S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, didn't it ever bother you when he talked about his love of killing animals for fun? I mean, isn't that sick?

OP here: he never told me he loved to kill them for fun. He told me he hunts deer, duck, goose, etc. for meat.

No, OP, you said that he told you he was going to hunt bobcats, and that didn't bother you at all. You weren't bothered until he didn't call you when he said he would. If he had called, you would have been fine. AND he attends "coonhound competitions". Go ahead and google coonhound hunting. That is a sick, sick sport.

I can't wrap my head around being OK with someone who does that. But I guess if he can't get/hold down a real job, he probably does it to make himself feel powerful and important, right?

[Anonymous]

He originally told you they hunt bobcats with their "hounds". So he essentially told you that he was going to sic his dog(s) on a non-edible woodland animal and kill it, and you are totally OK with that.

Did you ever wonder what would happen if he got really angry and his gun was closer at hand than his phone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He originally told you they hunt bobcats with their "hounds". So he essentially told you that he was going to sic his dog(s) on a non-edible woodland animal and kill it, and you are totally OK with that.

Did you ever wonder what would happen if he got really angry and his gun was closer at hand than his phone?

I think it's been made pretty clear OP isn't the brightest bulb around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He originally told you they hunt bobcats with their "hounds". So he essentially told you that he was going to sic his dog(s) on a non-edible woodland animal and kill it, and you are totally OK with that.

Did you ever wonder what would happen if he got really angry and his gun was closer at hand than his phone?

OP Here: I know nothing about hunting at all so I have no idea what these competitions consist of besides what you are telling me.

& yes, the thought has crossed my mind as I know how many shot guys/rifles he has

[Anonymous]

OP, out of curiosity, how many shotguns/rifles does he have?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He originally told you they hunt bobcats with their "hounds". So he essentially told you that he was going to sic his dog(s) on a non-edible woodland animal and kill it, and you are totally OK with that.

Did you ever wonder what would happen if he got really angry and his gun was closer at hand than his phone?

OP Here: I know nothing about hunting at all so I have no idea what these competitions consist of besides what you are telling me.

& yes, the thought has crossed my mind as I know how many shot guys/rifles he has

You aren't going to stay friends with/in contact with him, right? There is absolutely no need to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A coonhound competition. Christ in a chariot driven sidecar.

More like poonhound, amirite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, out of curiosity, how many shotguns/rifles does he have?

OP here: I think 6 if I remember correctly

[Anonymous]

OP, are you still talking to him? What was the resolution to the conversation?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A coonhound competition. Christ in a chariot driven sidecar.

More like poonhound, amirite?

Holy cow I am supposed to be seeing patients and I am hiding in the call room snorting with laughter!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you still talking to him? What was the resolution to the conversation?

OP here: we are still on the phone. Just discussing everything that happened and trying to get some answers but just keeps telling me how sorry he is and how he's sorry he hurt me and blah blah blah. I told him that we are done and he said he understands but doesn't want that, etc. etc.

[Anonymous]

Did you respond to the allegation that there was an eerily similar story on another site with your writing style, op? I've been on your side but that was kind of sketchy..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you still talking to him? What was the resolution to the conversation?

OP here: we are still on the phone. Just discussing everything that happened and trying to get some answers but just keeps telling me how sorry he is and how he's sorry he hurt me and blah blah blah. I told him that we are done and he said he understands but doesn't want that, etc. etc.

OP Show, don't tell.

[Anonymous]

OP, just out of curiosity (and because I've never been able to keep my temper in check long enough to ask a real hunter this myself): can you ask him exactly what he enjoys about killing animals? Like, does he get a thrill from seeing it flinch as he shoots into it, or does he get a warm fuzzy feeling when he sees his "hounds" flushing out an animal to kill?

I've always wondered about the psychology of hunting/hunters.

[Anonymous]

Can the anti-hunters take it somewhere else? That aspect is boring.