Riverbend FC

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

People go to watch a circus for entertainment.

[Anonymous]

No one is "worried". We are nosy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

That makes no sense. Of course people are going to comment on this if they are connected to GFR. Are you new here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

People go to watch a circus for entertainment.

Plus even a clown can cause damage if enough people listen to him — just look at last spring.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

People go to watch a circus for entertainment.

why pay for a circus when dcum is here for free?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

Someone needs to pull back the curtain on the Great Oz.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are the GFR coaches who are leaving for RBFC?

All I am aware of are the two dad coaches who are also the club founders. Not sure they were even on GFR's payroll.

What's amazing is that all these people are saying GFR is better, stronger, more organized and better run but you keep posting on this Riverbend thread.

If you're so happy and no coaches, families or players are leaving, go to the GFR page and keep saying how good it is and how happy you are. If GFR was what you guys are saying, you wouldn't even worry about RBFC or what club it'll be connected to.

Legit I just want to know what their plan is. I am far from "worried" - just more intrigued. It's a slow news time of the year in the travel soccer world.

[Anonymous]

Every day they'll post a "we are coming" and "the phoenix is rising" post for GFR folks to talk about it.

If no one talks about it and you aren't "intrigued" because you aren't worried that...

1. Part of your kid's team will leave
2. You'll miss something new and shiny
3. You aren't their "in" crowd
4. You won't get the new badge on your kid's shirt to show off to all your friends

This club would form and just be another local club not to worry and be intrigued by it.

Are you intrigued with what Sterling is doing? HYS? Loudoun? NO but as much as you hate to admit it, you're "worried" friends might leave or their thing might be shinier than yours.

It's OK to admit it, it's the holiday season

[Anonymous]

Why do they keep posting without actually including any information.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Every day they'll post a "we are coming" and "the phoenix is rising" post for GFR folks to talk about it.

If no one talks about it and you aren't "intrigued" because you aren't worried that...

1. Part of your kid's team will leave
2. You'll miss something new and shiny
3. You aren't their "in" crowd
4. You won't get the new badge on your kid's shirt to show off to all your friends

This club would form and just be another local club not to worry and be intrigued by it.

Are you intrigued with what Sterling is doing? HYS? Loudoun? NO but as much as you hate to admit it, you're "worried" friends might leave or their thing might be shinier than yours.

It's OK to admit it, it's the holiday season

Incorrect.

1. I have ZERO worry anyone on my DD’s team would leave for this. They all saw first hand how much damage (fmr director) ML’s leadership can do last spring. None of them would volunteer for that.

2. I have no concern I’ll miss something new and shiny bc (a) I know who’s leading this and (b) tried and tested is better.

3. It doesn’t bother me not to be in the country club “in” crowd although the fact that there is an “in” crowd probably tells you everything you need to know about this new club.

4. I’m not worried about a badge for my DD’s jersey — she can go to tryouts just like anyone else.

I am interested in watching this little vanity project crash and burn. I have no reason to feel the same way about Sterling, HYS, or Loudon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every day they'll post a "we are coming" and "the phoenix is rising" post for GFR folks to talk about it.

If no one talks about it and you aren't "intrigued" because you aren't worried that...

1. Part of your kid's team will leave
2. You'll miss something new and shiny
3. You aren't their "in" crowd
4. You won't get the new badge on your kid's shirt to show off to all your friends

This club would form and just be another local club not to worry and be intrigued by it.

Are you intrigued with what Sterling is doing? HYS? Loudoun? NO but as much as you hate to admit it, you're "worried" friends might leave or their thing might be shinier than yours.

It's OK to admit it, it's the holiday season

Incorrect.

1. I have ZERO worry anyone on my DD’s team would leave for this. They all saw first hand how much damage (fmr director) ML’s leadership can do last spring. None of them would volunteer for that.

2. I have no concern I’ll miss something new and shiny bc (a) I know who’s leading this and (b) tried and tested is better.

3. It doesn’t bother me not to be in the country club “in” crowd although the fact that there is an “in” crowd probably tells you everything you need to know about this new club.

4. I’m not worried about a badge for my DD’s jersey — she can go to tryouts just like anyone else.

I am interested in watching this little vanity project crash and burn. I have no reason to feel the same way about Sterling, HYS, or Loudon.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every day they'll post a "we are coming" and "the phoenix is rising" post for GFR folks to talk about it.

If no one talks about it and you aren't "intrigued" because you aren't worried that...

1. Part of your kid's team will leave
2. You'll miss something new and shiny
3. You aren't their "in" crowd
4. You won't get the new badge on your kid's shirt to show off to all your friends

This club would form and just be another local club not to worry and be intrigued by it.

Are you intrigued with what Sterling is doing? HYS? Loudoun? NO but as much as you hate to admit it, you're "worried" friends might leave or their thing might be shinier than yours.

It's OK to admit it, it's the holiday season

Incorrect.

1. I have ZERO worry anyone on my DD’s team would leave for this. They all saw first hand how much damage (fmr director) ML’s leadership can do last spring. None of them would volunteer for that.

2. I have no concern I’ll miss something new and shiny bc (a) I know who’s leading this and (b) tried and tested is better.

3. It doesn’t bother me not to be in the country club “in” crowd although the fact that there is an “in” crowd probably tells you everything you need to know about this new club.

4. I’m not worried about a badge for my DD’s jersey — she can go to tryouts just like anyone else.

I am interested in watching this little vanity project crash and burn. I have no reason to feel the same way about Sterling, HYS, or Loudon.

Psychologically speaking, the short answer is yes, you absolutely care. In psychology, the opposite of love or interest isn't hate or "wishing for failure"—it is indifference. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't be watching at all. The project wouldn't be on your radar, and its success or failure would have zero impact on your emotional state.

The fact that you are "interested" in seeing it crash and burn means you have an emotional investment in the outcome. Here is the psychological breakdown of why that happens and what it means to "care" in this context:

1. The Phenomenon of Schadenfreude
You are likely experiencing Schadenfreude—a German term for the pleasure, joy, or self-satisfaction comes from learning of or witnessing the troubles, failures, or humiliation of others.

Why we feel it: It usually happens when we perceive someone as superior, "stuck up," or undeserving of their position. Seeing them fail provides a momentary boost to our own self-esteem.

2. Social Comparison Theory
Psychologically, we often measure our own value by looking at those around us.

If that person’s project succeeds, it might make you feel "less than" or highlight your own perceived stagnancy.

If they fail, the "gap" between you and them closes, or you feel "ahead" again. This is a survival mechanism of the ego to protect your status within a social group.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every day they'll post a "we are coming" and "the phoenix is rising" post for GFR folks to talk about it.

If no one talks about it and you aren't "intrigued" because you aren't worried that...

1. Part of your kid's team will leave
2. You'll miss something new and shiny
3. You aren't their "in" crowd
4. You won't get the new badge on your kid's shirt to show off to all your friends

This club would form and just be another local club not to worry and be intrigued by it.

Are you intrigued with what Sterling is doing? HYS? Loudoun? NO but as much as you hate to admit it, you're "worried" friends might leave or their thing might be shinier than yours.

It's OK to admit it, it's the holiday season

We

Incorrect.

1. I have ZERO worry anyone on my DD’s team would leave for this. They all saw first hand how much damage (fmr director) ML’s leadership can do last spring. None of them would volunteer for that.

2. I have no concern I’ll miss something new and shiny bc (a) I know who’s leading this and (b) tried and tested is better.

3. It doesn’t bother me not to be in the country club “in” crowd although the fact that there is an “in” crowd probably tells you everything you need to know about this new club.

4. I’m not worried about a badge for my DD’s jersey — she can go to tryouts just like anyone else.

I am interested in watching this little vanity project crash and burn. I have no reason to feel the same way about Sterling, HYS, or Loudon.

Psychologically speaking, the short answer is yes, you absolutely care. In psychology, the opposite of love or interest isn't hate or "wishing for failure"—it is indifference. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't be watching at all. The project wouldn't be on your radar, and its success or failure would have zero impact on your emotional state.

The fact that you are "interested" in seeing it crash and burn means you have an emotional investment in the outcome. Here is the psychological breakdown of why that happens and what it means to "care" in this context:

1. The Phenomenon of Schadenfreude
You are likely experiencing Schadenfreude—a German term for the pleasure, joy, or self-satisfaction comes from learning of or witnessing the troubles, failures, or humiliation of others.

Why we feel it: It usually happens when we perceive someone as superior, "stuck up," or undeserving of their position. Seeing them fail provides a momentary boost to our own self-esteem.

2. Social Comparison Theory
Psychologically, we often measure our own value by looking at those around us.

If that person’s project succeeds, it might make you feel "less than" or highlight your own perceived stagnancy.

If they fail, the "gap" between you and them closes, or you feel "ahead" again. This is a survival mechanism of the ego to protect your status within a social group.

Now those are FACTS! I understand that some people out there believe they're a male one day, a female the next and a horse on Fridays but facts are facts!

Plenty of people want to see this new club crash and burn b/c there is no excuse for what ML did last Spring at GFR.