| I try to push myself when these come up for me, but one I really struggle with is bad tattoos. ESP leg (any gender), sleeve (women), neck or face. I cannot understand the decision making framework that resulted in these existing for people unless maybe they have trauma? |
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Any tattoos
Coughing sneezing yawning without putting your hand over your mouth Not looking someone in the eye and acknowledging them / saying hello Open toe shoes at the office or any formal event People who expect to crawl over you or vice versa to get to their seat on an airplane or train. No, the person at the aisle gets up. Anyone overweight |
| Smoking. It’s disgusting and so unhealthy and unattractive. I judge anyone who smokes. |
| People who do not wear undergarments or slimmers. No one wants to see your lumpy butt and gut. |
| Trump voters |
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Moving in/moving in with the new BF/GF after divorce when there are still children living at home. I feel like you can do it if the kids are very young (5 and under) or out of the house entirely, but it’s way too disruptive for school-age kids. Even teens.
People who make politics their entire personality, and this goes for people of any political persuasion. Social media hustlers, people who add everyone and their mother so they get a huge network of people and then they start spamming with their “courses,” “e-books,” or whatever sketchy MLM product they’re selling. Swingers, “poly” people, or anyone else who makes sex the central aspect of their lives. Doubly so if they have kids. |
| Tattoos and piercings disgust me. Any unnatural color in someone’s hair like pink or blue. A very well-dressed designer clad woman with every hair in place. |
| I like how OP prefaces the title about trying to vanquish her snobbery of tattoos and then goes right into the trauma that must lead people into getting tattoos. Work on yourself OP. |
| I try hard too, but tattoos and certain accents. I’m from Baltimore so I’m thinking the accent people have in Dundalk or Glen burnie, etc. |
| I'm really a snob about people who are proudly ignorant with no curiosity. I don't think I'll get over it. There are too many opportunities to learn these days. |
Ha! I judge people who wear these things. Life is too short to squeeze yourself into these things. Stop hating your body. |
| Obese people. People who talk with food in their mouth. Constant interrupters, know-it-alls, and braggarts. Face tatos, bad tattoos in general, people who wear MAGA crap, cowboy boots on Asians, midwestern accents, people who are in the military... |
Strange assumption. I'm poly but it's just a minor aspect of my life. |
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