They say in heaven, love comes first. |
This is a very, very silly post. American and European are not a dichotomy. Theist and Atheist are a dichotomy. One believes in a god, one does not. "woman" is essentially the same word as "a-man". It's the same concept in the dichotomy of man and woman. So your example is a point against your position. "Atheism" is not rebellious in any way. Maybe you mean "Anti-theist"? And BTW, not believing in a god is not inherently rebellious as that is the default position. You expose your presuppositions with this point. "Humanist" and "secular" have completely different meanings than Atheist. Please tell me you do not need this explained, but if you do, I am willing. Overall a very bad post which does not support your silly position at all. |
DP here -- please explain it to me. I consider myself atheist, humanist and secular. Atheist because I am not a theist (I don't believe in God). Humanist, because I believe in the power of humans, not gods, which I do not believe exist, and secular because I do not practice a religion. All three connote lack of religion. I tend to call myself atheist, but answer to humanist and secular as well. |
A lack of religion? Perhaps, if one is unfamiliar with the origins of secularism and humanism. |
| Someone is obsessed with asking questions about atheists. |
And so many believers are obbessed with the notion of a supernatural being watching over them who will allow them to live eternally, if they're good while they are here on Earth. |
Seriously dude? Your own question illustrates that they mean different things. WTF could you possibly be asking? anyway Humanist: a person having a strong interest in or concern for human welfare, values, and dignity. a person devoted to or versed in the humanities. Secular: in contemporary English, secular is primarily used to distinguish something (such as an attitude, belief, or position) that is not specifically religious or sectarian in nature (for example, music with no religious connection or affiliation might be described as "secular"). |
I'm asking if you can be all three and apparently the answer is yes, at least according to you. It also sounds like a religious person can also be a humanist, if these definitions are correct. |
Yes you can be all three. But that was not the question asked nor the point in response. It was about using those words instead of the word atheist as if they were synonymous. I can also be female, red-haired and republican, are they also synonyms? I know people don’t like to click the button and read the whole thread for context here but jeesh. |
The words female, red-haired and republican are not related. The words secular, humanist and atheist are related, and are often used interchangeably. |
No, they are NOT used interchangeably, and their different definitions have been posted above. They are not synonyms. How hard is this to understand? |
Yes, they are often used interchangeably. maybe not correctly, but interchangeably. Who even mentioned the word "synonyms"? YOU, that's who. You understand that, right? |
This. I don’t feel comforted by the idea of a higher power and I’ve never felt the need to introduce that idea to my kids. Regarding death, I’ve taught them that everything that lives, dies. It’s a fact. Plants die - even trees that may live for centuries eventually die. Bugs die, pets die, people die. Sometimes we are very very sad when something or someone dies. It’s okay to be sad. Regarding what happens when people/animals die, I’ve said that no one really knows but of people have different ideas about it. I haven’t done a good job of explaining “nothing” but I have explained that I don’t think people go to other physical or non physical places. I don’t believe in ghosts, and angels are nice to pretend about. So are fairies and mermaids and dragons. We talk a lot about gratitude, kindness, and generosity, and we try to model those things. I find a lot of solace in nature and we try to share that with the kids, as well as learning things we can do to feel comforted - a warm bath, a good book in a cozy blanket, tea with honey, feeling the warmth of the sun on our bodies on a cold day, moving our bodies, listening to music, making art. |
Yep. I also acknowledge what happens to bodies after people die can seem creepy or gross or strange. My oldest is pretty weirded out by the idea of cremation, which I get. I’m pretty weirded out by the idea of burial. |
“Maybe not correctly”? I rest my case. |