Anyone else not care that much about cheating?

[Anonymous]

I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

This is NOTHING new. I knew guys like this in high school and middle school. I was warned about guys like this by my brother and father and guy friends. It's pretty obvious when you meet one.

I think women want to believe anything even when the red flags are there. Also, if she doesn't value herself, he surely isn't.

If a woman is advertising she just wants sex on a website like Ashley Madison, it really shouldn't be a surprise the kind of men that will answer her add. Hell, even if she is on there saying she wants a friend and love, she's advertising for married, liars that are cheaters.

And, single ladies, COME ON!! There is not a single lady on the universe that does not know the saying 'he is never leaving his wife'. Of course, he will use you while talking out the left side of his *ss.

There are good men out there. There are good women too. Neither of them cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

Ok, this thread is totally gone off the rails by scorned women imagining what affairs look like. You aren't even close.

I had one. I liked my AP. I kinda even loved her although I am realistic enough to know it was mostly hormones talking. She was not a warm hole to me, I really liked hanging with her in non sexual ways. But of course sex was the primary activity. Her husband completely rejected her, my wife me so we definitely were great cheerleaders for each other. She even gave me some good advice on how to reignite my marriage.

We ended our affair on good terms, mostly a slow fade out. I can still get in touch with her and if she needed something I would be there for her if I could.

I know many men who have cheated. I have never heard any of them talk so disgusted about their AP. There can definitely be a disconnect between the sexes (he primarily wants sex and affection and she wants that but has more feelings) but this idea men mock or spit on their APs is the stuff of strange betrayed wives fantasy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

How long did it take you to realize this? I figured that out 25 years ago when I was 18.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

Ok, this thread is totally gone off the rails by scorned women imagining what affairs look like. You aren't even close.

I had one. I liked my AP. I kinda even loved her although I am realistic enough to know it was mostly hormones talking. She was not a warm hole to me, I really liked hanging with her in non sexual ways. But of course sex was the primary activity. Her husband completely rejected her, my wife me so we definitely were great cheerleaders for each other. She even gave me some good advice on how to reignite my marriage.

We ended our affair on good terms, mostly a slow fade out. I can still get in touch with her and if she needed something I would be there for her if I could.

I know many men who have cheated. I have never heard any of them talk so disgusted about their AP. There can definitely be a disconnect between the sexes (he primarily wants sex and affection and she wants that but has more feelings) but this idea men mock or spit on their APs is the stuff of strange betrayed wives fantasy

I have heard the locker room talk from the married men at my office. They are pigs. And, the vast majority are not like you. They pump and dump and laugh about it with friends. They even refer to the women as 'pigs'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

This is NOTHING new. I knew guys like this in high school and middle school. I was warned about guys like this by my brother and father and guy friends. It's pretty obvious when you meet one.

I think women want to believe anything even when the red flags are there. Also, if she doesn't value herself, he surely isn't.

If a woman is advertising she just wants sex on a website like Ashley Madison, it really shouldn't be a surprise the kind of men that will answer her add. Hell, even if she is on there saying she wants a friend and love, she's advertising for married, liars that are cheaters.

And, single ladies, COME ON!! There is not a single lady on the universe that does not know the saying 'he is never leaving his wife'. Of course, he will use you while talking out the left side of his *ss.

There are good men out there. There are good women too. Neither of them cheat.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

Ok, this thread is totally gone off the rails by scorned women imagining what affairs look like. You aren't even close.

I had one. I liked my AP. I kinda even loved her although I am realistic enough to know it was mostly hormones talking. She was not a warm hole to me, I really liked hanging with her in non sexual ways. But of course sex was the primary activity. Her husband completely rejected her, my wife me so we definitely were great cheerleaders for each other. She even gave me some good advice on how to reignite my marriage.

We ended our affair on good terms, mostly a slow fade out. I can still get in touch with her and if she needed something I would be there for her if I could.

I know many men who have cheated. I have never heard any of them talk so disgusted about their AP. There can definitely be a disconnect between the sexes (he primarily wants sex and affection and she wants that but has more feelings) but this idea men mock or spit on their APs is the stuff of strange betrayed wives fantasy

Dude, it’s not some figment of my imagination. Go back and read the last few pages of posts. THAT is what I was saying is depressing. Those posts.

PS - Sorry your wife won’t have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find this thread depressing. The guys hate the women. Heck, even the women here hate the women. The men seem driven by some strange compulsion to find the cheapest sex possible while disparaging the woman behind her back for being so cheap. Meanwhile to her face the man acts like the women is fine, which may cause her to like the guy, which irritates him because he only actually wants cheap, easy sex after all.

My take on this is that the men loathe themselves and their sleazy desires, but project all that shame out onto the woman and may even go so far as to call her crazy if she develops feelings for him. Not that she’s any prize, but whatever name they are calling the woman, that goes both ways here.

Ok, this thread is totally gone off the rails by scorned women imagining what affairs look like. You aren't even close.

I had one. I liked my AP. I kinda even loved her although I am realistic enough to know it was mostly hormones talking. She was not a warm hole to me, I really liked hanging with her in non sexual ways. But of course sex was the primary activity. Her husband completely rejected her, my wife me so we definitely were great cheerleaders for each other. She even gave me some good advice on how to reignite my marriage.

We ended our affair on good terms, mostly a slow fade out. I can still get in touch with her and if she needed something I would be there for her if I could.

I know many men who have cheated. I have never heard any of them talk so disgusted about their AP. There can definitely be a disconnect between the sexes (he primarily wants sex and affection and she wants that but has more feelings) but this idea men mock or spit on their APs is the stuff of strange betrayed wives fantasy

I have heard the locker room talk from the married men at my office. They are pigs. And, the vast majority are not like you. They pump and dump and laugh about it with friends. They even refer to the women as 'pigs'.

And somehow you think those men who refer to their APs or women in general as "pigs" have a lot of respect for their wives?