You don't understand striver culture at all. |
sigh. Please go back to like page 1 and look at the replies from people saying that choosing TJ because you think it will max your chances of an Ivy admit is stupid. Yes, many kids at TJ are aiming at Ivy/Ivy+ or other top schools. Many also are aiming at UVA or Tech because they are great schools at affordable sticker tags. If you're UMC the Ivy/Ivy+ schools are giving you $0 in almost all cases. $90K a year may not be affordable for all kids that could be in that tier of schools and so they're going to need to look elsewhere. Pick TJ if your kid wants a really high-academics peer group and enjoy the challenge of it. Don't pick it if the only reason your kid is going is to maximize college targets - that's going to backfire if that's all you/they want out of it. |
NP: so you want this for your 9-12th grader but don’t care about this for your young adult? |
You don't think UVA has a high end academics peer group? It might not be uniformly high end but 25% of UVA students that submitted SATs got a 1540 or better on the SAT. |
The person said don’t pick TJ to maximize college targets. Lots of TJ kids don’t get into TJ. And thanks for the (bolded) chuckle. Those UVA kids are the same riff raff you looked down on as being not a high enough peer group at the base schools for your TJ kids |
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You realize there are a lot of schools across the county right? And yes there are smart kids at all of them. But there is nowhere that has the vibe of TJ. I’m not looking down on anyone. I have one kid at TJ and one kid at base (who had no interest in going and I agree its vibe would have been a bad fit for him). It is about whether the school is a good fit for a specific kid - just like college selection is about fit for a given kid not a one size fits all answer. |
It’s absurd to say you picked TJ for the academic peer group because you are also saying the academic peer group at the base school was inferior and: Many/most tj kids will end up at the same colleges as the tj kids - do you then think your kid is superior or now can fit in with those kids academically? If a base kid gets into an top ranked college over a tj applicant, is that base kid all of a sudden an academic peer of the tj kids or above the tj kid academically? |
I'm a different poster. Ithink UVA has more than enough highly academic kids to provide a good peer group. |
Which college doesn’t? |
Thank you. |
Radford, ODU, Christopher Newport or NOVA |
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Sooo... To summarize this 15 page thread... The average TJ kid is just too bright to ever find a peer group in a base HS, however he/she might not even make it into college with those same kids. But that's OK, because we have so many anecdotes here that one should feel confident that someday in some interview, someone will take him/ her to lunch because of the mutual HS connection! Wow. OK!
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Please come off your high horse. Do you really think this? Lots of your “yes to UVA academic peers but ew to NOVA peers” are NOVA grads who transferred to UVA from NOVA on a guaranteed admission track. NOVA grads also go places like w&m (guaranteed transfer), Princeton (one is there and also a Rhodes Scholar), or Oxford, gtown (in fact, there is a possible direct path to Gtown for a student nominated by NOVA for Gtown to consider), etc. https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2022/11/10/elite-universities-aim-to-increase-community-college-transfer-students-via-new-pipeline/ - i’m a NOVA adjunct faculty and we have students attend the school who also attend prestigious universities elsewhere full time. Some for credit and some for courses for graduate school like premed. Are these NOVA students peers or also beneath tj kids? |
Why do you have such a chip on your shoulder? You seem to be trying to find offense and look for insult where there is none. Our base school is a mid range one in FCPS. I like it. DC #2 is doing great there and it’s a good fit for him. For DC1 though she did not feel like she fit in well and did not like the base school. At TJ she found her fit. She has grown a lot the last few years because of the confidence of being somewhere she felt comfortable at and that was a good match FOR HER. It was never about us looking down on the bare school and we did not push her to go - she WANTED to go and try for the challenge and the fresh start there. Lots of TJ kids have a similar experience. Could she have found her people at base and are there some really smart kids there too. Yes of course. It’s not all or nothing. But she did not want to stay and the move I think ended up being a really positive experience for her. Now on to college. UVA has tons of very smart kids. So does W&M and kids in Tech’s engineering program for instance too. So do a wide variety of SLACs across the country. They are pulling together those smart kids from schools across VA and beyond. Ivy does not have a lock on smart kids just as TJ had no monopoly on them. Once again - it is about finding the right fit for this next stage of life. I am sure you will find some reason to find offense here but believe it or not most TJ parents are not looking down on their base schools and it is not uncommon for families to have one kid at TJ and one at base since their kids are not identical in needs/personalities. |