Disruptive student in class

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm so sick of people spewing things like mainstreaming and least restrictive environment is a bad thing. My DC has special needs and is mainstreamed. She has a language-based disability and learning disorders but is the kindest, gentlest kid and a quiet rule follower. She gets a bit of push in support but mostly extra time to do assignments and pull out for speech. She tells me that the assistant teacher who comes in to his classroom (as required in his IEP) usually ends up helping a bunch of kids and assists the main teacher as my DC works independently. She is sometimes the target of bullying but has never caused any disruption ever. She deserves to be in a LRE and mainstreamed and the clueless people spouting blanket statements of hatred of children with disabilities should look at their own kids - they can be mean and disruptive to my child's education. No child should be hitting and throwing things in a classroom - and violence should not be tolerated but give sped kids who are not disruptive a chance!

You need to calm down... if your child can manage in a mainstreamed classroom without unduly monopolizing teacher time (although as a society we could talk about the resources involved in assistants being assigned to individuals), then no one is talking about you and your child. There is a spectrum of needs and there are many, many kids who are in mainstreamed classrooms who should not be. And people should be able to say that. It is detrimental to the education of both those with special needs and those without. Our society should care about that. It is a policy that was attempted and that has gone too far in the direction of accommodating kids who should be in other school settings.

You are so full of shirte you creepy ableist nut job. Sorry there are federal laws to stop selfish jerks like you from turning public schools into your own private. You should be embarrassed by your ignorance.

Just imagine how quickly she’d change her tune if she ends up with a grandchild/great-grandchild with ASD.

No... because I understand that teachers well trained to work with kids having a specific disability will be most likely to succeed and that ASD is not helped by a chaotic violent classroom. I salute your dedication to your child, but I think you need to allow others to care about theirs as well.

+1 There is no reason for violent behavior to occur within any classroom. Special classes, teachers, and aides will likely be needed for students with behaviors that involve physical aggression towards others.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so sick of people spewing things like mainstreaming and least restrictive environment is a bad thing. My DC has special needs and is mainstreamed. She has a language-based disability and learning disorders but is the kindest, gentlest kid and a quiet rule follower. She gets a bit of push in support but mostly extra time to do assignments and pull out for speech. She tells me that the assistant teacher who comes in to his classroom (as required in his IEP) usually ends up helping a bunch of kids and assists the main teacher as my DC works independently. She is sometimes the target of bullying but has never caused any disruption ever. She deserves to be in a LRE and mainstreamed and the clueless people spouting blanket statements of hatred of children with disabilities should look at their own kids - they can be mean and disruptive to my child's education. No child should be hitting and throwing things in a classroom - and violence should not be tolerated but give sped kids who are not disruptive a chance!

You need to calm down... if your child can manage in a mainstreamed classroom without unduly monopolizing teacher time (although as a society we could talk about the resources involved in assistants being assigned to individuals), then no one is talking about you and your child. There is a spectrum of needs and there are many, many kids who are in mainstreamed classrooms who should not be. And people should be able to say that. It is detrimental to the education of both those with special needs and those without. Our society should care about that. It is a policy that was attempted and that has gone too far in the direction of accommodating kids who should be in other school settings.

You are so full of shirte you creepy ableist nut job. Sorry there are federal laws to stop selfish jerks like you from turning public schools into your own private. You should be embarrassed by your ignorance.

Do you have a child with special needs?

[Anonymous]

Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

Reasonable to file a restraining order against an eight year old? Maybe if the kid brought a knife to class. Not if they have ASD and hit someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

Reasonable to file a restraining order against an eight year old? Maybe if the kid brought a knife to class. Not if they have ASD and hit someone.

How about a nine year old who punches? I would file it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

Or move the kid whose parents got the order.

Not that they’d be able to get such an order.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

Reasonable to file a restraining order against an eight year old? Maybe if the kid brought a knife to class. Not if they have ASD and hit someone.

How about a nine year old who punches? I would file it.

You can try.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so sick of people spewing things like mainstreaming and least restrictive environment is a bad thing. My DC has special needs and is mainstreamed. She has a language-based disability and learning disorders but is the kindest, gentlest kid and a quiet rule follower. She gets a bit of push in support but mostly extra time to do assignments and pull out for speech. She tells me that the assistant teacher who comes in to his classroom (as required in his IEP) usually ends up helping a bunch of kids and assists the main teacher as my DC works independently. She is sometimes the target of bullying but has never caused any disruption ever. She deserves to be in a LRE and mainstreamed and the clueless people spouting blanket statements of hatred of children with disabilities should look at their own kids - they can be mean and disruptive to my child's education. No child should be hitting and throwing things in a classroom - and violence should not be tolerated but give sped kids who are not disruptive a chance!

You need to calm down... if your child can manage in a mainstreamed classroom without unduly monopolizing teacher time (although as a society we could talk about the resources involved in assistants being assigned to individuals), then no one is talking about you and your child. There is a spectrum of needs and there are many, many kids who are in mainstreamed classrooms who should not be. And people should be able to say that. It is detrimental to the education of both those with special needs and those without. Our society should care about that. It is a policy that was attempted and that has gone too far in the direction of accommodating kids who should be in other school settings.

You are so full of shirte you creepy ableist nut job. Sorry there are federal laws to stop selfish jerks like you from turning public schools into your own private. You should be embarrassed by your ignorance.

Just imagine how quickly she’d change her tune if she ends up with a grandchild/great-grandchild with ASD.

No... because I understand that teachers well trained to work with kids having a specific disability will be most likely to succeed and that ASD is not helped by a chaotic violent classroom. I salute your dedication to your child, but I think you need to allow others to care about theirs as well.

I don’t disagree, but I strongly suspect your idea of what constitutes “violent” would change. Particularly for a young child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to file a restraining order against a violent child in class?

No.

Why not? This seems reasonable and would require the school to send the offending student to another school.

Or move the kid whose parents got the order.

Not that they’d be able to get such an order.

The violent offender would be moved. And yes, these orders are possible.

[Anonymous]

You can pursue a "peace order" against a minor in Maryland.

https://www.womenslaw.org/laws/md/restraining...-order-against-minor

I have only ever seen it used once though. This was after a group of 6 9th graders attacked a teacher's car with the teacher inside of it just off school property in full view of neighbors. All of the students were put in night school or or home education since they weren't allowed on the school site when the teacher was working there. This was an alterative school, so there was literally no other place to send them after coming to us other than medical/therapeutical placements.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so sick of people spewing things like mainstreaming and least restrictive environment is a bad thing. My DC has special needs and is mainstreamed. She has a language-based disability and learning disorders but is the kindest, gentlest kid and a quiet rule follower. She gets a bit of push in support but mostly extra time to do assignments and pull out for speech. She tells me that the assistant teacher who comes in to his classroom (as required in his IEP) usually ends up helping a bunch of kids and assists the main teacher as my DC works independently. She is sometimes the target of bullying but has never caused any disruption ever. She deserves to be in a LRE and mainstreamed and the clueless people spouting blanket statements of hatred of children with disabilities should look at their own kids - they can be mean and disruptive to my child's education. No child should be hitting and throwing things in a classroom - and violence should not be tolerated but give sped kids who are not disruptive a chance!

No one here is talking about all SPED kids or kids like yours, but then, you already knew that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so sick of people spewing things like mainstreaming and least restrictive environment is a bad thing. My DC has special needs and is mainstreamed. She has a language-based disability and learning disorders but is the kindest, gentlest kid and a quiet rule follower. She gets a bit of push in support but mostly extra time to do assignments and pull out for speech. She tells me that the assistant teacher who comes in to his classroom (as required in his IEP) usually ends up helping a bunch of kids and assists the main teacher as my DC works independently. She is sometimes the target of bullying but has never caused any disruption ever. She deserves to be in a LRE and mainstreamed and the clueless people spouting blanket statements of hatred of children with disabilities should look at their own kids - they can be mean and disruptive to my child's education. No child should be hitting and throwing things in a classroom - and violence should not be tolerated but give sped kids who are not disruptive a chance!

We are totally not talking about your kid. Non disruptive kids who only need more attention/different way of learning are perfectly welcome. Disruptive kids aren't even that big of an issue. It's the aggressive ones who fight, beat people up, throw things and get violent.

Take a look at the demographics behind who those kids are and then get back to us about sticking them in a different school

The disruptive kids in my (multiple) kids’ classes have been almost exclusively privileged white males.

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