Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that

Agreed! Ben saw the esteem she was getting from Hustlers and thought things would be different. She was finally using PR in a beneficial manner and became acceptable in his eyes. Expect Jennifer never changed.
Ben didn't realize Arod naturally matched her energy and thats what worked so well. Now she's just clinging on as she did at the end of the relationship with Arod.

Arod had an emotional affair and she dumped him like old news yet Ben physically cheated on both her and the other Jen and she thinks he’s perfect and they’re soulmates . She still wanted to marry in the “wedding of the year” after he cheated with a stripper. Ben had to dump her hours before the wedding. I think he wanted her to dump him after stripper tryst but he realized her desperation and obsession with appearances and grandstanding when she still wanted to marry.

I think his reputation as a serious actor is more important to him than anything else, and when the Gigli reviews and this current J Lo movie and doc (all of which he starred in ) reviews came back with mockery and scorching criticism, he wants to dump her. It is chickenshit for him to do this . It proved he never really loved her or is capable of true love because real partners stick through all the ebbs and flows and through thick and thin. Bens actually been having a few flops lately before even dating Jen so I’m sure that hasn’t helped. If the Accountant 2 flops when it comes out, he’s going to blame Jennifer. Watch.

Just like he blamed Garner for his drinking problem even though he’s been drinking since he was 13

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t be surprised if she subconsciously chose the stripper movie because Ben cheated with a stripper. I kinda fear for her mental health. The clip earlier of her saying she thought she was going to die when Ben dumped her first time is very sad. If that’s what she thought in her 30’s, what does she think now that she made a big show of their love and “not going anywhere”?

[Anonymous]

She should be glad to get rid of him. He’s no prize.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that

Agreed! Ben saw the esteem she was getting from Hustlers and thought things would be different. She was finally using PR in a beneficial manner and became acceptable in his eyes. Expect Jennifer never changed.
Ben didn't realize Arod naturally matched her energy and thats what worked so well. Now she's just clinging on as she did at the end of the relationship with Arod.

Arod had an emotional affair and she dumped him like old news yet Ben physically cheated on both her and the other Jen and she thinks he’s perfect and they’re soulmates . She still wanted to marry in the “wedding of the year” after he cheated with a stripper. Ben had to dump her hours before the wedding. I think he wanted her to dump him after stripper tryst but he realized her desperation and obsession with appearances and grandstanding when she still wanted to marry.

I think his reputation as a serious actor is more important to him than anything else, and when the Gigli reviews and this current J Lo movie and doc (all of which he starred in ) reviews came back with mockery and scorching criticism, he wants to dump her. It is chickenshit for him to do this . It proved he never really loved her or is capable of true love because real partners stick through all the ebbs and flows and through thick and thin. Bens actually been having a few flops lately before even dating Jen so I’m sure that hasn’t helped. If the Accountant 2 flops when it comes out, he’s going to blame Jennifer. Watch.

Just like he blamed Garner for his drinking problem even though he’s been drinking since he was 13

I get it. We do crazy things for love but I really don't understand the obsession she has for that man and why does her mom have an obsession too? She says things like "he made me believe in myself and it came from love" HOW? In what way? Saying the right thing at the right moment isn't enough. I watched her documentary earlier today and I bothered by the blinders she has for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t be surprised if she subconsciously chose the stripper movie because Ben cheated with a stripper. I kinda fear for her mental health. The clip earlier of her saying she thought she was going to die when Ben dumped her first time is very sad. If that’s what she thought in her 30’s, what does she think now that she made a big show of their love and “not going anywhere”?

Yeah I was thinking this too. It's going to get dark with her. Ben is making it known that he's done by leaking things to People magazine too. She needs professional help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that

Agreed! Ben saw the esteem she was getting from Hustlers and thought things would be different. She was finally using PR in a beneficial manner and became acceptable in his eyes. Expect Jennifer never changed.
Ben didn't realize Arod naturally matched her energy and thats what worked so well. Now she's just clinging on as she did at the end of the relationship with Arod.

Arod had an emotional affair and she dumped him like old news yet Ben physically cheated on both her and the other Jen and she thinks he’s perfect and they’re soulmates . She still wanted to marry in the “wedding of the year” after he cheated with a stripper. Ben had to dump her hours before the wedding. I think he wanted her to dump him after stripper tryst but he realized her desperation and obsession with appearances and grandstanding when she still wanted to marry.

I think his reputation as a serious actor is more important to him than anything else, and when the Gigli reviews and this current J Lo movie and doc (all of which he starred in ) reviews came back with mockery and scorching criticism, he wants to dump her. It is chickenshit for him to do this . It proved he never really loved her or is capable of true love because real partners stick through all the ebbs and flows and through thick and thin. Bens actually been having a few flops lately before even dating Jen so I’m sure that hasn’t helped. If the Accountant 2 flops when it comes out, he’s going to blame Jennifer. Watch.

Just like he blamed Garner for his drinking problem even though he’s been drinking since he was 13

I agree his career and desire to be highly respected in the industry is his priority, as are his children and his recovery. She mattered, but she was one of several things that mattered. When her work and therefore his work were not well received, yea, he probably deeply resented her for it. And locked into that.

Also, I think he is prone to idealizing and then devaluing, (she likely is too) so in addition to blaming others for his flaws he does a hard ling drop when he kicks them off the pedestal. In all fairness though...he lived with her, he knew her and likely came in close contact with her flaws as she did with him. He knows himself and he knows her. And his ability to rationalize her bad press as coming from the outside (versus also being about who she is and her documented behaviors, including her inability to honor boundaries) was shattered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t be surprised if she subconsciously chose the stripper movie because Ben cheated with a stripper. I kinda fear for her mental health. The clip earlier of her saying she thought she was going to die when Ben dumped her first time is very sad. If that’s what she thought in her 30’s, what does she think now that she made a big show of their love and “not going anywhere”?

Yeah I was thinking this too. It's going to get dark with her. Ben is making it known that he's done by leaking things to People magazine too. She needs professional help.

He needs professional help. He gave her a ring that had “not going anywhere” engraved on it. Besides my
Wonder on how big that ring is to fit all of that, I just wonder why he reached out if he knew he’s wary of media attention.

It’s not like she went ringing down his door . He saw her body was still amazing in Hustlers, was bored Vegas was shut down during COVID, and probably was comparing notes to 20 something Ana de Armas like the pig he is. The breakup with Ana was seconds before he started hitting up J Lo again. These two are unstable and hop from relationship to relationship. His kids were trotted out for pap shots with him and Ana as well.

It’s insane he DM’d her with sympathy for Arods cheating scandal when he’s a cheat as well and she fell for it. Somethings not right with Lopezs mom either . My mom would never like someone who dumped me at the altar and ruined my career humiliating me in front of the world and taking me to borderline suicide .

He couldn’t help himself just like with the nanny. Stay away from poison like this ladies

[Anonymous]

Ben is a horrible person; he's the one looking back over his shoulder at her like, "I know, everyone, can you believe her?" Eff him.

On another note. I watched This Is Me ... Now. There is a lot of humor and self-deprecation from her. It was disappointing in the last 10 minutes, not because she claims to still want to be in love, but because you see that it's Ben who walks up and I wanted to yell Don't Do It! Also, the dancers were strong and Jen's dancing is great. It has always been her talent.

It was like an hour long music video. Cheesy but not as bad as everyone thought it would be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ben is a horrible person; he's the one looking back over his shoulder at her like, "I know, everyone, can you believe her?" Eff him.

On another note. I watched This Is Me ... Now. There is a lot of humor and self-deprecation from her. It was disappointing in the last 10 minutes, not because she claims to still want to be in love, but because you see that it's Ben who walks up and I wanted to yell Don't Do It! Also, the dancers were strong and Jen's dancing is great. It has always been her talent.

It was like an hour long music video. Cheesy but not as bad as everyone thought it would be.

The movie was nice . She’s a good actress as well. The dialogue was much better than the singing.

It was the documentary that got all the derision mostly . She says some mockery tempting quotes especially about Ben teaching her self love

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ben is a horrible person; he's the one looking back over his shoulder at her like, "I know, everyone, can you believe her?" Eff him.

On another note. I watched This Is Me ... Now. There is a lot of humor and self-deprecation from her. It was disappointing in the last 10 minutes, not because she claims to still want to be in love, but because you see that it's Ben who walks up and I wanted to yell Don't Do It! Also, the dancers were strong and Jen's dancing is great. It has always been her talent.

It was like an hour long music video. Cheesy but not as bad as everyone thought it would be.

The movie was nice . She’s a good actress as well. The dialogue was much better than the singing.

It was the documentary that got all the derision mostly . She says some mockery tempting quotes especially about Ben teaching her self love

I just watched the documentary last night. I didn’t find anything surprising. Yes, she’s a bit much, but she’s J.LO!

[Anonymous]

For all we know, they are still together and she is vacationing with kids while he sells the house, moves stuff and they settle in Europe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For all we know, they are still together and she is vacationing with kids while he sells the house, moves stuff and they settle in Europe.

What's it like to live in lala land

[Anonymous]

It’s surprisingly similar to DCUM land.

[Anonymous]

I literally have heard and read it all from you guys now. THere's nothing new to say, just rehashing the older rehash of tabloid crap.

All we need now is the announcement. The divorce announcement. Unless it happens quietly, a few months in the future (likely).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For all we know, they are still together and she is vacationing with kids while he sells the house, moves stuff and they settle in Europe.

I doubt they are still together . He moved out and the home was put on the market. One of their teams keeps leaking stuff to TMZ . Yesterday, TMZ reported they’re selling art work from their marital home

https://amp.tmz.com/2024/07/01/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-selling-art-from-home-living-separately/