Friends just a card. Close family members you can't attend send maybe $300. |
My parents were first generation Italian and we were in NY. When their parents died, I remember them receiving cards from friends and and was surprised by how many had cash. It was definitely a cultural thing. |
I do what I want and not' what some people
say. Everyone can use money but I guess if you have plenty of it you're be offended but how sad. Never heard of such a thing in my life that people don't appreciate a card with a gift of love in side. If you don't appreciate my thought of love that's your problem then you should let people know that you don't want it. Most people do what they have grown up and seen other's do. The way this world is going you should be glade to get what ever someone gives you. |