Former WIHT morning radio personality Peter "Kane" Diebler has passed away

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Anonymous wrote:Danni and Sarah both missed the mark here. Danni more so but Sarah’s podcast was cringe worthy as well.

No they didn’t. They don’t need to prove anything .

Their hearts goes out to the girls. What else could they say. He was an asshole.

They could say their hearts go out to the girls. Period. Full stop.

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Anonymous wrote:Danni and Sarah both missed the mark here. Danni more so but Sarah’s podcast was cringe worthy as well.

No they didn’t. They don’t need to prove anything .

Their hearts goes out to the girls. What else could they say. He was an asshole.

They could say their hearts go out to the girls. Period. Full stop.

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Plus weren’t they really close to Natasha? Neither thought it would be easier on her to just not disrespect him?

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Anonymous wrote:Natasha posted. Nice words.

What's her IG?

@mspinkmonster

https://www.instagram.com/p/CMM7PK0n1T3/

mspinkmonster
Thankyou all for the incredible outpouring of love, kind words & support for us. I’m once again floored by the amount of genuine love that can come from strangers. (Well, not really “strangers” but you know what I mean) And to all of you who have texted and emailed me, I’m sorry I haven’t been able to respond yet but I’ve read every one and they mean so much. ❤️

While it’s no secret that we had a lot of hard times you have to understand that Peter has been a part of my life for the past 21 years. We shared a life together for a long time and I miss him terribly. He loved our girls tremendously, and they loved and needed him right back. And while I will do everything I possibly can to get them through this incredibly hard time, I know I can’t fill the space in their hearts that was just for their daddy.

We’re going to be taking this one day at a time, but one thing we know for sure is that we’ll make sure the girls never forget how much their father loved them.
1h

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Anonymous wrote:Danni and Sarah both missed the mark here. Danni more so but Sarah’s podcast was cringe worthy as well.

No they didn’t. They don’t need to prove anything .

Their hearts goes out to the girls. What else could they say. He was an asshole.

Nothing. The option was to say nothing.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Danni and Sarah both missed the mark here. Danni more so but Sarah’s podcast was cringe worthy as well.

No they didn’t. They don’t need to prove anything .

Their hearts goes out to the girls. What else could they say. He was an asshole.

Nothing. The option was to say nothing.

Yup. They could say nothing, or simply wish the best for his daughters. Instead both chose to make a man’s death about them. No wonder they get along so well.

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Geez Danni couldn’t tone down the trash to save her life. She’s disgusting.

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What is the time stamp on the podcast? I can't listen to a whole nother hour about Harry and Meghan. Or do I have the wrong podcast?

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They have the right to speak about it just like the next person is sucking up to him.

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Anonymous wrote:What is the time stamp on the podcast? I can't listen to a whole nother hour about Harry and Meghan. Or do I have the wrong podcast?

IJ linked it in his stories

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Anonymous wrote:Sarah Fraser posted a new episode of her podcast where she briefly touched on Kane’s death. Not appropriate or classy IMO, she expresses condolences for his daughters and says she hopes he found peace, but also mentioned how it was toxic working with him near the end of her time on the show and that she’s spoken on what happened before if anyone wants to do a deep dive. I found that to be so tacky and tone deaf. Even his ex wife - there are news articles published about how bad that relationship was - was classy and mentioned they had hard times without going into detail. Bad look for Sarah. She would’ve been better off saying nothing at all.

Taking a “deep dive”? Yeah, their drama is old and the man has died...that’s exploiting the tragedy, although maybe it’s unintentional and just tone deaf. All of the people who fell oitceith him got a lot of mileage from it; I don’t follow them so have no idea if their time with him benefited their careers. Regardless, now is not the time.

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*fell out with him ^^

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Anonymous wrote:what was danni's post. i think her IG is private.

If you have ever been abused by a person in power you will understand her messsage. I thought it was well said. Her IG is not private FTR.

What was her abuse? Kane (verbally) checked her for having an attitude when he was too loud for her tastes and HR didn’t give in to her when she threw a fit about it. Or was it when she sent a d*ck pic to Kane’s phone as a joke and then said Kane used that as leverage? Wow, such shocking abuse. Come talk to me when you know what real abuse is, not this fluff nonsense.

He showed up at her house with fried chicken and watermelon *
He didn’t think it was wrong for a white man to consider having sex with a black woman referred to “monkey seX”
D photo was wrong And accused her of something she didn’t do. He asked for the photo to be sent to him and quickly used it as leverage to fire her.
He is no saint

She’s so saint either. But the fact is, that drama has been done for years. She could’ve just kept her mouth shut and moved on.

There is so much more to it than that. If you read through the comments on her post there are former interns who are thanking her for saying what they couldn't. It was well known, but hidden.

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Anonymous wrote:They have the right to speak about it just like the next person is sucking up to him.

And we have the right to judge them.

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Why Danni. Even Natasha posted something short and sweet. I understand that he had issues but he also has children who are left behind who will grow up to see this . WOW

I was privy to the knowledge that Kane passed away before it went public. It has been a lot to process. A lot. I knew what would follow such news. My phone would blow up and my DMs over run with people who “love to hear your thoughts.” My thoughts are complicated. My heart breaks for Sam and Sophie. They have joined the fatherless daughter club and it’s awful. I had a complicated father who didn’t always get it right, I loved him anyways. I pray that they heal from all the trauma and I hold so much space for Nat. What she has endured and what she will have to endure is unimaginable. I feel anger. Death doesn’t absolve people from the awful things they did while they were alive. Some people’s heroes are other people’s villains. Duality. I feel empathy for the fans and people who loved and knew a different version of Kane. Their pain is real and so is mine. It is infuriating to read memorials from people who knew the Kane that I knew and who even experienced similar things as me. Why people choose to romanticize who people were after they die, I don’t know, but it is very much triggering to victims. I hold space for the many women who had to move forward without apologies and zero accountability taken. The women who have had to heal from abuse the public couldn’t imagine. I’m appalled at giant media companies who were fully aware of the help he needed but instead chose millions and capitalism over helping someone who was clearly in need of help. I made a commitment to myself to no longer self-abandon. I have done too much of that in my life and a lot of that was in the way I allowed myself to be treated in media, by Kane and by Iheart. With that said, I could and would never celebrate anyone’s death and I also refuse to romanticize or grieve my abuser. I do want to thank Kane for an important life lesson. I am dedicated to living my life in a way that when I do go, I will not be the monster in anyone’s life story. Sending love and light to you all but especially to Kane’s mother and his children.

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A lot of people asked for Danni and Sarah’s opinion. Their reality (and Mel’s, and Nat’s) was that he was a complicated, narcissistic, controlling man. He admitted he suffered from mental illnesses, and that there were actions he regretted as a result. Danni acknowledging his flaws in relation to her, while still saying she hopes his girls and family are well, is probably the best she can do right now. She’s endured a lot of trauma, most of which not connected to Kane, but her interactions with him triggered responses in her. As Natasha said, she struggled with him, but knows her loved their daughters. That’s about as good as she and Danni can get.