply can't imagine living a life that is at all different from your own.
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Grown adult men and women who walk around in public like slobs who just rolled out of bed. I don't care if you have some great WFH job or if you're some unemployed prole or if it's your day off from an office gig - - put some damn effort into your appearance when in public. Style and comb your hair, men should shave, clean tidy clothes not sweats or pajama pants, and shoes not flip flops.
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Anonymous wrote:Pitbull and pitbull “mixes” and their owners

Anyone who gives their kids and/or other people’s kids if carpooling fast food, including Starbucks

Childless people older than age 35; especially childless politicians and bureaucrats


I'm very thankful that people who do not wish to have children do not have them. I'd much rather not see children mistreated because they were not wanted. You're a horrible person for thinking that everyone should have children to meet some kind of societal norm.


Societies for thousands of years have been skeptical and wary of childless people. For very valid reasons.


Nope, only psychos like you. People do not have children for a million different reasons. You should learn how to mind your own business. I'm extremely weary of stupid people like you.


There are no million different reasons, there is always one reason: God/nature/higher power decided that these people do not need procreate their own type. The cycle will end with them. But poor idiots think it is their decision.


Hmmm this is an interesting one. As a younger woman (20s/early 30s) I always thought there was something a bit off about people who remained childless past the age of 40. going through my 30s and having my own children I have tried to reserve judgement and quash these feelings. But observing my own circle it seems the functional, successful ones all have kids and the ones with severe mental health issues or other life impediments have ended up childless.
I also wonder if it is a chicken and the egg thing- are the childless mentally unbalanced older women I know that ways because they never had kids? Or did they not have kids because of their own limitations?
Anyway something to ponder. I would never admit this in real life because it is very in PC. We're supposed to be in admiration of women who are childless and "free".


I tend to agree for the most part. I know there are people where life circumstances get in the way. I have an older, childless aunt but she was in a dangerously abusive marriage as a young woman, got divorced, didn’t date at all for around 10 years as a result, but did end up re-marrying in her mid 40s to a man who already had kids (albeit older), she is now in her mid 70s, still married, and loves being a step-grandma. There’s definitely some of that out there with the older generations. Also a lot of people who are middle class and couldn’t afford to treat their infertility issues.

But I do think with most people, it’s their own mental limitations that lead them to not have kids and most of them never seriously date or try to get married either. I wouldn’t say I judge it, but I’m also not going to take life advice from them. To me, they’re living in a state of perpetual adolescence with the same naive arrogance of your average 18-25 year old.


You are absolutely judging them. You are judging them because of your own intellectual and emotional limitations that prevent you from realizing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with not having children, whether by choice or because you are unable to biologically. I do judge and feel pity for people like you who simply can't imagine living a life that is at all different from your own.


Quit trying to hijack the thread with your meltdown. I frankly don't care if someone is childless, I don't treat them harshly, I just don't want them in a position of authority over me and my family and I'm not going to take what you say seriously. Having children changes you in ways childless people can't imagine. I don't need to explain myself, it's pointless to try.
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Anonymous wrote:Pitbull and pitbull “mixes” and their owners

Anyone who gives their kids and/or other people’s kids if carpooling fast food, including Starbucks

Childless people older than age 35; especially childless politicians and bureaucrats


I'm very thankful that people who do not wish to have children do not have them. I'd much rather not see children mistreated because they were not wanted. You're a horrible person for thinking that everyone should have children to meet some kind of societal norm.


Societies for thousands of years have been skeptical and wary of childless people. For very valid reasons.


Nope, only psychos like you. People do not have children for a million different reasons. You should learn how to mind your own business. I'm extremely weary of stupid people like you.


There are no million different reasons, there is always one reason: God/nature/higher power decided that these people do not need procreate their own type. The cycle will end with them. But poor idiots think it is their decision.


Hmmm this is an interesting one. As a younger woman (20s/early 30s) I always thought there was something a bit off about people who remained childless past the age of 40. going through my 30s and having my own children I have tried to reserve judgement and quash these feelings. But observing my own circle it seems the functional, successful ones all have kids and the ones with severe mental health issues or other life impediments have ended up childless.
I also wonder if it is a chicken and the egg thing- are the childless mentally unbalanced older women I know that ways because they never had kids? Or did they not have kids because of their own limitations?
Anyway something to ponder. I would never admit this in real life because it is very in PC. We're supposed to be in admiration of women who are childless and "free".


I tend to agree for the most part. I know there are people where life circumstances get in the way. I have an older, childless aunt but she was in a dangerously abusive marriage as a young woman, got divorced, didn’t date at all for around 10 years as a result, but did end up re-marrying in her mid 40s to a man who already had kids (albeit older), she is now in her mid 70s, still married, and loves being a step-grandma. There’s definitely some of that out there with the older generations. Also a lot of people who are middle class and couldn’t afford to treat their infertility issues.

But I do think with most people, it’s their own mental limitations that lead them to not have kids and most of them never seriously date or try to get married either. I wouldn’t say I judge it, but I’m also not going to take life advice from them. To me, they’re living in a state of perpetual adolescence with the same naive arrogance of your average 18-25 year old.


You are absolutely judging them. You are judging them because of your own intellectual and emotional limitations that prevent you from realizing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with not having children, whether by choice or because you are unable to biologically. I do judge and feel pity for people like you who simply can't imagine living a life that is at all different from your own.


Quit trying to hijack the thread with your meltdown. I frankly don't care if someone is childless, I don't treat them harshly, I just don't want them in a position of authority over me and my family and I'm not going to take what you say seriously. Having children changes you in ways childless people can't imagine. I don't need to explain myself, it's pointless to try.


hahahahha my meltdown? Have you looked in the mirror? YOU are the one who baselessly discriminates against childless people because of your stupidity and not anything based in facts. No one is taking YOU seriously.

Also, I will comment on your stupidity any time I feel like it. You are not smart or intimidating in any way.
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Anonymous wrote:People who spend inordinate amounts of time and energy worrying about how others look, dress, smell when in reality it has ZERO bearing on their life.


smell does.
-- sincerely, your airport seat neighbor.

(that includes breath)

+1k I'd tack on perfume on an airplane


Hope I sit next to you next time I fly


Why would you hope to irritate someone on purpose? I'm incredibly sensitive to smells so if you had on a very strong perfume and I had to sit next to you on a flight I would be sick by the time we landed. That wouldn't bother you? I personally don't enjoy irritating people near me. But I guess we just differ.


I wouldn't irritate you on purpose. I just wouldn't give your comfort any thought when putting on my perfume. You're on a plane full of people where everyone is going to smell differently. If you are so sensitive that being around other people would make you sick, perhaps you should stay at home.


Got it. Some of us do consider those around us. But I can see who you are.


Yeah, I'm someone who knows that trying to control everyone around me is futile.


I'm not sure I can make this any simpler for you but I'll try. Some people, clearly not you, care what effects their presence has on other people. So they wouldn't wear strong perfume before boarding a flight because that's a selfish and rude thing to do. Does that help you understand it any better? Probably not.


I understand that you think it's rude. I just disagree. It's no more rude than smelling food on the same said plane. You just think that your opinion should have a bearing on me and it just doesn't. Sorry to disappoint.


No, I just think we (should) live in a civilized society. You can disagree with that all you want.

Also, there's a reason they don't serve particularly smelly foods on an airplane. And yeah, if you bring a can of anchovies to snack on while you're flying, you're being rude and selfish. But it's clear you don't care about that.
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Flabby asses in spandex . Just no
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Anonymous wrote:I try to push myself when these come up for me, but one I really struggle with is bad tattoos. ESP leg (any gender), sleeve (women), neck or face. I cannot understand the decision making framework that resulted in these existing for people unless maybe they have trauma?


Misspelled words and incorrect grammar. Sorry, OP, when I saw your missed apostrophe in “can’t”, my expectations of your intelligence and professionalism dipped by a fraction. I realize that I’m behind the times, and most people do not care, so I am trying not to care as well. I tell myself to let it go, but my knee jerk reflex is still there.


+1000

When you say "I could care less" or "I had to walk further" or "she had less items in her cart" I am instantly judging you.
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Anonymous wrote:People who spend inordinate amounts of time and energy worrying about how others look, dress, smell when in reality it has ZERO bearing on their life.


smell does.
-- sincerely, your airport seat neighbor.

(that includes breath)

+1k I'd tack on perfume on an airplane


Hope I sit next to you next time I fly


Why would you hope to irritate someone on purpose? I'm incredibly sensitive to smells so if you had on a very strong perfume and I had to sit next to you on a flight I would be sick by the time we landed. That wouldn't bother you? I personally don't enjoy irritating people near me. But I guess we just differ.


I wouldn't irritate you on purpose. I just wouldn't give your comfort any thought when putting on my perfume. You're on a plane full of people where everyone is going to smell differently. If you are so sensitive that being around other people would make you sick, perhaps you should stay at home.


Got it. Some of us do consider those around us. But I can see who you are.


Yeah, I'm someone who knows that trying to control everyone around me is futile.


I'm not sure I can make this any simpler for you but I'll try. Some people, clearly not you, care what effects their presence has on other people. So they wouldn't wear strong perfume before boarding a flight because that's a selfish and rude thing to do. Does that help you understand it any better? Probably not.


I understand that you think it's rude. I just disagree. It's no more rude than smelling food on the same said plane. You just think that your opinion should have a bearing on me and it just doesn't. Sorry to disappoint.


No, I just think we (should) live in a civilized society. You can disagree with that all you want.

Also, there's a reason they don't serve particularly smelly foods on an airplane. And yeah, if you bring a can of anchovies to snack on while you're flying, you're being rude and selfish. But it's clear you don't care about that.


Again, it's just your dumb opinion that people should now wear perfume. I don't have to abide by your standards of what a civilized society should be. No one put you in charge.
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Anonymous wrote:People who spend inordinate amounts of time and energy worrying about how others look, dress, smell when in reality it has ZERO bearing on their life.


smell does.
-- sincerely, your airport seat neighbor.

(that includes breath)

+1k I'd tack on perfume on an airplane


Hope I sit next to you next time I fly


Why would you hope to irritate someone on purpose? I'm incredibly sensitive to smells so if you had on a very strong perfume and I had to sit next to you on a flight I would be sick by the time we landed. That wouldn't bother you? I personally don't enjoy irritating people near me. But I guess we just differ.


I wouldn't irritate you on purpose. I just wouldn't give your comfort any thought when putting on my perfume. You're on a plane full of people where everyone is going to smell differently. If you are so sensitive that being around other people would make you sick, perhaps you should stay at home.


Got it. Some of us do consider those around us. But I can see who you are.


Then you might need to start considering to be more accepting and inclusive to other cultures who don't give a sh.. about other people and who traditionally wear perfume?


So I should be more accepting of people who don't give a sh... about me? That makes perfect sense, thank you so much for explaining.
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Anonymous wrote:I try to push myself when these come up for me, but one I really struggle with is bad tattoos. ESP leg (any gender), sleeve (women), neck or face. I cannot understand the decision making framework that resulted in these existing for people unless maybe they have trauma?


Misspelled words and incorrect grammar. Sorry, OP, when I saw your missed apostrophe in “can’t”, my expectations of your intelligence and professionalism dipped by a fraction. I realize that I’m behind the times, and most people do not care, so I am trying not to care as well. I tell myself to let it go, but my knee jerk reflex is still there.


+1000

When you say "I could care less" or "I had to walk further" or "she had less items in her cart" I am instantly judging you.



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Anonymous wrote:Things I am snobby/judgy about:

Long and decorated nails

Overly perfumed/scented

Brunettes with streaky blonde highlights

Goatees

Rubber wedding rings



Why this? The people I know who wear them are in physically demanding jobs and a metal ring would cause issues.
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Anonymous wrote:People who spend inordinate amounts of time and energy worrying about how others look, dress, smell when in reality it has ZERO bearing on their life.


smell does.
-- sincerely, your airport seat neighbor.

(that includes breath)

+1k I'd tack on perfume on an airplane


Hope I sit next to you next time I fly


Why would you hope to irritate someone on purpose? I'm incredibly sensitive to smells so if you had on a very strong perfume and I had to sit next to you on a flight I would be sick by the time we landed. That wouldn't bother you? I personally don't enjoy irritating people near me. But I guess we just differ.


I wouldn't irritate you on purpose. I just wouldn't give your comfort any thought when putting on my perfume. You're on a plane full of people where everyone is going to smell differently. If you are so sensitive that being around other people would make you sick, perhaps you should stay at home.


Got it. Some of us do consider those around us. But I can see who you are.


Then you might need to start considering to be more accepting and inclusive to other cultures who don't give a sh.. about other people and who traditionally wear perfume?


So I should be more accepting of people who don't give a sh... about me? That makes perfect sense, thank you so much for explaining.


You have no control over what people wear. You're pissing in the wind. This is a you problem.
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