Married NY Times sports reporter viral after being busted allegedly having an affair with married NFL coach

Anonymous
She broke a main rule of her career. I would not want her in my employ.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She broke a main rule of her career. I would not want her in my employ.


They’re all sleeping with players, coaches, and execs. Gold digger jersey chasers get into this profession looking for husbands. Some get lucky, some have to settle for some average shmuck.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.


And he’s the face of a 5 billion dollar team in a 300 billion dollar pro league. He has no integrity. He is honestly a disgrace.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She broke a main rule of her career. I would not want her in my employ.


He was allegedly using her to repeatedly traffic fake negative rumors about players to benefit him and his team via trades and signings. That’s deeply unethical; it’s cheating.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.



Excuses.

Not one thread trashing a guy having an affair.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


Strawman. Literally no one said she's a "helpless victim".

The rabid attacks on women (by other women) is repulsive.

Why do you feel the need to go after these strangers and judge/jury them?



She massively effed up. She owned it, why can't you?


I'm not talking about her behavior.

I'm talking about the repulsive vultures who get off on trashing women.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Another woman? Please. It’s pretty rare that women are taken down over things like this. How many can you actually name?


The Coldplay lady seemed to take a lot more heat than the man.

Amanda Batula is getting more heat than West Wilson.

Those are both current.


A few rare women. This is not a trend and by far more men’s careers are ruined. It’s only fair that women get to play by the same rules.


I have no problem with people playing by the same rules, which doesn't seem to be happening here or in the other cases above. Those women were demonized more than the men.

If you take a famous man and a no-name woman, then sure, the public fallout is going to be greater for the famous man because no one cares about the no-name woman.

In the examples above, both couples had the same level of fame (or lack thereof) and the woman got way more slaughtered.

Society absolutely holds woman to a higher standard than men. It's wild that you can't acknowledge that.


it's wild you're using this case to make your point. She quit because she knows she was in the wrong. Take it up with her.


You seem to have a pretty hard time grasping the point here. I'm not saying she isn't in the wrong. I'm not even saying she shouldn't be more "in trouble" than Vrabel in this case, given the difference in their careers. But I think she's in far more "trouble" than he is, and part of that is due to the fact that women are blamed more than men in these situations.

If Kamala Harris had had three husbands, she wouldn't have even been the presidential candidate. Meanwhile, look who's in the Oval Office.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


That's not remotely the point.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.


And he’s the face of a 5 billion dollar team in a 300 billion dollar pro league. He has no integrity. He is honestly a disgrace.


I agree with you. It's always the woman that takes all the ramifications professionally and personally, while the men just get to trot on with life as if nothing happened.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


Strawman. Literally no one said she's a "helpless victim".

The rabid attacks on women (by other women) is repulsive.

Why do you feel the need to go after these strangers and judge/jury them?



She massively effed up. She owned it, why can't you?


I'm not talking about her behavior.

I'm talking about the repulsive vultures who get off on trashing women.



Lol as if nobody trashes men. Come on.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.


And he’s the face of a 5 billion dollar team in a 300 billion dollar pro league. He has no integrity. He is honestly a disgrace.


I agree with you. It's always the woman that takes all the ramifications professionally and personally, while the men just get to trot on with life as if nothing happened.


So much hyberbole. None of what you are saying is remotely true.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Another woman? Please. It’s pretty rare that women are taken down over things like this. How many can you actually name?


The Coldplay lady seemed to take a lot more heat than the man.

Amanda Batula is getting more heat than West Wilson.

Those are both current.


A few rare women. This is not a trend and by far more men’s careers are ruined. It’s only fair that women get to play by the same rules.


I have no problem with people playing by the same rules, which doesn't seem to be happening here or in the other cases above. Those women were demonized more than the men.

If you take a famous man and a no-name woman, then sure, the public fallout is going to be greater for the famous man because no one cares about the no-name woman.

In the examples above, both couples had the same level of fame (or lack thereof) and the woman got way more slaughtered.

Society absolutely holds woman to a higher standard than men. It's wild that you can't acknowledge that.


it's wild you're using this case to make your point. She quit because she knows she was in the wrong. Take it up with her.


You seem to have a pretty hard time grasping the point here. I'm not saying she isn't in the wrong. I'm not even saying she shouldn't be more "in trouble" than Vrabel in this case, given the difference in their careers. But I think she's in far more "trouble" than he is, and part of that is due to the fact that women are blamed more than men in these situations.

If Kamala Harris had had three husbands, she wouldn't have even been the presidential candidate. Meanwhile, look who's in the Oval Office.


You have no point that’s why nobody is grasping it. Women get away with just as much if not worse all the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


+1. It's gross paternalism to think that she can't be held accountable for her actions.


GMAFB.

It's sexist to always focus on the woman, not the man, in these situations.



This is different situation. She is a reporter apparently hooking up with a source/subject/in the know on the one thing she reports. She is married and has been accused of this before.


And he’s the face of a 5 billion dollar team in a 300 billion dollar pro league. He has no integrity. He is honestly a disgrace.


I agree with you. It's always the woman that takes all the ramifications professionally and personally, while the men just get to trot on with life as if nothing happened.


You're both just wrong here though. For him it truly is just having to deal with the family implications. She can never be a "real" journalist again and it would be the same if it was a "he" as well. There are many faces of big companies with infidelity male/female that get worked out internally. It's quite different when you're sleeping with a source.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like the gossip vultures are after another woman.

Gross.


Stop trying to make the woman the helpless victim. She put herself in the situation where her professionalism and reporting is now questionable. She's a journalist covering him not the other way around.


Strawman. Literally no one said she's a "helpless victim".

The rabid attacks on women (by other women) is repulsive.

Why do you feel the need to go after these strangers and judge/jury them?



She massively effed up. She owned it, why can't you?


Read her resignation letter again. She doesn't take any responsibility (aka own it) at all.


She doesn't like it, but she's not waiting for them to fire her so she can have her wrongful termination lawsuit. She knows she's in the wrong.
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