Why do people get so much angrier at women having babies over 45 than men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m an LDS mom of twelve, had first at 19, and last at 46. People truly suck, and need to stop judging, there’s nothing wrong with being an older or younger mom.

You are simple.
There is nothing romantic about having that many kids.
Let me guess, you made the oldest daughter into the household servant and nanny?!
It really is horrid to see a 7 year old drag a baby around, lot good for the baby, definitely should not be the duty of the other kids to parent.

I have heard harrowing tales from young people who grew up in homes like this.

A woman is not a baby machine. The planet is already over populated.
Nobody should do what you did

I think the excess hate of older moms is equal to hate of large families.

This woman survived having twelve babies, and seems happy with her decision. What is wrong with a woman choosing to have twelve babies? Why are you so angry about that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The older the woman, the more likely the baby or she will have serious complications at birth or for the rest of their lives. A neighbor went through many IVF cycles and finally had a baby at 47. The baby as cerebral palsy and is partially blind. The husband left one year after the baby was born because it was "too much" for him.

It is true risks increase but many, many kids of older moms are fine and healthy. Increased risk does not mean guaranteed problems.

Some of you are really perverse. It's like you want older moms to be punished. Sick.

They sacrificed their careers for nothing, so they have to convince themselves that their sacrifice was worth it because it means their kids are healthier. They hate to see the children of “older” moms thriving.

Your feelings and views are only true for those who value a career as a priority

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m an LDS mom of twelve, had first at 19, and last at 46. People truly suck, and need to stop judging, there’s nothing wrong with being an older or younger mom.

You are simple.
There is nothing romantic about having that many kids.
Let me guess, you made the oldest daughter into the household servant and nanny?!
It really is horrid to see a 7 year old drag a baby around, lot good for the baby, definitely should not be the duty of the other kids to parent.

I have heard harrowing tales from young people who grew up in homes like this.

A woman is not a baby machine. The planet is already over populated.
Nobody should do what you did

I think the excess hate of older moms is equal to hate of large families.

This woman survived having twelve babies, and seems happy with her decision. What is wrong with a woman choosing to have twelve babies? Why are you so angry about that?

It is not so romantic for the kids